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Aiah, 54
United States, Alabama, Opelika

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About Me

We are all a mix of nurture and nature. In my case the nurture included a lot of arts, culture and liberal politics. Nature gave me my pale skin, red hair, blue/grey eyes and a perfect 0.7 hip to waist ratio. Before I knew the curves were an asset I found I had a pretty good brain that needs a lot of stimulation. I've heard "treasure" and even "odd duck", meant in the nicest way, to describe the fact I don't exactly follow the herd. So unique brew is probably an apt description. It's no big surprise I work in a creative position. And it follows that I frequent galleries and lectures probably more than most. I listen to NPR, watch Charlie Rose and have been buying my food from farmers markets since I was a kid. Those that don't give their word lightly. People who are passionate, be it for their work, their hobby or life in general. Friends describe me as an ever-curious good conversationalist who can make people feel comfortable. I have a knack for finding those interesting little places and things that aren't on the public radar. So there's the touch of the explorer. Very often you'll find some leaf, seed pod or shell in my pockets.On a day-to-day level I possess a good amount of stick-to-it-ive-ness that keeps me grounded. I don't match the flighty artist stereotype at all. After eighteen years of marriage and over twenty years in my vocation, commitment and tenacity come naturally.But being grounded doesn't mean I've spent a lot of time standing still. I have adventured to some out of the way places. Travel is a mind-expanding experience.What might be a matching brew? Not sure...I am like my worst client in that regard, I keep thinking I will know it when I see it. I do think taking any action ripples out toward a final positive outcome. Even if it seems like a numbers game or random chance, to my mind even the small step of coffee, increases both our odds of finding that someone we are seeking.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Tari from Opelika | Woman | 54 years old | Sagittarius
    Tari

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Hi..I am a professional person, but pretty down to earth. I love being with people and make the best out of any situation. I want a real man that can make decisions and knows how to be a gentleman. I am a fun person who loves life and is a bit sassy at times. I love a guy who can carry a conversation and who most of all had a great sense of humor!! You must love dogs..I have the sweetest dog ever!!Oh.. I love football, but I am a girly girl. No camping for me!!

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  • Jammie from Opelika | Woman | 52 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am an honest, hard working, passionate, christian person who is looking for that one special man to share and live life to the fullest. I am looking for a "Real Relationship" Im not here to play games! Players you can go elsewhere wont tolerate it! I only need one man but he must be my everything and I want to be his everything. I deserve to be very happy and deserve a very good man that will take the utmost care of me. I have been single 12 years and my youngest of 17 years will be out of the house soon, but if not thats ok, she is my best friend. Its time for me to find my other half to share my life with. I am not a quitter and commitment in a long term relationship to be all that it can be thru the think and thin, in good times and bad. I'm not settling for 2nd best and would hope there is someone out there that I could be there # 1 as well and the best for them. I am financially secure, I have a good job at the local Hospital. My home is paid for, and just bought my second home, so the first one is making my payments, my vechials are paid for, my bills are paid and I have a ***fica score. I am a responsible and reliable person. I have been through hell in back with my kids, but I love them to death. They say "What dont kill you will make you a stronger person," So trueI am a single mother of three children, only one at home and she is my #1 proirity and my world. We are happy but we are looking for that special gentleman to fill that void that something is missing in our lives. I am a very honest and caring woman. I am a very unique woman not many of us out there as I have been told. I dont play games and I dont want to be played either. Been there done that, I treat people they way I want to be treated with love and respect. I put my heart and soul into a relationship and I expect the same in return. The little things in a realtionship mean more to me than the big things. I'm a simple woman. Im frugal at times and not high maintance. I can be pleased easily. I love giving massages and receiving them as well... I just love sitting on the couch and watching a movie and cuddling. I love surprises. I want a man who knows what he wants and knows how to get it. I want a man who know what commiment to one woman means. I want to fall in love all over again and it will be forever this time He must be honest, faithful, trustworthy, caring, loving, sincere, happy and have values and morals. I am shy at first but open up once I get to know you. I am very cautious of who I let into my life and my heart. I have been told I am a very special person. I want Those butterfly feelings, the feeling of being in love with that very special man in my life.. I would give anything in the world to find that feeling again. I am scared to death to fall in love as I have been hurt in the past., Im NOT settling for second best, I want the Best. I know we are all not perfect, just looking for someone perfect for me, flaws and all. I have learned from each heart break that life does go on, and it happens for a reasons we dont understand, and you just have to tell yourself "NEXT" can not let my past hurt and pain get in my way of finding that special someone to fullfill my wildest dreams someday. My daughter and I deserve it more than anyone.Love begins the moment you desire to give to another person rather than take from them." Love ends the moment you demand more from any person then they freely offer themselves." Im pretty laid back, I like to keep it simple kinda go with the flow, dining out, a movie n popcorn, walk in the park just enjoying each other and getting to know one another.

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  • Ma from Opelika | Woman | 52 years old | Cancer
    Ma

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Well hello, A little about me.... Honest, steady and reliable, also kind-hearted, enormously patient. I would rather listen to music then watch TV. Unless it’s with a good man, a bottle of wine and of course with a good movie too.I enjoy cooking and baking; I really like it when I get a “little” help in the kitchen. LOL Road trips are the best...See the country and little towns, good old flea markets, garage sales on a beautiful day. Now that is a great day, or sneak away for a picnic lunch. Gardening, working on the lawn and shoving snow. I would be outside all day if I could, can you tell I work in an office? That’s enough about me; you will have to find out the rest. You know laughing, dancing and partying...etc. My Man: Honest, caring, and reliable. The rest I’ll find out though conversation... .LOLSmile and the world smiles back. My first date would be more about getting to know you. We can start with a fun activity, then a walk if the weather is good. Then followed with a nice dinner to end the evening.

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