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Bellinda, 51

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About Me

Down-to-earth is the best way to describe me. I am not superficial & cannot tolerate people who are. I care more about who a person is inside. I have a good sense of humor and am able to laugh at myself as well as admit when I am wrong. I enjoy cooking and healthy foods and being fit. I am as comfortable in flip flops as I am in heels. I don't have children so my yellow lab, Gunner, is my replacement for that. I am interested in someone who loves dogs and won't be jealous of mine. A good sense of humor is important as well as someone who can make me laugh. I would also like to find someone who likes to have a healthy lifestyle - staying fit, etc., who would enjoy someone that is caring and is equally caring back. Finally, someone who is romantic would be an added bonus. I would be fine with a first meeting - coffee, glass of wine, something casual and go from there. I think it doesn't take long to figure out whether it makes sense to proceed further.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Harlow

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I just love an educated man, one who's worldly! I love to bike, power walk-jog, swimming, boating, bought a home on the coast, it came with a Kayak! Yeah!! I love to cook, especially together, I eat healthy too....Health and fitness are a way of life for me and I definitely need the same in a partner! Please, Please be in shape, good shape that is... if you write to me! Thanks!I'm seeking a relationship where the chemistry is ***! I enjoy being in love, to have that feeling that you just can't wait to see that person again, I want to wait on the curb for you to pull up! :) I'm a happy person, love to laugh and joke.....life is short.. I want to enjoy every moment!! I am so attracted to an educated man, who is a white collar worker, that is just my type of man! I'm very adventurous, always willing to try out anything new! Not jumping out of a perfectly good airplane though! :) Swimming with the sharks is probably out of the question too! I am attracted to a man who's kind and compassionate, one who can show empathy. A man that's witty, successful, intelligent and Confident.... now that's a very attractive quality to me. I love a take charge guy, now there is a difference with take charge and controlling! :) You have a strong sense of who you are, where you are going and what you want out of life! I know exactly what I want.......Well, I think I do! Ha! I would love to find a man that is my best friend, share my deepest thoughts and dreams with. Someone that will challenge and protect me. Someone that I truly enjoy being with and most importantly... Respect! You have respect for yourself, have good core values and morals! Communication is key to having a healthy relationship, I want to appreciate the journey of getting to know someone! I look forward to the 1st day of the rest of our lives! A few things I don't enjoy....Drama, Confrontations, Negative Attitudes & Behavior! I think I am alot of fun, I am a people person, my glass is always half full.... I want that in a partner..... We'll be 2 Happy People! Ha! Hope my profile will spark an interest, hopefully you will see yourself as you read this! Somewhere quiet for drinks or dinner.... easier to talk & get to know one another! Some of my favorite things:I love small quaint French Restaurants.....If they have white twinkle lights, even better! :) Red wine, love a full bodied Cab or a Shiraz. White table cloths & good service! Wine tastings are fun, White Linen Night, Dirty Linen, French Quarter Festival, Theater, renting movies, jogging to the park from my house & riding bikes!

  • Elvira

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Please take 2 minutes to read the whole thing ..THANKS!!!Im Looking to be crazy, madly INLOVE with the right guy , that will take the relationship to the end of life!!.....Its getting cold ,,I need a real snuggler and cuddler with his big arms wrapped around me, making me feel safe and warm.I need my Babe ,,and want him to call me his Babe ...And hopefully hes so into me, and im so into him. it ends up being that relationship you envy when seeing other couples together at the park or holding hands etc...We all want that magical love!!!But part of the magic to a great relationship is loyalty, being trustworthy, honesty, be caring, be loving, be a man who knows about intimacy,be kind, be gentle, laugh with me, cry with me or at least comfort me because how ever stupid it is, its important to me ,always appreciate each other,always tell each other you love them ,,have his back as he will have yours ...all these and much more are VERY IMPORTANT TO ME ,,Ive given MY ALL in relationships only to be hurt, burnt, maybe cheated on, used, and im done with those kind of men!! Im done being used!But Im waiting for a sign ,,I havent felt it yet....But its so "unmistakable" when it happens..But here, i look at his eyes in the pics hes posted ,,I read the words he's written, and when it grabs me in a certain way ,,you will definately know it and hopefully we meet ( not at dunkins) Dinner and conversation and at a cozy nice resturant where we can talk ( A REAL DATE), and hopefully you have conversation back with me and i dont have to drag words out of you, Its the type of chemistry, that if you know if Its going to be an amazing date , it may for sure will end up in an amazingggggggg relationship.....I wish you all luck that you find that woman that gives you that unmistakable feeling, and if by the end of the date there are no sparks,( you will both know) ,, then move on to the next...but guys , im sorry ,,we want REAL DATES, not a dunkins donut and a coffee ,,..theres no impression there ,, its daytime usually, its the wrong mood , its not a DATE ..its a 5 minute meet and greet ,,there's no excitement to it ,,it sucks actually....wellllllllllThese are my real feelings on what i want in a relationship ,,I want closeness...I want him to text me during the day if he can ,,if were definately a couple ,,arouse me by that text, as i will you..heat things up!!! show her you love her ,,dont push her away when she wants to hang on you, or play with your goatee ( (Love Goatees!! lol) and show people in public , that yes ,,i love this man/woman with all my heart and soul and want everyone to know!!! Do you own a motorcycle??????Love summer riding!...have all my own gear :) but hate riding on freezing nights!! BBBBrrrrrrrrrr! but love roadtrips by car or motorcycle, exploring different hideaways, hole in the wall eateries , as in diners ,,the best!!! just being with my man having fun doing whatever it may be!Also love boating on a warm summer day, maybe even a lil fishing is cool, Lunch on the boat or in where the boats can be beside maybe a cafe ,,pretty cool...Please Be local .. I Definately dont want you living too far away!!!LOCAL to LowellGood luck to all!!!!P.S. you'll only understand this if you have kids..I have 4 and 3 are doing great! But they say there's always one ..well this is definately THE ONE, all his life! My 30 yr old son is back, ugh yea,,supposedly saving money for a new place ,,his gf and baby are at her moms...The gf is a winner too!! But im the only place he could go to, but i only have a one bedroom..so hes on a mattress on the diningroom floor...and he has 3 cats ,,yes 3 ,,im very unhappy about that, but i dont see them , so if your allergic let me know ..my son isnt here alot ,,he needs a job , long story...,god only knows how long he will be here ,,i know im his mother, and i love him ,but 30 and back home??? no need for it...I could go on forever, but i wont ,,i just pray he's finding a way out!!!!!! If this is an issue for you, let me know..... Casual Dress, Nice Jeans are good ,Its a date, Look a lil decent, as i will for you..and always do look decent...Just dont look like you just got done cleaning your backyard full of dirt and fell in a ditch!( Im speaking from experience sadly) oh brother right???...Remember,Dinner, a cozy place we can talk and get the conversation to flow to get to know each other and if passion is in both eyes ,,a lil kiss...And ill venture out to meet you Onlyyyyy after i feel that unmistakable feeling after talking here off and on... My feelings are ,, if you like me that much , you will leave me a note before work, or i will leave you a note during the day ,,it would be awesome if you were able to use a comp at work,,but we'll see..

  • Cara

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I work for hospice and love my job, of course it has made me realize that life is very short and u should always make the most of everything u do. If u love someone make sure u show and tell them every day. I avoid drama , I am tooo old for that. communication and talking to each other is very important for a relationship. Always be thier best friend and stand by them when things get difficult or when things are great. Another words be thier best friend and always be there when they need u. As most of u know without trust or communication most realtionships cant make it for long. I love the ocean any place with palm trees and sand sets me free. I love doing most anything, sports OU ! ofcourse, THUNDERS, YEA!!!! BOATING, SWIMMING, , MOVIES, DINNER, AND JUST STAYING HOME AND LAYING IN BED WITH WITH A GOOD MOVIE . SPENDING TIME WITH GOOD FRIENDS ! No matter what people say women and men can be good friends. So if I find a friendship on here and it turns out to be nothing more, then it was well worth it to me. Good Luck with ur search and god bless! First date......ummmm....... some place we can get to know each other, not to crowded or loud. Im pretty easy going, so what ever we decide together.

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