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Bambi, 51
United States, Alabama, Oxford

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Thanks to help from family, I now have a sunroom overlooking the water and a 'woman cave' in the works in the basement. I like baking, sometimes cooking but I'd rather be playing Rock Band and let someone else do the cooking LOL. Ok, I can compromise, so we cook together and then play Rock Band together. This is my new favorite winter hobby ... learning to play an *** vocals. My body can no longer handle the cold weather... brrr. I do like to traveI and would aspire to spend a month or two in a warm climate in the winter. I love exploring.I am happy, intelligent, witty, goofy, playful, caring, responsible and a community volunteer.Good things happen to me because I choose to focus on .... good things! LOL.I am a people person, love meeting new people and hope to travel more in the futureI like playing on the lake all summer - swimming, boating, reading a book, bird watching, watching my brother fish...I love eating vegetables grown in my garden and am building a perennial garden with pathways.I'm a very casual, earthy girl who also loves to get dressed up for an occasional dinner out.I spend a lot of time with family and sometimes travel to see them. I live in a nice house and have nice things but I'm not perfect, I don't expect you to be perfect.I don't care what you drive or what you own. I care about who you are and what you have done with your life and intend to do in the future.I have many interests and I have listed them all before, but I think that just confused people. I have experienced a lot in the 51 years that I have been here. Life is always expanding, growing, learning and I am interested in participating rather than watching. What have you been doing for the past 40, 50, or 60 years?I am retired from the software industry and after a short stint buying and selling antiques, I'm now sticking with buying jewelry wholesale which I sell on eBay and rent space in a local store. This is 'fun' money. I am financially stable and love living a simple lifestyle. I volunteer for 2 non-profits and do whatever I can to help from painting, fiberglassing and sweeping floors to building and updating websites! I am thankful to have the opportunity to meet and talk to new people!I would love to find a man with integrity and intelligence (can't stress that enough - my daughter is a Fulbright Scholar). A man who is positive, loving and wants to have fun, laugh, and finds the silver lining in all situations. Drama and games are not allowed in my life. If we are not a match then we should move on because .... there are plenty of fish ;)I am looking for a longterm, serious relationship but would love to start it out with some casual conversation and get to know each other. No pressure, no expectations. I am always at my best near the ocean, water, outdoors, mountains, etc. Something simple like meet at a pub with an outdoor band... lol. We'll figure it out!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Hi there and thanks for stopping by! Honestly, I don't have a clue what I am looking for. Probably best to take some time to get to know my likes and dislikes. I do like music, exercise, and anything fun and new. I love to laugh and am a pretty laid back person. I hope whoever you are is easy going, funny, generous with your affection and time and will respect me as I would respect you. My best friend and soul mate. Sensual, chivalrous, masculine and will be physically present. We can enjoy the simple pleasures in life. We can look across the room from each other and you know what I am thinking...."Honey, let's get the heck out of here!". We are all visual creatures. So if you like my pictures enough to read the profile then take a chance and let's strike up a conversation. Would love to get to know you better. If not, good luck in your search! I know not everyone is a match. There is someone special for everyone! :) I am not interested in a pen pal, a player or a one night stand. Please be reasonably local and have pictures. We can decide once we get to know each other better. :)

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I have been waiting for fate to drop my match on my door step. This is not working so I am giving this online dating a try. I am just learning how it all works. I knew there were a lot of divorced, widowed or single men out there but I did not know where to meet them until now. Wow, I am surprised how many great men are out there and I hope I will be able to match up with one.I have a youthful mindset and I enjoy the simple things in life, like walking, hiking, being outdoors and I'm looking for someone with a similar approach to life. I am open minded and like to meet new people. I eat well and exercise to stay healthy. I am very fortunate to have good health. I am not on any medications.I am looking for a man close to my age. I feel we have more in common when we grew up in the same era. I am attracted to a man that has a clean cut appearance. My goal is to be successful in having my own business working from home. I am a perfectionist and I like for things to be done the right way, but not only my way. I prefer to spend time on the computer rather than watching television. Although, I do like to watch a good movie. I have a fairly relaxed approach to life and enjoy the company of thoughtful, humorous people who make me smile. Let me know if you are interested in meeting me to see if we have chemistry. I am not into playing games. The most important thing is to set up a quick meeting to have coffee or a soda and see if we enjoy each others company. Please do have some pics with your profile - its only fair, you've seen mine.**Please have some current pictures taken this year so we can recognize each other.** I have met some men that did not look like the pictures they posted because they were not current from this year. I check my inbox every day, please check yours also.Thank you for reading my profile. Drop me a line and reel me in. I like for the first meeting to be very casual. Just talking to getting to know one another. It could be some place to get a coffee or something to drink and see if we share chemistry.

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  • Trixie from Oxford | Woman | 55 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Hey! I'm a happy, pretty smart, creative, witty and fun woman. I can be spontanious, and can also be a habitual planner. I love a good conversation. I think it would be fun to have a friend close to my age to hang out with and go places with. I love the beach, anywhere. There are many places I'd love to go to, and hopefully will someday. I enjoy being at home, working on my never ending projects here. I've learned how to do a lot of things out of necessity and I'm proud of that. I like movies, reading. Cooking - I'm just not very good at it! Going out for dinner is nice. Love my family, 2 adult children, one who is temporarily living with me. I'm learning how to be better at keeping the yard looking respectable. Music is very important, always finding something new that I like. I'd like to meet someone who has a wide range of musical taste.I don't have much experience with many outdoor sports, skiing and all that, since I was much younger. Not a huge fan of motorcycles, riding them scares me, looking at them and hearing them is cool. Have my own little sports car that I've been (slowly) getting running. It is my personal bit of youth that is in my garage, next summer I drive it, I swear!

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