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Phyliss, 53
United States, Alabama, Oneonta

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About Me

As you can see,I enjoy doing all kinds of adventurous, fun and crazy things in life. I do have my limits though and jumping out of a plane is one of them! I am a lot of fun to be with, and will try anything once! (or twice). I would like to meet someone that enjoys doing a lot of outdoor activities, with a little exercise being thrown in for good measure. I have made a vow to myself to get rid of those "few extra pounds", and get back to where I used to be. I love living life to the fullest, and would love to share it with that special someone! A great thunderstorm outside, sounds great to us cuddling on the inside. I love to enjoy those thrilling moments that nature provides...even walking in the rain can be fun if you dance a little! I miss the special tenderness that comes with just being with the one that you love, and enjoying each others company. I can mix with the best of them, and give as well as I get! I can hold my own with the guys, and giggle with the girls!! This is a perfect time in my life, as I feel that I have learned and grown from previous relationships! ( I love romance and cuddling together and just being....us!" I am not a wannabe Barbie,(not plastic at all). I enjoy just being who I am, rather then trying to impress someone by trying to be something that I am not. I guess as Dr. Phil would say "you're the real deal". I am quite comfortable in my skin (are you)? I am looking to find that special someone who will be able to keep up with me! lol Actually, I am quite down to earth, with a great sense of humour. Sooooo...if you would like to get to know someone who doesn't always get all jokes, (but does "get it")..give me a call. I am not into the bar scene I'm just out here looking for that one special guy who is out there looking for me too! Oh...and by the way, no pretty boys please.....(my hair has to look better than yours) lol! etc... I'm a star in my car! ( at least I think I am, when I'm singing, lol....oh come on...I'm sure you do it too!) I guess the moral of the story is that I am just looking for someone who is quite comfortable in their skin too! Someone who has a good heart, good morals, and can laugh at himself, and with me. I love to golf and do all kinds of fun and interesting things with my other half. I have a lot of good going on, and would love to share it No players please...I am genuine and I expect the object of my affections to be the same! A sense of humour is a must, along with someone who "gets it" too. ( do you have shoes, other than runners? If you wear deck shoes, bonus points for you!) Please send me a picture or two, as I have shared a few myself. Have a good hair day everyone!!! Anything that is mutually agreed upon.(I love surprises) If it was warmer, I would suggest 9 holes of golf or throw a baseball around. But the season is upon us for something different...maybe throw a frisbee or walk and talk. No Timmies question period for me. I don't know if you would want to see me eat right away, as I might have it on my face, and you might be too embarassed to tell me, so maybe we should just wait to eat! LOL I am a pretty spontaneous person, so I am up to doing just about anything. The picture that I put up isn't the best, but I have to find my camera and upload some pictures ( I recently moved) I don't photograph too well, but I will try to get some up soon. Do you ever look at your own pic's and thought that you looked pretty good, and when you see the results you just shutter and think OMG !? "That's me?!"Please attach a pic. when making contact...P.S. a few of my favourite sayings are.... "if you don't go...you don't know" "I'd rather be alone...than wish I was" "if you don't stand for something...you will fall for anything"

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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