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Ginny, 51
United States, Alabama, Owens Cross Roads

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About Me

I am confident in who I am and I am looking for someone to share common interests, laughter and romance. Make me laugh and my heart will usually follow. Laughter is very important to me as I work hard and really enjoy someone I can be myself with and leave the worries of the day and the office at the office. I have a quick wit and enjoy someone that can share in those jokes that only we get. I am a southern girl at heart and a slight accent can be detected on occasion, but for the most part it has gone with the multiple places I have lived. However, before all you Eagles fans stop reading at this point, I do pull for the Eagles - just not when they are playing the Cowboys :-)I am financially secure and have full custody of my two sons who are the "lights of my life". My oldest son is in his second year of college and my youngest is a senior in high school. I am easily pleased with a random act of kindness and thoughtfulness and enjoy doing the same for someone special in my life. I need to feel like I am in a relationship that both individuals meet and compromise when needed....a true partnership. I am affectionate and need to have closeness. My life is very busy and I don't have time for games or drama, so the ideal person for me would easily distract me to the point I am calm and content. I take my health and exercise seriously. I work out a minimum of 6-days/week. I completed my second Broad Street Run last year. I finished before they opened the roads, didn't throw up and I wasn't last. Great! If all goes well, I am doing my first full triathlon in Atlantinc City in September. It's on the bucket list to do one so now or never, I guess. I am not a great swimmer, so need to keep working on that part of the race. I figured... :-) I finished it. Sloooooowly. Ha!I believe when you feel healthy; everything seems possible and easier in life. I generally eat a healthy diet but I have been known to indulge in a cheese steak, chickie and pete’’t forget…..great chocolate. Some other "firsts" Lucia. I went to a combo bootcamp/spa. I worked hard during the day, relax in late afternoon at the spa, and they have lots music and dancing at night.....perfect. Yes.....they do have such places as bootcamp/spas. I also just returned from my first trip to Europe. I went with my 17 year old son over his spring break and it was amazing. I am looking for someone that isn’t afraid to pursue something special with a person when there is a connection to see where it goes. If you are a serial dater or player, I am not the right person for you and you should pass me by. I am honest and I am very open about the way I think and feel and expect the same from a partner. I have met several people that turned out to not be exactly as they portrayed themselves to be. It that's you....please, spare my heart and pass me by. I am the kind of person that would love to have my last “first date”. I am just having trouble finding that feeling and believing it is possible. I have a sense of adventure and love going new places trying new things or just watching the sun go down in the backyard with a glass of wine. You can find me running the boardwalk in the morning, riding my bike and then hanging at the beach at noon. I love it. My pictures are recent and yes....I am 51. I don't respond if you are just seperated or you don't have a publically posted photo.So, are you out there?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Syble from Owens Cross Roads | Woman | 55 years old | Aries
    Syble

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Where do I start? I think I will go for the short version and save your eyes from strain.Born and raised in upstate NY. Was married and divorced had three now grown children all living in NY. I moved to Fl in ***. Have been on a spiritual journey for the past three years and have come to know and love Jesus. I would like to find a kind gentle man who also has similar spiritual and moral beliefs. Although you may wonder if this makes me too religious for you, I am just saying I am a quality woman looking for a quality man to spend time with and have fun getting to know each other on our journey in life. I am artistic and creative and enjoy nature, photography, bowling, swimming, museums, history, parks, beaches, and people watching, among other things. That's all I can think of for now. I am sure in time, I will think of more to write....or just ask me. More: everyone over the age of 30 has baggage. How you deal with it is important to self improvement. I don't think trying to open and peek into someone's baggage is a good idea. Would you like someone to come up to you and pull off a scab? Ouch, back to healing again. My point is, I don't mind people who have baggage, we all do. Some may have more baggage than others....some have lived more. If you have not dealt with your baggage, or are in denial of even having any...well....please address the obvious and try to enjoy life in the here and now. Life gives us lessons and trials which makes us the person we are. My life hasn't been the easiest, nor can I say it's been the hardest. I have made mistakes along the way, and wish I didn't do or say some of the things I said or did. I have learned from my mistakes, and continue to learn something each and every day. I am not trying to change anyone, nor be expected to change for anyone. I want to enjoy the rest of my days with positive enjoyable people who love the life they have been given. Life is way to short to be stuck in the past. The future holds so much more. Some of you have many restrictions. I find too many restrictions to be too rigid. People need to be themselves. But if you are that rigid, you should stick to your very high standards and be alone most of your life and wonder why? Love and companionship aren't something you can order from a catalog. You may even be surprised to find someone you hadn't planned to meet just might be the person you should have given a chance to! Be open minded and go for it! No picture no reply. Thanks for reading. Note my age is the year I was born, cannot fix it. Something mutually agreed upon. Open to ideas. If you can't pay for the date, don't ask for the date. I prefer old school, hold doors, be a gentleman.Treat a lady like a lady and respect will be returned. Relax, have fun, be yourself!

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  • Elke from Owens Cross Roads | Woman | 51 years old | Libra
    Elke

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Don't you just hate this part where you have to talk about yourself? Let's see...First and foremost, what you see is what you get, I believe that on here and in real life a good relationship takes time because you can't possibly know me looking at a picture and reading this blurb. I enjoy being around family and friends, exploring new places and trying new things. The person that I am searching for will have a fantastic sense of humor and a bit of an explorer inside (but understand that I will never willingly jump out of a perfectly good airplane).I enjoy the arts and museums and would love to try geocaching (that is my explorer spirit coming out). I do love to travel, meeting new people, customs and trying new foods. I can also appreciate a quiet evening home watching a movie or enjoying a great conversation.So this is a little about me, don't be shy and just send me a message and let's get to know each other. A first date could be a dinner, or an event. I guess the most important thing would be that there is opportunity to get to know each other. A great date is up to the two that are out together.

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  • Deni from Owens Cross Roads | Woman | 51 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    First let me say that most of what I've found on this site is fluff. If your an adult then act like it. If you want something be open and honest about it. If your looking for sex, don't put it under the auspice of "relationship". If you meet someone and don't feel "it" then be honest about that. Seriously most of my meetings on here mimic my high school years!! Where are the real men who understand that respect is a two way street? If that hasn't scared you off I hope you'll read on. Now on to the separation...don't let it scare you. Will be very happy to explain, just ask. Okay, now I'll move on. I enjoy any outdoor activities. If I haven't done it I'm usually at least willing to try. I like all kind of sports and enjoy watching both on TV and live. I hope to one day get my Master's Degree but for now am content in my job. I like to have fun and laugh. I am a people person. I usually have a smile on my face and find everything in life is a learning opportunity. Not that I don't have disappointments but I look at them as part of what makes me who I am. I like most kinds of music and if you'd listen to my IPod you would find a variety of musical genres on there. I like to keep active but still enjoy quiet one on one time. I like to sit outdoor by a fire and enjoy the stars and the company. I work out about 5 times a week and am a Turbo Kick enthusiast. I also enjoy running and participating in 5K races. I work hard and play hard. I don't mind getting dirty and its okay if I break a nail. I am comfortable in jeans and a T shirt but with a shower and an hour can put on a little black dress and heels and be ready for a night on the town.I would like to find someone to enjoy life with - even if it is just as friends. You can never have enough friends. And if it turns into something more, what a great start we had to build on. If all that hasnt scared you off, send me a message. I think meeting somewhere neutral is ideal. If there isn't chemistry each has their own way home. Maybe a picnic lunch if the weather is good and if things go well, take a walk.

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