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Aiah, 54
United States, Alabama, Opelika

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About Me

We are all a mix of nurture and nature. In my case the nurture included a lot of arts, culture and liberal politics. Nature gave me my pale skin, red hair, blue/grey eyes and a perfect 0.7 hip to waist ratio. Before I knew the curves were an asset I found I had a pretty good brain that needs a lot of stimulation. I've heard "treasure" and even "odd duck", meant in the nicest way, to describe the fact I don't exactly follow the herd. So unique brew is probably an apt description. It's no big surprise I work in a creative position. And it follows that I frequent galleries and lectures probably more than most. I listen to NPR, watch Charlie Rose and have been buying my food from farmers markets since I was a kid. Those that don't give their word lightly. People who are passionate, be it for their work, their hobby or life in general. Friends describe me as an ever-curious good conversationalist who can make people feel comfortable. I have a knack for finding those interesting little places and things that aren't on the public radar. So there's the touch of the explorer. Very often you'll find some leaf, seed pod or shell in my pockets.On a day-to-day level I possess a good amount of stick-to-it-ive-ness that keeps me grounded. I don't match the flighty artist stereotype at all. After eighteen years of marriage and over twenty years in my vocation, commitment and tenacity come naturally.But being grounded doesn't mean I've spent a lot of time standing still. I have adventured to some out of the way places. Travel is a mind-expanding experience.What might be a matching brew? Not sure...I am like my worst client in that regard, I keep thinking I will know it when I see it. I do think taking any action ripples out toward a final positive outcome. Even if it seems like a numbers game or random chance, to my mind even the small step of coffee, increases both our odds of finding that someone we are seeking.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • None from Opelika | Woman | 57 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 57 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-56

    Hi! My name is None. I am divorced other caucasian woman with kids from Opelika, Alabama, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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  • Debra from Opelika | Woman | 53 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I'm happy and energetic. Classy yet approachable. Divorced after 28 years of marriage, I have 3 grown children - out of the house. Just starting the best years of my life. I'll be in Sydney, Australia in December ***, January and February ***.Favorite activities include - enjoying a glass a wine or dining out with friends, a work out classes, planning my next vacation - My talents include cooking, home decorating & remodeling and wiggling my ears. Music is a wonderful mood boost and I enjoy all kinds. I'm honest, trustworthy, and dependable with no nasty surprises. Physically, emotionally and financially healthy. You should be all of these too to meet my criteria.A social person, I love travel and adventure. I come from a large family and enjoy occasional visits with my kids, siblings, parents and extended family. Please only contact me if you are:Between the ages of 50 and 62,Caucasian,Physically, emotionally and financially healthyKind, considerate and well manneredPreferably you have grown or nearly grown children. Mine are 19, 21 and 25. I believe that if you love life, life will love you back. And I've decided to ride the happy bus for the rest of my life. Is there a nice, fun, energetic man out there who shares my interests, character and outlook on life? If so, send me a note.

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  • Andy from Opelika | Woman | 52 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    If you meet me you will find I am fun, flirty and classy! I am a sensitive, down to earth woman who is very easy to talk to - usually always have a smile on my face. I have a great sense of humor and I can be silly and free spirited but also feisty at times. I am a very honest person and think it is important to be genuine and not play games - expect the same in my partner. I am an extroverted person and can talk to just about anyone but also consider myself a good listener.I have a variety of hobbies I enjoy but mostly anything outdoors. In the winter I love to ski, both downhill and cross country. The cold weather does not bother me! In the summer months I like working in my garden, going to the beach and traveling. I have many friends so it seems I am always going someplace fun! As far as music....I love to listen to The Drive, 97. I would like to find someone to date with a fun personality and a good sense of humor with the ability to communicate. Someone who is not afraid to open up. I get along best with strong and confident men who are fun, sensitive, spontaneous and enjoy adventure. I am a firm believer in chemistry yet a mutual physical attraction must be there as well.I would prefer to meet for lunch or coffee as a first date. If there is a mutual spark and we have a second date then I will leave it up to you to impress me :) I love wearing jeans, going out for pizza and bowling but I am also comfortable getting dressed up and going to a nice restaurant. I am definitely not a party girl nor would I get along with someone who considers going to a bar to drink as a date.

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