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Ludivina, 53

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About Me

If not interested - especially if I sent you a message first - please just be kind enough to send a message back.. no one likes to wonder and I can appreciate honesty. To see UNREAD DELETED.. means you are super judgmental, married, in a relationship, can't read or have some other issue.. But if you are interested in exploring a possible connection, I invite you to read on....I am looking for honest relationship with someone who isn't all about themselves. A true loving relationship is never one-sided. I am drama and baggage free..well unless you count the luggage waiting to be packed for the next adventure. I plan to explore new places in the future and it would be more enjoyable with someone to share it with. Motivated to meet the right one but not in a hurry -- true feelings take time to cultivate. like a rare flower. I am educated and love life. Friends would describe me as a "glass overflowing" type of woman as I choose to look at the positive side of life..finding beauty and joy in the simpler things -. looking to find a man that can share that appreciation. I am financially independant and do not need a man for security but life is too short to live it alone. I would love companionship and spending time with a guy that can be true to both themselves and me. Looking forward to meeting you and having a great first date.. Not intested in a hook up. I don't have the body of a 21 year old but do have a heart of gold. My favorite music is modern country but have a love of good jazz, blues as well as current hits. I do not like rap music.. sorry. My interests include reading, gardening, exploring small town charm, flea market treasure hunting, traveling and enjoying new experiences. I want to experiment with new foods although I will admit that if it looks nasty.. I can't try it.. People watching is also a favorite pastime.. I enjoy watching my favorite sports teams play - Falcons, Dawgs and Braves. My enjoyment is not limited to those teams though.. watching football is my favorite. If you get to this part of my profile and aren't totally bored.. another interesting fact about me is that I ride.. and have my own bike.. I shoot.. and have my own glock..be afraid..very afraid..lolOctober plans -.. wanna join me?- Just The Way You Are meeting for coffee or a walk around the park..anything that doesn't feel like a job interview. I saw a profile that although he was too far away to attempt a connection.. he had some wonderful first date ideas. I decided to create a list of my owne..check out the list, choose one that sounds like fun.. and let's enjoy.1. create a piece of pottery (Think Ghost)2. go yardselling3. rent a movie, pop some popcorn 4. go wading in a local creek5. bake cookies together6. Go to a little league game7. have a mexican night.. 8. watch an entire season of your favorite show9. walk the downtown area of a small town10. Visit a cemetary and find the oldest headstones11. hike up Stone Mountain12. Volunteer at a local animal shelter13. go antiquing14. Gocart racing (warn you.. I am very competitive)15. Putt-Putt (see number #14 warning)16. go to the Planetarium17. Play board games (again read the warning on #***. Have a carpet picnic19. window shop20. Bowling22. Go to an ethnic festival23. Carriage Ride24. Go to a hobby store and work on a project together25. Read to seniors at a nursing homeHe had ***ideas.. my list is under construction.. but you get the idea.. anything that is less stressful than staring at each other over a cup of coffee

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Twana

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am passionate about everything I do. I am a strong, confident, Woman who knows what I want and what I don't want. So, here are a few things I don't want. Control freaks, argumentative, vulgar or pushy. I love to laugh and make others laugh. A sense of humor is essential. I use off the cuff humor in my day to day life. I am very diverse. I can have a conversation with anyone from any walk of life and feel quite at ease. I treat all people the same, with respect. I will talk to the Hotel Maid, Waiter or Waitress, and my garbage collector and be as genuine with them as I am with my peers and collegues. I am very naturally curious and thirst for knowledge and information. I am an idea person, not the one that waits for directions. I don't make *** life, but am very spontaneous when it comes to breaking out and having fun. If I decide to go somewhere at 5 in the evening, I can be packed and on the road by 5:30.I love the outdoors and being in the nature God created for us. I love being on the water doing just about anything. Music is one of my greatest pleasures. I like just about everything with a few exceptions. I like discovering little out of the way places with live music. I am a huge sports fan. I love NCAA (Rock Chalk Baby) NFL (go chiefs?) and NBA, the Heat and Celtics. I am patriotic, I love this country and those who have fought and died for it. I don't really like to shop, or do alot of girly things. I am very comfortable in jeans or sweats but can transition into a little black dress and heels at a moments notice. I am not high maintenence at all and prefer to do most things for myself. I know how to make my Man feel like a Man and I always show him how much I appreciate him. I will leave notes or a card on your pillow or carseat just to tell you I love you and am thinking about you. I love to plan surprise trips whether that be to the Lake for dineer on Tuesday, or a week on the beach. I will not emasculate you, but with that being said, I expect to be your equal, walking through life next to you, not a step behind you. I do not like being told what to do, and I will give you the same consideration. We both had lives, friends, and interests before we met and I don't expect that, or you to change. I am affectionate, romantic, passionate, loyal, honest, and true to my commitments. I am highly social, so a jealous man cannot be with me. I need you to be very secure in who you are and in yourself. I am not looking for a relationship to define me, I have spent 52 years doing that myself. I like to start out slow and am not looking for *** gratification. I have more respect for myself and you for that. I am very physical. I take care of myself and expect the same from my man. Turnoffs: People who are pretencious, and put possessions before relationships. People who have no Empathy and the natural desire to make a difference, A life with me is fun, exciting, adventurous, romantic, and very passionate. I like happy hour. If it's awkward it is ok to have a drink or appetizer and say goodnight

  • Cinthia

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I came here as a Navy wife. I stayed because it is home for my kids. My son is 19 and in college. My daughter is 14. I have a good job. I have wonderful friends. I have a house that needs attention, but I am making it mine, gradually. I enjoy my children and my pets. I have a fun car. I like all kinds of music. I like going to concerts. The Hard Rock is my favorite casino for music. I like watching OTHERS sing karaoke. I am learning to be more spontaneous.At home, I like to read, watch TV & movies, cook. I should spend more time doing yard work. Plant some flowers maybe. I realize as I read profiles that I don't have a specific hobby.I like the beach. Water is my peaceful "go to" place. I've spent the better part of the last 11 years single and making my children my priority. I will always be a mom, but it is time for me to do some things for me.My daughter says I am "old". I definitely thought 53 was ancient when I was 14! I don't feel old. It is very true that we are as young as we feel. I want someone to have fun with....... Just to be together and share life and experiences.I am not in shape. I need to lose weight & exercise more. I need to take more time for ME! Should I have put this out there? Perhaps not. But, this is a weakness. I admit it and I need help with it. I know a relationship doesn't happen over night. It takes the right chemistry, communication and time. I miss the partnership. Holding hands, sneaking up behind me while I cook, snuggling on the couch watching a movie, having someone to share the beauty of a starry night, the emotion of a thunderstorm, the peace of calm water or the energy of a sun filled sky. I would like to find a special someone. I would like to be a special someone. I have a big heart and love with all of it.Some people say men are as nervous about being on sites like this as women. It is hard for a lot of us to make that first contact for fear of rejection. I will always respect whomever makes contact with me enough to send back some kind of response. Smile and have a great day. :) Something simple and low stress for both of us...... No pressure. Drinks near the water? A walk on a pier?

  • Augusta

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Do you really know what you want?I have alot to give to the one ready to accept it. No games, no drama.....very simple.Would love to find the right one for me.....

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