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United States, Alabama, Oxford

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About Me

I bet you've been trudging through all of these profiles, one after another, some even twice, in hopes of finding and meeting that one special female. She may not be perfect, but you’re not looking for perfect. You’re looking for what you feel you deserve to have in that one special bond that makes up for your better half, in which complements you.I am an open book. I am honorable, respectful, and kind hearted. I am very compassionate to others. The Lord and my family are important in my life. And with all families as much as we love them; there is never no drama sometime; it is in how one handles the drama that counts. So, if your looking for zero drama; then you are not living life. I think with all relation's, they should start out as friends and build from there. Whats the rush? I love romance, but it isn't where, when, or how that is important... It is the surprise element that excites me and I enjoy surprising my mate as well. Even if is a favorite candy bar!! I I love to sit by the beach, watch the sunset, a small bond fire, and roasting marshmallows sounds romantic to me! Whoops I just threw one at you!! The fight is on!! Of course a nice dinner, a glass of wine, and soft music is awesome too.Wonder why that would be? As I stated above, I am an open book, but do you look at the cover or do you want to read what's inside? I have been through many storms; who has not! I will start my book in the middle, since I don't know the ending and we can learn about each others beginning later. I will start mine in the middle, in ***, when I became seriously ill. So, ICU was my home for sometime; during that time I had a 3 minute code (death). Now some people have no lasting affects from an experience like that, but God had other plans for me. Which dang it I still use, but working at drop kicking it into the Puget Sound! My glass runs over with laughter, joy, and love...! !!! Why would God give me a second chance on this earth to carry on alone? I am a Christian and my faith is very important to me. So I am looking to share my life with a man who has similar faith beliefs. If you are looking for a barbie doll, that I am not. I have warm blood flowing through my veins. If your looking for a booty call; well move on.and don't waste our time. No real loving relationship is not built on a booty call. I am looking for the real deal, so be real! God Bless and good luck on your search! Sharing new experiences together is a great way to build a connection. That’s why if we’re going out to a restaurant, it should be somewhere a little more adventurous. I think checking out a new ethnic cuisine -- something neither of us have tried before. The element of adventure will add some excitement to our first date, and, who knows, maybe the two of us will find a new favorite.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Drawing / Painting Watching Movies Italian Turkish Vietnamese Comedy
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  • Roseline from Oxford | Woman | 52 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    High energy. Loves to laugh. Good conversation, a nice glass of wine and light music. My family and friends are the most important part of my life. I have a beautiful daughter who I adore. I grew up playing sports. I enjoy everything outdoors: hiking, fishing, boating, snorkeling, skiing or just walking the beach. Golf is on my bucket list. I love all animals. They're unconditional and honest. I work-out and I live a healthy lifestyle - physically, emotionally, and spiritually.My favorite colors are Reds. Fall is my Season - I love rain, wind and candlelight dinners.Please don't make me a "Favorite" or "Meet" me. If you are interested say . . . hi.I was married for 25 years and I am looking for my next 25. Friendship, love and honesty is the key to my future. Is it yours . . . ? Breakfast on the beach, coffee at a bookstore, walking in the rain or bowling!

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  • Kyoko from Oxford | Woman | 51 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I was raised in a family where faith, manners, responsibility, and doing the right thing were drilled into my head, so these things are important to me. I have good common sense, love to garden and re-purpose old things and would rather learn how to do something myself (if possible) than ask someone else to do it for me. I am fiercely loyal, more liberal than conservative, and I'm not afraid to speak my mind, (I have an opinion on just about everything) and respect others opinions as long as they are based on facts, not speculation or theory. I am an animal lover and have 2 cats and a dog. (cats were rescues) I'm not a bit spoiled and I'm generally very happy and content with my life. I can't see myself dating anyone entitled, arrogant, rude or insensitive. If you think you are more important than others, like to complain, or are looking for someone to cook and clean then please stay away from me! I enjoy "old classic" rock-n-roll and new country music. I've traveled to just about every state and like the mountains but love the beach. I have not dated for several years, and I'm not looking to spend all my free time with someone although would enjoy being in a relationship again. My schedule varies from week to week and I tend to be a very early riser. I will need to go slowly, spend time talking and getting to know you, so if you're not okay with that, then please do not contact me. I am also not looking for a professional dater, or someone who needs to be constantly going and doing to be happy.Added ***This may sound harsh, but if have trust or commitment issues or are just looking for the initial excitement of a new relationship then please pass me by. We all have been hurt by past relationships that have made us who we are today, but if you bring that baggage into every new encounter you will never be able to have a meaningful lasting relationship. I am a person who has a small group of long-time lasting friends not hundreds of people in my life that I barely know and I'm looking for the same in a partner. Added ***I will not answer *** say "HI", tell me why you are contacting me and what, if anything, attracts you to me and I will do the same. I am a reasonably intelligent woman and the daughter of an English and Communications teacher. I find spelling and grammar important and if you can't put together a cohesive sentence, we probably won't be a good match. The only thing I can tell you is money does not impress me ... Just be yourself, be honest about who you are and what you want and I'll do the same.

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  • Bambi from Oxford | Woman | 51 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Thanks to help from family, I now have a sunroom overlooking the water and a 'woman cave' in the works in the basement. I like baking, sometimes cooking but I'd rather be playing Rock Band and let someone else do the cooking LOL. Ok, I can compromise, so we cook together and then play Rock Band together. This is my new favorite winter hobby ... learning to play an *** vocals. My body can no longer handle the cold weather... brrr. I do like to traveI and would aspire to spend a month or two in a warm climate in the winter. I love exploring.I am happy, intelligent, witty, goofy, playful, caring, responsible and a community volunteer.Good things happen to me because I choose to focus on .... good things! LOL.I am a people person, love meeting new people and hope to travel more in the futureI like playing on the lake all summer - swimming, boating, reading a book, bird watching, watching my brother fish...I love eating vegetables grown in my garden and am building a perennial garden with pathways.I'm a very casual, earthy girl who also loves to get dressed up for an occasional dinner out.I spend a lot of time with family and sometimes travel to see them. I live in a nice house and have nice things but I'm not perfect, I don't expect you to be perfect.I don't care what you drive or what you own. I care about who you are and what you have done with your life and intend to do in the future.I have many interests and I have listed them all before, but I think that just confused people. I have experienced a lot in the 51 years that I have been here. Life is always expanding, growing, learning and I am interested in participating rather than watching. What have you been doing for the past 40, 50, or 60 years?I am retired from the software industry and after a short stint buying and selling antiques, I'm now sticking with buying jewelry wholesale which I sell on eBay and rent space in a local store. This is 'fun' money. I am financially stable and love living a simple lifestyle. I volunteer for 2 non-profits and do whatever I can to help from painting, fiberglassing and sweeping floors to building and updating websites! I am thankful to have the opportunity to meet and talk to new people!I would love to find a man with integrity and intelligence (can't stress that enough - my daughter is a Fulbright Scholar). A man who is positive, loving and wants to have fun, laugh, and finds the silver lining in all situations. Drama and games are not allowed in my life. If we are not a match then we should move on because .... there are plenty of fish ;)I am looking for a longterm, serious relationship but would love to start it out with some casual conversation and get to know each other. No pressure, no expectations. I am always at my best near the ocean, water, outdoors, mountains, etc. Something simple like meet at a pub with an outdoor band... lol. We'll figure it out!

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