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Odessa, 54

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About Me

I am a strong independent women who has a job, home and close friends. I love to travel, see live music, dance and will try most things (except jump out of an airplane). I have recently started running and hiking, love to eat healthy and save my calories for adult beverages. I love most all music except Rap and even went to a recent Phish concert with my son. My family is extremely important to me and my daughter is recently engaged so the next year I am sure will be full of Wedding Plans. I am shy and am not a talkative person until you get to know me. I am loyal and honest and am not into playing games, causing friction or drama. I would like to meet a companion that will go to dinner, concerts etc. Let me know if anyone out there is interested. Just know I was married a long time and I am entitled to be picky as to who I choose. Good luck to all in this crazy world of Internet dating. You know, it has been so long since I dated that I know i will be nervous so a glass of wine or a cold beer at an outside place would be most comfortable. Then we will take it from there if we decide to meet again.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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  • Merilyn

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Don't like drama. Love to laugh, enjoy good conversation, friends, good joke, arts, books, travel, good food (will try anything as far it is not overcooked, can be raw, and despite my small frame and femininity can enjoy a good steak once in a wile). If you can cook or at least help me to cook it's a plus :). Have wide variety of interests, very good sense of humor, never boring. Can be very active but also enjoy quiet moments. Can really listen to other people without imposing my own opinion. Appreciate all good things in life and cherish every good moment. Very grateful to the people who is good to me, do not have enemies. Smart, sharp and wit (this is what the other people saying). My pictures are current. The way you see me on the pictures - it is the way I look every single day all my live (minus evening dresses and Halloween costume), can wear jeans if I really have to, but like to dress up (don't worry - I am not full of myself, some times can call myself an idiot but not going to allow anybody else to do so :) ). Really enjoy being a WOMAN. Very feminine but not uptight. Despite being in committed relationship for about 30 years, I'd used to be one women among guys (practicing surgery - it is mostly man's profession, sometimes very cynical), so I get guy's jokes and sense of humor. I am not prissy at all and you don't have to find "special woman subjects" in conversations. I can discuss fashion and shopping with my girlfriends if it is boring for you. I treasure commitment, intimacy, sharing, mutual respect and trust. Don't like to play games. The life has to be enjoyable for both sides, and I really believe in reciprocation. You are good to me, I definitely will be good to you. Soul-mates, partners in life. Both have to be genuinely interested in each other and try to make each other happy - reciprocation is a key word and it has to come from the heart...Have to be intellectually equal (I am not even talking about education - a person can be educated and have no intellect, but still - I do have 2 dr's degrees), otherwise - it doesn't work, no matter how hard and how long you'll try to make it work - eventually it will fall apart.- no initial, even very strong chemistry will work - it WILL fade away....I am looking for a "mensch" in my life, why also can make me smile and be my best friend.Also - I am a great believer in chemistry, so if I don't see your face, your eyes and your smile (AKA - NO PICTURE***I can not talk to you or you just can be married :). I am really tired of accusations in superficiality because I am refusing to communicate with people without pictures. I understand that the human soul is the most important thing, but in the same time I am absolutely sure that no sane man would contact me if I wouldn't have pictures posted, so please, let's level the playing field. Women are humans too. If you are a busy professional and have a life - it's as inconvenient for you as it is for me, sorry...Because I was raised as a Woman, I feel kind of strange contacting a man first - it's just my "thing", the rest of me is normal - lol-(if I checked your profile, it might be because I'd liked what I'd seen), so if you like my profile - make a move first, please, just a couple of your own words. I promise - I not going to be nasty... And if I am not answering - please don't hold a grudge against me. You can be the nicest person in the world for somebody else, but we all looking for somebody to light our fire, if it doesn't feel like it- it's just not happening, but some times worth to try, you never now. No harm done...PS. I am looking for my male counterpart and as you can see - I am taking care of myself. I expect the same from the man. When you look like a "schlepper" even on the first date - it's a turn off. It's not because I am shallow and can't see the man's soul behind the disheveled appearance. I want to be proud of the man I am with and it includes the whole package. Sorry, if I am offending anybody...PPS. My first language is Russian, I am fluent in English and very Americanized, long time in the country, but common culture and upbringing is very important to really click, soo... if you speak Russian - it's a big plus Nice and quiet, have to talk, let chemistry do the trick...

  • Agustina

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I moved back down here to take care of my parents, I also have a job taking care of a disabled lady.That is one of my goals in life, being someone who will help those who can't help themselves.As far as things I like to do,take long walks,holdinghands,horseback riding, watching NFL football,snuggling up watching a good movie .I love to cook but for someone else is the most fun. It makes me feel good to be able to fix most any meal.laughing is good medincine, you need to have a since of humor!! life is to short to be serious all the time. well if anything seems like a match I would love to chat.ok I have been on here since jan 13 most of u guys are fake your pics are 10 years old B4 Real if we meet u we know u lied soooo don't put pics 20 years old ok it's stupid!!! On a first date I feel you can't decide what you want to do until you have a chance to find out what their likes and dislikes are. I am open for suggestion ?!! Just a WARNING that was sent to me : and all you men looking for men go to meetville they like u there oJust a thought there are do many men and women that say " package deal" with there kids well I am here to say it goes the same with pets my pets come first I would never abandon them they love u unconditional always can u men say the same

  • Rosaleen

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am silly, funny, crazy...I love to break out in song and dance anywhere and everywhere. But I can be serious when I have to be. I have been told that I have a gentle heart and a good soul. I am ready to share that with the right person. My friends say I am a good listener and give very good advise and would give the shirt off my back.....ummm...burrr....I am not necessarily a “prude” or a "saint," but the overall I am very cautious about to whom and under what circumstances to surrender to romantically. By nature, I just prefer taking things slowly in making someone's acquaintance or in getting involved in a relationship. In wooing it may take a while to "warm up" to you, though this should not be misinterpreted as disinterest. According to my personality results…Once I feel comfortable, you will find the rewards great. I will let you be the judge.I try to be grounded and realistic, and quite good at sniffing out insincerity and ulterior motives. So, PLEASE Don't play games or even bother trying to manipulate me. My personality results advise you to be upfront, direct, and completely honest with me – (you've few chances to impress someone like this).A Few Truths1. NO I am not contagious!! I was bitten by an infected tick and I cannot help that I have this. Some days are good and some are not so good but I am a fighter and I will never let this get me down if I can help it. I am not called LATIGRE (TIGRESS) for nothing. 3. I am a Pagan/Naturalist...Not all pagans are witches who do magic spells, with big cauldrons, eye of neut and toad warts! Contrary to what those who choose to persecute or lie about us wish to believe. My faith is a very peaceful, harmonious and balanced way of life which promotes oneness with the divine and all which exists. It is the morning dew on the petals of a beautiful flower, the gentle caress of a warm summer breeze upon your skin, or the warmth of the summer sun on your face. It's the fall of colorful autumn leaves, and the softness of winter snow. It is light, and shadow and all that lies in between. It is the song of the birds and other creatures of the wild. It is being in the presence of Mother Earths nature and being humbled in reverence. When we are in the temple of the Lord and Lady, we are not prone to the arrogance of human technology as they touch our souls. To be a Pagan/Naturalist is to be a healer, a teacher, a seeker, a giver, and a protector of all things. If this path is yours, may you walk it with honor, light and integrity. I believe in God. But I also believe in a famine side of God. If you want to know more I would be VERY happy to talk to you more!!I believe everyone is special in their own way....sometimes it takes a special someone to bring it out and make it sparkle even brighter. I personally like myself. I don't profess to be perfect. I have my faults and will always try to be honest with myself and others to admit to them when needed. I believe:A negative mind will never give you a positive life. "I am still determined to be cheerful and happy, in whatever situation it may be; for I have also learned from experience that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends upon our dispositions, and not upon our circumstances." ~;Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself: I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I'm going to be happy in it." ~Groucho Marx I am easy to please...I think for our first date it would be nice to just walk on the beach and talk. Assuming that at this point we have txted and chatted several times and both agreed that it is time to meet face to face. This is not the time to feel pressured.

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