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Xara, 55

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About Me

just a very special lady (talking about what is on the INSIDE..:))..,still waiting for that right one for me...certain things i look for and need,want and deserve,and none of these things are anything unreasonable or unrealistic..you kidding??...hard enough just finding "half normal" these days..:)..i AM real tired of and frustrated with always having to ,unfortunately,run into only the nuts and the wrong ones..and at times it seems finding my dream mate is only a hopeful wish..lol..BUT!!!!!....I do not give up..i keep the faith and the hope that SOMEWHERE he must be out there...:)..anyway....even though i have hope that that right special one for me IS out there..i am not expecting or holding my breath (would have run out of breath LONG ago if i did THAT..:))..so.,would be REAL nice to ,AT LEAST,run into some decent,polite,"mostly normal" at least,lol.interesting,REAL(as opposed to phony)people to hang out with,do thing with,have some fun,...a good companion...i do respond to messages that give me SOMETHING to respond to..most do not..communication style is way too important to me and one of the keys..and let me say this..i ONLY respond to messages,,,nothing else...well...that is it for now...all you need to know for now you can see and read here..need any more info...ask...now..here goes..and hope it starts getting better here for me now...so far have not been impressed by anything...lol...ciao when i meet someone for the very first time i do NOT consider that a real date...that is just getting together for the first time to see if there is any connection and any potential for a date... there are PLENTY of things i like to do for fun on a real date..,and almostanything can be fun with with the right company..i listed only SOME of my interests and things to do in the "interests' section...there are much more.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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