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Merlyn, 51
United States, Alabama, Oxford

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About Me

Hello fellow fishermanI just turned 51 and feel like I have the second half of my life in front of me. I don't think I look 51 but that's for you to decide :0 I'm very active, playing tennis ***times a week and back playing golf. I grew up on a golf course so it's all coming back to me.I enjoy live music, dancing and just getting out to enjoy our beautiful weather. Depending on how busy the week has been I would enjoy going out to a bar and listening/dancing to music. Ft. I'm not a big drinker. One is usually it for me. The same goes for eating out. An occasional dinner/meal out is good but I do enjoy cooking at home.For work I take photos at concerts and events but I'm a freelancer so I get to pick my own hours. It works well for me. Occasionally there is a show/event I just can't miss. My last child is a senior this year and will be leaving for college. I've been a single mom for 15 years and raised 3 kids so it's seems like retirement is just around the corner. My friends ask "what are you going to do?" For the first time in a long time my answer is "Whatever I want to!"Let me know if you're interested by saying hello.WARNING: *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. That's up to you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Reggae Canadian Portuguese Sailing
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