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Shantay, 54
United States, Alabama, Ohatchee

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Greetings to all of you gentleman out there. I suppose I need to let you know a little about myself, at least that's what this says I'm suppose to do. :) Well, to start things off, I like being a girlie girl and yet I'm still a tough little cookie - I just survived a copperhead bite...YEP, and I LIVED TO TELL ABOUT IT! LOL...Put me out of work for 3 weeks, but now i'm back and still pushing forward and working hard.These days it seems so hard to find love again...I don't know about you, but I believe honesty is the best policy and I'm praying that something good happens this year. . Hopefully the good Lord will grant some of us those wishes we have to be with another to share life with. Its not fun anymore being alone. I may not be 5'10 and a "barbie doll", but I am a woman that is true to one man, that is honest, that has a big heart to love someone that would love me back the very best that I can. I would like to embrace someone to love for the rest of my days on earth. Should he have a family, that would be the icing on the cake. I'm not one to get angry quickly, i will listen to someone elses troubles with an open heart and i promise to be as honest as the day is long. I dont like hurtful people and I truly strive to be one that shows a loving heart and a helping hand at all times.I am a transplant from NJ/PA but dont hold it against me - I LEFT! LOL....i enjoy a good sense of humor. I enjoy making people feel at home and I like to entertain and have picnics and so on. I do alot of trail riding and would like to find someone to share that part of my life with. Its not fun riding with all my friends that are "couples" and i'm always the 3rd wheel. Horses are a big part of my life and I also have several dogs. They are all rescues. I have been a massage therapist for the last 24 years and I am presently pursuing going back to school for my last career in Equine Facilitated Therapy. I know the connection between horses and people with disabilities or traumas is extremely effective and I want to be a part of it.I have always dreamed about having a place where my rescue animals could be part of the healing process for children that have been abused and have emotional issues. I have seen the great breakthroughs that animals can make with these kids, its very interesting and so important to them both. But this takes a special kind of man to put up with my special kind of life....are you up for it, would you like to share in it?I am a very active person - I work hard and I like to go do things from trail riding to going to the lake.i love a guy with a great mustache and boots and that smells really good...oh my...LOLI have to add here that i have talked to many men and think I am sooo far away - but if the right one were to have the right connection with me - together we could figure something out. I am very very willing to move. I have no family here and moving would be just the next chapter leading to a happy life together.Thank you for reading this and taking the time to connect. I wish you all the very best that life has to offer an God Bless all of you out there and be close to you when you're feeling down, lonely, scaired and wont admit it or times just get hard - we've all been there. Chin up - its a new year, lets see what happens!- but somewhere fun would be good - if i can laugh with you, that would be a good thing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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