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Shirley, 53

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I am currently retired, but may go back to work -- but not right now! I worked in the IT industry for 25 years and a law office for about 5 years. I absolutely love being able to do what I want to do on my own schedule. I am of Catholic faith and I attend mass daily and on the weekend. I am involved in several areas of the church. I very much enjoy doing volunteer work and giving back to the community. I have done work with hospice, working directly with the patience, however I am not current doing this actvity. My real passion is working with the elderly. I am healthy of mind and body and try to stay that way thourgh diet and exercise. Family is very important to me and consider myself to be family oriented.-in-laws, and a bunch of nieces and nephews.I love to travel and do have a passport. However, I have not done a lot of traveling. Would definitely like to do more. I love music of all kinds, except Rap. I would love to go to a live Rolling Stones concert. Who would like to take me?I am an independent girl meaning I don't need someone to do everything for me, but do enjoy the company of a good wholesome man. I tend to be a little old fashion and like to take things slow in a relationship. I very much enjoy most any activity with my partner. I have always enjoyed anything around the water. I consider myself to be very honest, dependable, and optimistic. The short comings in life never get me down. I can laugh at screwups and don't have some over inflated ego. To me everyday is a new day with new opportunities and challenges. I have a good bit of energy but not as much as a did when I was 25. I exercise 5 to 6 times a week mostly walking and a few classes and a personal trainer. I know that relationships require patience and compromise to be successful. A good first date would be at a restaurant where we could get to know one another. If all goes well, we can stay for dinner, if not we can go our separate ways.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Darlena

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I've been divorced for over two years. I have two grown sons***and ***that live in other states.I'm not quite sure what to write here to indicate that I am interesting, intelligent, funny ( witty, even!) , sexy and honest. I have morals AND values...... I'm neither a pessimist nor an optimist. I'm a different breed. A realist! Described in one word?...I'm a Pisces sun with a Virgo moon and a Scorpio ascendent....essentially, I care, I love to play, but will seriously take care of my own business. This, to me, is one of the strongest astrological combinations. Watch out!We are ever changing,ever learning. Read the whole thing...you never know...I frequently update this...humor in all things, truly!By all means....if you have/can write a great, fascinating, intriguing profile...well, message me! I need help!An interesting quote ( to me, anyways) :To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.e e CummingsI am registered here in hopes of finding a relationship. I'm not looking for a clone...I'm looking to grow a relationship based on truth, trust, honesty, adventure, shared sexual desires, intellect,curiosity....and laughter...I realize that this is a tall order. Yes, all my photos are current...are yours?A girl with a mindA woman with an attitudeA lady with classA short list of particular likes, in no particular order:Ellipses* Old Architecture* Cooking* Thunderstorms* Knowledge* Steaks on the grill* Flowers* A cold beer* A warm man* Bubble baths** Kittens* Dragons* Being Female* The smell of onion grass* Astrology* Cuddling* Sandalwood incense* Flea markets* Motorcycles* Refinishing furniture* Earrings(I know,right?)* Candle light* Laughing* What catnip does to my cat....lolHow happy my fish are to see me.I may add a few dislikes...debating...ok...these are extreme;- married men- excessive tattoos- facial piercings- couch potatoes (unless we are sharing)- drug addicts- laziness- allergies(I have none)**- any man over 45 who is still "trying" to be a musician(dude,seriously,admit it's just a hobby)- Sports fanatics.....really,it's just a game!- Profiles without pictures.- Either grow your hair long or keep it cut. Mullets? Pass.- People who don't "get" it.- men that send me messages but can't start a conversation.* Talk TO me, not AT me....I'm always buying new books.... I often buy books by title. I'm rarely disappointed. Mostly fantasy and sci-fi.Of note; R.A. Salvatore(go Drizzt!). I am author faithful. I figure if they got my attention once....Movies...hmmm...) Fiddler on the Roof...there are many. I just recently discovered Zero 7..... and Sia Furler....damn good stuff!I don't watch television. Love NPR...Food...hmmm.... Absolutefavorites would be seafood, a great steak, chicken(very versatile), chocolate, garlic.A few things that I would rather not do without:My imagination.Books.Music.Peanut Butter.Pecans( IDK....just like 'em).My sense of humor.Candles.This HUGE old desk that I found at the SA store.Plants.......I'll have to get back to you on this...maybe seafood or this combo....the S's... I don't think never is a good word . I'm certain that I COULD do without these things, but why would I want to? Oh,IDK....Coffee and great conversation....A bottle of wine and some GREAT conversation! Thai food....a museum...basically...interaction.Truthful interaction! No lies, no BS!****PRIVACY NOTICE****(It's a damned shame we have to do this***and it's public domain....so,really, it means nothing, BUT...)Warning! To any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites for any purpose, I reserve all rights and permissions. You do NOT have my permission, implied or explicit, to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content therein. This includes but is not limited to any or all text and photographs. You are therefore notified that you are strictly prohibited from quoting, disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents therein. The foregoing prohibitions also extend and apply equally to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any other personnel directly or indirectly under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private, legally privileged, and confidential information. Violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law and will be deemed to be actionable.It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.

  • Kamila

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I'm finally ready to share my life with someone. I am funny, smart, clever & witty....but most of all honest, affectionate and attentive! I'm not very adventurous (so no skydiving or rock climbing or flying in small planes). I love to spend a day at the beach or lounging by a pool, a night out at the movies, a good restaurant with good company...I also like to go where there's music playing so I can dance. Even a night at home....can be fun with the right person. I'm not a club person although every once in a while I'll want to go someplace where there's music, dancing and social drinking with friends. Road trips are my favorite...a weekend getaway or longer road trips to see a couple of different places are okay too! I'll pack up the food and the drinks and the car games! I am a very passionate person. Passionate about what I want out of life, passionate about my man and passionate about being happy. I also like to bowl...I'll watch football with you if you teach me a thing or two about it (admittedly I can't follow it!!) and I'm a girl who can grill....but I can cook too!I'm not needy...but I am picky...and I have every right to be. I won't settle for anything less than I think I deserve! I'm looking for a man who will treat me right and I'll be sure to do the same!Most of all, I am looking for someone who is looking for the same thing I am. I am NOT looking for a cyber-sex buddy or one-night stand. If that's your goal...keep searching..she's out there...she's just not me! Just because I flirt doesn't mean I'm easy...I want a guy who's up to the challenge and willing to get to know me before we share those intimate moments...and if the chemistry is right, it'll be worth waiting for. I'm at the point in my life where I'm looking for a long-term, meaningful relationship.Chemistry is very important and we will know if we have it when we meet. I believe that there must be Love AND Desire for a relationship to last but without honesty and humor....a relationship won't develop.You should also know that I will NOT respond to any messages if you don't have a photo and please don't use lines like "you're hot" or "hi". I want to know something about you...so send me something that will make me want to respond!So, if you have morals, integrity and a sense of humor...and you've got some rhythm so we can dance...send me an *** to my heart is to send me something witty and original...and we'll take it from there.As a side note, I generally like my men a little younger than me ***and over) as I find I share more interests with them. Although I appreciate an older gentlemen saying hi and making an attempt, you should not be offended if I don't respond...but be clever enough and I just might! :) I only respond to the ones I'm interested in...saves me time and dealing with the nasty messages I get back! So please don't think of me as rude if I don't answer you. First meeting - anywhere quiet where we can talk...to see what we have in common and if there's chemistry. Not a formal date so no commitment or obligation necessary.First date - your choice...show me what you've got...I like to be impressed with originally and creativity.

  • Kasi

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I'm going to get straight to what I am NOT looking for...........Scammers, Bull-sh$t artists, dirt-bags, cyber-sex, a$$-holes, or a moma's boy. That should eliminate 99% of the guys on here.I want to meet someone who wants to have fun, laugh and enjoy life!If you are interested and want to know more about me, message me and we will go from there!If not..........Oh well."It's better to be disliked for who you are than to be loved for who you are not."Never allow someone to be your priority, while allowing yourself to be their option."If you want something you've never had, you have to do something you've never done." Watching the Sun set, on the Beach with a Margarita. Catching Fireflies in a field. Something completely out of the norm and fun!! ***!!!***Put this on your***!!!***page if you---!!!!!!!!!!!***know someone in the***!!!***armed forces or to***!!!***show your support***!!!***and respect to all ***!!!***our troops

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