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Aiah, 54
United States, Alabama, Opelika

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About Me

We are all a mix of nurture and nature. In my case the nurture included a lot of arts, culture and liberal politics. Nature gave me my pale skin, red hair, blue/grey eyes and a perfect 0.7 hip to waist ratio. Before I knew the curves were an asset I found I had a pretty good brain that needs a lot of stimulation. I've heard "treasure" and even "odd duck", meant in the nicest way, to describe the fact I don't exactly follow the herd. So unique brew is probably an apt description. It's no big surprise I work in a creative position. And it follows that I frequent galleries and lectures probably more than most. I listen to NPR, watch Charlie Rose and have been buying my food from farmers markets since I was a kid. Those that don't give their word lightly. People who are passionate, be it for their work, their hobby or life in general. Friends describe me as an ever-curious good conversationalist who can make people feel comfortable. I have a knack for finding those interesting little places and things that aren't on the public radar. So there's the touch of the explorer. Very often you'll find some leaf, seed pod or shell in my pockets.On a day-to-day level I possess a good amount of stick-to-it-ive-ness that keeps me grounded. I don't match the flighty artist stereotype at all. After eighteen years of marriage and over twenty years in my vocation, commitment and tenacity come naturally.But being grounded doesn't mean I've spent a lot of time standing still. I have adventured to some out of the way places. Travel is a mind-expanding experience.What might be a matching brew? Not sure...I am like my worst client in that regard, I keep thinking I will know it when I see it. I do think taking any action ripples out toward a final positive outcome. Even if it seems like a numbers game or random chance, to my mind even the small step of coffee, increases both our odds of finding that someone we are seeking.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

House Latin Cooking Crime Horror Sport War
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    Nikita

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    New to this so will need to improve... I love a variety of music. Love going to see live shows. I like to camp & be outdoors. Love the water & boating. I have a jet ski. I enjoy traveling, scuba diving and like to meet new people. Dont watch much TV but I do enjoy a good movie either at home or on the big screen. Bowling is fun in the winter months. I would really like to find a home/condo to be able to travel more to in winter months.; I miss it! Fun things to do to keep you young at heart! Staying healthy is important to me. Taking walks, bike riding, swimming and being in and around the water are some of the things I like to do. Having a drink or lunch is always an easy way to talk and get to know someone.

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  • Dellma from Opelika | Woman | 52 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am starting a new chapter in my life and looking to see if there is a compassionate, funny, intelligent and good-hearted guy to spend quality time with. Some words that have been used to describe me or a non-linear conversationalist, out of the box, artistic and creative, caring, passionate and very silly.I believe in the law of attraction, weird random events that seem to draw two people together. I laugh every chance I get and therefore I am looking for someone who does not take himself to seriously and understands that kindness and compassion are the most important traits that a person can have. I am looking for someone who appreciates the world around them and tries to make it a better place.Can you really find that "spark" on the Internet? Isn't that what we all want? I'll willingly try - it's all about a positive attitude, which I have along with lots of hope. I am an eternal optimist. So here's to the hope of finding someone as passionate about life and wants a partner to be with him.

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  • Maryalice from Opelika | Woman | 54 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Je recherche un homme sincère et capable d'engagement. Qui a du charisme et du charme.Fidèle, respectueux, généreux et sociable.Homme dynamique et professionnel. Qui aime cuisiner et aller au restaurant.Etre bien dans sa peau et aimer être ensemble en gardant son propre droit d'exister.Quelqu'un qui saura m'aimer entièrement.Quelqu'un qui me donnera une certaine importance dans sa vie.... qui aura beaucoup de nous entre nous !!Et qui me laissera participer à sa vie.Un amoureux qui augmentera ma joie d'exister.Ensemble nous serons de bons partenaires de vie.Il sera fier de d'être avec moi et moi aussi. Je recherche un amour vrai ! Une première rencontre...ce serait adéquat de se rencontrer au restaurant après avoir bien entendu s'être jasés au téléphone.

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