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Aiah, 54
United States, Alabama, Opelika

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We are all a mix of nurture and nature. In my case the nurture included a lot of arts, culture and liberal politics. Nature gave me my pale skin, red hair, blue/grey eyes and a perfect 0.7 hip to waist ratio. Before I knew the curves were an asset I found I had a pretty good brain that needs a lot of stimulation. I've heard "treasure" and even "odd duck", meant in the nicest way, to describe the fact I don't exactly follow the herd. So unique brew is probably an apt description. It's no big surprise I work in a creative position. And it follows that I frequent galleries and lectures probably more than most. I listen to NPR, watch Charlie Rose and have been buying my food from farmers markets since I was a kid. Those that don't give their word lightly. People who are passionate, be it for their work, their hobby or life in general. Friends describe me as an ever-curious good conversationalist who can make people feel comfortable. I have a knack for finding those interesting little places and things that aren't on the public radar. So there's the touch of the explorer. Very often you'll find some leaf, seed pod or shell in my pockets.On a day-to-day level I possess a good amount of stick-to-it-ive-ness that keeps me grounded. I don't match the flighty artist stereotype at all. After eighteen years of marriage and over twenty years in my vocation, commitment and tenacity come naturally.But being grounded doesn't mean I've spent a lot of time standing still. I have adventured to some out of the way places. Travel is a mind-expanding experience.What might be a matching brew? Not sure...I am like my worst client in that regard, I keep thinking I will know it when I see it. I do think taking any action ripples out toward a final positive outcome. Even if it seems like a numbers game or random chance, to my mind even the small step of coffee, increases both our odds of finding that someone we are seeking.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

House Latin Cooking Crime Horror Sport War
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    Woman. 64 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-66

    Hey there, I'm Michelle and new to here . I would love to meet the man i will spend the rest of my living with ,I'm not yet a paid member but i will leave my contact on here so that you will be able to reach me ,,Give me a text on my Number ***i will be here waiting for your Text , Only serious people please!!!!!!

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  • Adell from Opelika | Woman | 51 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    In fact, I’m never, ever bored. I don’t sit around watching tv like most people I meet. I actually don’t even have tv service. I occasionally find tv shows online that I want to follow, so I might watch one show a week. I love movies and books, though. I take a stack out of the library every week. And though I can’t play an ***, I always have music in earshot. Particularly classical, bluegrass, celtic and folk. I used to work for PBS, and all my news comes from NPR or people I talk to. I’ve run my own small shop and still keep up a small business. I’ve got an entrepreneurial spirit, without a doubt, and I’m full of ideas. I believe in working hard, but not if it isn’t fun or fulfilling. It ought to be about more than the money. I like to lose myself in making things in many different media. I love old junk that can be made into something else, and I especially love the hunting and scouting, the poking and pawing for treasure. I love all kinds of art. I love beauty anywhere I can find it, in galleries, in books, in nature, in food, in music, in dance, in film, in architecture. I love people who are not self-centered, but those who have compassion and generosity, and real caring for their fellow humans of all kinds, and for the earth, and think about the big questions.I’ve had a lot of money, and a very little, and it doesn’t really matter that much to me. I wish I could never think about it at all. I’m ridiculously optimistic and genuinely pretty consistently cheerful (ask anyone!), though I’ve had my share of troubles, like most people. I'm a cancer survivor, and I’ve raised two kind, intelligent, hard working children, who are really independent and adventurous.I love to travel too, and I’ I adored every minute. I want to experience other cultures and see the rest of the world, but not alone. I am striving to live life larger, but practical considerations are getting in the way! I love this small town where I feel so safe, and people are so kind, and I have so many friends, but I’d sure like to feel the sun on my face more than 56 days a year and have plays and galleries and concerts at my fingertips. I’d like to have some kind of balance between the city and the country, because I love them both, just neither all the time. I’m a crazy romantic, in spite of a lot of heartache. So much so, that I do wedding styling. I love using my creative talents to help to give people one of the happiest days of their lives. It’s wrapped up in how much I love flowers too. I’m not afraid to be what some think is outrageous because I like to have fun, and I don’t need anyone’s approval. Masquerade ball? Mardi Gras? Evening gown and the opera? Oh yea. I love it. And champagne. I love champagne. And fresh oysters. And don’t forget the lobster.

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  • Santos from Opelika | Woman | 51 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I'm tired of the single life and looking for a friend, partner and ultimately someone to spend my life with. Some things that interest me are music. All kinds, not a fan of rap but most anything else. I like taking rides with no particular destination in mind. Motorcycles, I even tried having one of my own, It was on my bucket list:-) But to keep from putting my poor little mama in an early grave from heart failure every time I got on, I decided to pass it on to someone else with a bucket list to fill :-) I had my Harley....! I like cooking out, sitting around a campfire. Thought about taking up fishing, seems to be something inviting about it. It's by the water so it can't be all bad. I really am kinda flexible on things that interest me. Maybe you have something in mind that would tickle my fancy :-)I'm not interested in serial dating, I'm hoping to find that one to spend every day of the rest of my life with. I realize there is a certain order to things, and it's trial and error. But!-) No games, just straight up, tell it like it is. At this stage of my life it suddenly hit me that time is not as plentiful as it once was. I want to make memories with someone. When the time comes to sit in our rockers I want to be able look over and smile, saying "remember when?" Not " what if" ...So, if you know what you want and you think maybe we have some common ground, drop me a line. Let's start making those memories . I think a "First Date" should come after a face to face. No need in feeling like you have to entertain each other if there is no initial spark.

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