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Nikkole, 53
United States, Alabama, Oneonta

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About Me

Hry guys! I am sitting here going through endless profiles as all others looking for that "someone special". I have raised two children for the most part alone and I am very proud of the young adults they have become. I am not the most beautiful but I have been told I'm "a cutie". I am definitely comfortable in my own skin are you? In July my daughter made me a "Nonnie" thats grandma to some LOL. I have a ***year career as an X- I work hard and I enjoy my time off. I took a weekend position so I can take care of my grandson a few days during the week(gives my daughter peace of mind). The weekends are a sacrifice for now but well worth it.....I know my schedule doesn't fit with most.....they get weekends off.I am confident, open minded, sincere, independent, loyal, honest, intelligent, kind, straight forward, spontaneous and someone you would like by your side in hard times. My friends say I have "IT" and can't understand why I'm single. My kids say I'm "picky". I like to think of it as being selective. I know what I have had in my life and know what I don't want.I enjoy hiking, NASCAR, hanging out on a boat or at the beach, online games, taking a drive no map involved, working in my garden, mountains, fishing (even ice fishing), horseback riding, quadding, snowmobiling, motorcycle riding and a lot more. I have become very active working out and it shows(smile). I grew up listening to rock & roll (50's-80's) but I dig country, blues and jazz....it's all good. I recently received my motorcycle license (on my birthday) and definitely will be getting a bike in the near future. My daughter says I am going through midlife crisis. I feel your never too old to learn and expand yourself. For my next "midlife events" I want to get certified in SCUBA Diving and get my pilots license (first lesson is in April ) I am taking up guitar....serenade anyone???? What I am looking for is my best friend, lover, partner in crime, confidant, someone that can laugh at themselves(I laugh at things I do all the time)someone that isn't afraid to show their "softer side" and hopefully someone I could trust my heart to. I am ultimately looking for a long term relationship. I put "dating" as to what I'm looking for I think you need to do that before it moves further don't you? I am looking to starting out as friends if thats possible and I hope I can find my best friend here and experience my last first date/kiss. What are my chances?Take a chance and say Hi you may be pleasantly surprised. Smile it makes people wonder what you have been up to !!!! It could be a drink, coffee, motorcycle ride, walk, ice cream or dinner. I am not picky just somewhere to talk and get a feel for someone. ***\\***Please***\\\***Put This***On Your***account If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died ***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\***Or whom maybe suffering from it***\\\***OR A SURVIVOR !! I Miss and love you Pop, Bacci, Joan....Keep fighting Deb !!!!!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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