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Yaeko, 51
United States, Alabama, Opp

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About Me

I am blessed with a wonderful life including many loving family & friends; little else matters. I'm self sufficient + looking for same. I have a home & car & hope you do too. I seek a man to become intimate with-over time, but not in a hurry. I'm neither desperate nor co-dependent. I know how to be alone & quiet & enjoy my own company. However, though capable of fun on my own, I want HIM, a fun man to ENJOY & Share life with. I am not a drama queen, and NO, I don't like drama kings (yes, there are many) I'm very outgoing, yet private. I don't like gossip at all. I very much enjoy getting out in the world. I also enjoy a back yard cook-out. I'm not a tv junkie, prefer to pre-record "fave" shows (of which there are few) to view when not busy, like when it's raining & choices are limited. I love new & old music, live or radio or iPod or CD. I would enjoy an active man, yet, what I really want+need is a fellow with some smarts, a good conversationalist to hold my interest.The past is in the past. Married once, now divorced, I do not think it healthy we talk much about X's. A brief conversation is often needed to understand a persons perspective, but moving on is what life's about, after a loss from death, divorce or what have you... the FUTURE is my focus... and it MUST include JOY. I am looking for what I AM: honest & genuine, serious at times, silly others... hard working (smarter not harder is good too) I have a best friend with advanced cancer now (as I type this) and I KNOW life is Short & Precious. I want to live it. I DO LIVE IT. Want to join me? I don't & won't spend much time typing back-n-forth, as I prefer to meet in person because it is most revealing. Our 1st "date" (if we get that far) will be after our 1st "meeting-introduction" and that can be "Dutch Treat"... worry not, as I'm not looking for a free drink or meal... I'm looking for a "real" man, a gentleman. I'll know pretty quickly & I suspect you will too. IF you (we) Enjoy ourselves, This old fashioned Lady wants a Man who Knows how to Ask a Lady out for a "Real" Date. When it's "right" the butterflies will tell my gut. If not, I'll be honest & sweet & you will have lost nothing, right? A showman can act his act only so long, so Please, just let your "true" colors shine through from the start. I know Pobody's Nerfect, and we all have faults (and "baggage"...;REAL", please... and it will all be good :o)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Pop Play Musical Instrument German South American Turkish Adventure Family & Kids Mystery Romance Thriller
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Ok, I've been on here for awhile, and although I have said hi or maybe even chatted for a bit to some of you, I'm still looking for that one person that I know I would want it to go further than just chatting here online. While on here, I've noticed that there are people who have pics that are 10 or more years old!!! Please post a recent pic.. Also, if you have posted of yourself half naked pics...don't even bother contacting me. Leave something for the imagination please!!!Been single by choice for awhile and have had time to re-evaluate myself and what I want and need. I'm ready to get back out there and meet new and exciting people. I am a very independent person and I enjoy all that life has to offer. Still enjoy going out and dancing, but I also enjoy staying home and watching a good movie. I like dressing up in heels but I can rock a pair of jeans just as well. Summertime is my favorite time of year, I enjoying boating, the beach, anything outdoors. And believe it or not, I love fishing and crabbing and grew up with my Dad taking us out on the bay every weekend in the Summertime. (Maybe that's why I love that time of the year so much..RIP DAD :*(. I love all kinds of music, kinda partial to the 70's and 80's, but love some dancing music as well. I have 2 grown daughters and 5 grandbabies. They are the best and I spend as much time as I can with them. I also love animals and I believe that if a man treats his animals, his kids, his Mom and his Ex's well than he's a good catch!!! Thats just a little about me, if you want to know more you will have to ask me. Good luck and happy fishing! I think a first date would be pretty low key. Somewhere like a small cafe so we could see if we "click". Chemistry is very important and I believe it's either there or it isn't.

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

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