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Xara, 55

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About Me

just a very special lady (talking about what is on the INSIDE..:))..,still waiting for that right one for me...certain things i look for and need,want and deserve,and none of these things are anything unreasonable or unrealistic..you kidding??...hard enough just finding "half normal" these days..:)..i AM real tired of and frustrated with always having to ,unfortunately,run into only the nuts and the wrong ones..and at times it seems finding my dream mate is only a hopeful wish..lol..BUT!!!!!....I do not give up..i keep the faith and the hope that SOMEWHERE he must be out there...:)..anyway....even though i have hope that that right special one for me IS out there..i am not expecting or holding my breath (would have run out of breath LONG ago if i did THAT..:))..so.,would be REAL nice to ,AT LEAST,run into some decent,polite,"mostly normal" at least,lol.interesting,REAL(as opposed to phony)people to hang out with,do thing with,have some fun,...a good companion...i do respond to messages that give me SOMETHING to respond to..most do not..communication style is way too important to me and one of the keys..and let me say this..i ONLY respond to messages,,,nothing else...well...that is it for now...all you need to know for now you can see and read here..need any more info...ask...now..here goes..and hope it starts getting better here for me now...so far have not been impressed by anything...lol...ciao when i meet someone for the very first time i do NOT consider that a real date...that is just getting together for the first time to see if there is any connection and any potential for a date... there are PLENTY of things i like to do for fun on a real date..,and almostanything can be fun with with the right company..i listed only SOME of my interests and things to do in the "interests' section...there are much more.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lillia

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    They say life begins at 50! Well my first 50 years were great so, "THE BEST IS YET TO COME"... I'm not into the "bar/club" scene and the caliber of men I've been meeting at the Singles Dances in the area have shall we say, "been less to be desired". I figured Hey! why not dust off my old fishing pole and see if my bait is still good enough to land me the "Catch of the Day"...... As my mother always told me there are Plenty of Fish in the sea so I guess I'm in the right place.HOLD THE PRESSES!!! BIG NEWS STORY!!! Joanie has decided she needs a new look for the New Year..... I no longer have the big head of hair, the Dolly Parton look. Hopefully you'll like it too, now you can run your fingers through my hair while you're passionately kissing me. LOLWhat is she looking for you might be thinking... I think it might be easier to describe what I'm positively NOT looking for. Here goes. I'm not looking for a one night stand (do they still call it that?) a hook-up, an intimate relationship, a sex buddy, a married man's mistress. What I am looking for is this: If your a great guy with a kind, gentle heart please respond!! I know your out there somewhere, a truly genuine nice guy, laid back, easy going, no drugs, non-smoker, employed, knows how to treat and respect a real lady, great sense of humor, shares my interests,loves to live each day to it's fullest. He knows like I do that the most successful relationships began with a solid foundation of friendship.I'd like him to be between the ages of 55 to 65. I want to take things SLOW and EASY taking the time to really get to know each other. I want someone I can confide in and know that he is there for me no matter what. I love to kiss and cuddle and treat my man good. I give my partner lots of respect and expect the same in return. It's also important that he has a happy, positive outlook and attitude as I do about life. When life deals me lemons, I make lemonade. Give some thought to these wonderful words to live by:"SING LIKE NOBODY'S LISTENING" - "LIVE LIKE IT'S HEAVEN ON EARTH" - "WORK LIKE YOU DON'T NEED MONEY" - "LOVE LIKE YOU'VE NEVER BEEN HURT" - and "DANCE LIKE NO-ONE'S WATCHING"..... And always remember "Happiness is a Journey not a Destination"......I'm an attractive 5'8" blonde with a fuller figure, but curvy body. If you're looking for a thin, slim Barbie doll type, then I'm NOT the woman for you. I wear a size 16, and I do have meat on my bones. But it is USDA Prime Choice not chopped liver. LOL....If you want to feel a REAL woman in your arms then you will love me. Don't be afraid, I'm not obese or a rolley polley, my weight is evenly distributed on my body. I've been told I look very sexy.............. For a first meeting, I would like to meet for drinks or coffee at a nice quiet public place for some relaxing conversation to see if we feel any connection or chemistry for each other. If we do feel a connection great! Maybe we could go for a walk and make plans for our 1st date. My ideal first date would be:We decide to take a ride up to the seacoast because I love the ocean and think it is the most romantic place to be especially at sunset. We find a nice, quiet, romantic little place to have dinner and after dinner we walk along the water's edge holding hands in the moonlight.

  • Kimbery

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am a caring, nurturing, educated, hard-working, loving mom to three wonderful daughters. Ii love the beach and sporting events as well as cruises and romantic evenings and romantic weekend getaways. I like trying new things. I recently tried paddle-boarding and zip-lining. Not exactly a NASCAR,camping or motorcycle aficionado, but would join you on your motorcycle occasionally. I am truthful, genuine and honest and expect the same courtesy in return. I have discriminating and evolved tastes and need those qualities in the gentleman I am seeking.;Bear" He once said," If they don't have a winning attitude, I don't want them. " I also want a man with a positive winning attitude and one who can overcome adversity.; If you believe in yourself and have dedication and pride-and never quit-you'll be a winner. The price of victory is high, but so are the rewards." Case closed...to me he was and remains the gold standard by which character and integrity is measured. I demand it in myself and expect it of my future life partner. I am finding that most guys don't read profiles so let's start with the basics. No moochers, slackers or misogynistic men...get it, got it, good...glad that's settled.You possess at least a bachelors degree. You are intelligent, evolved, literate, self-motivated, successful, solvent and humorous.-out credit cards and your financial affairs in disarray.I want a relationship where we can both be ourselves and support each other. I want spontaneity and youthfulness and not a couch potato. You are health-conscious and able to see your feet without bending over.Physically, I prefer men that are 5'9" or taller, and please respect my personal preferences for clean-shaven and that means no mustaches either.Photos: "Recent" means under a year with a nice smile as in " white teeth" and one picture full body pose.Hair color: Means your present hair color, not the color it was ten years ago..and bald means "bald".Body Type: How exactly does "athletic" square with a " beer belly?"Non-smoker means never and also excludes worse habits such as chewing tobacco.Not a racist bone in my body, but Caucasian gentleman only.Age: No games please- Not the age you think you are or act like, but rather based on the year you were born. This site is filled with so many 49 Year old pretenders(yes you will get someone to look at you, but in the end the truth prevails) Ride a roller coaster, pack a picnic lunch, the sky's the limit. Lets be creative yet safe but let's imagine the possibilities and decide what works best for both of us.

  • Laraine

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    "Love horses" riding 'long walks 'moonlite nites" fishing 'swimming 'traveling: hanging out" lunch 'dinner 'stay in cuddling 'w old movies' love all kinds of music? Out to dinner' a drink 'talk abt each other are likes "dislikes " just hanging out "Havering fun?

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