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Darlena, 52
United States, Alabama, Odenville

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About Me

I've been divorced for over two years. I have two grown sons***and ***that live in other states.I'm not quite sure what to write here to indicate that I am interesting, intelligent, funny ( witty, even!) , sexy and honest. I have morals AND values...... I'm neither a pessimist nor an optimist. I'm a different breed. A realist! Described in one word?...I'm a Pisces sun with a Virgo moon and a Scorpio ascendent....essentially, I care, I love to play, but will seriously take care of my own business. This, to me, is one of the strongest astrological combinations. Watch out!We are ever changing,ever learning. Read the whole thing...you never know...I frequently update this...humor in all things, truly!By all means....if you have/can write a great, fascinating, intriguing profile...well, message me! I need help!An interesting quote ( to me, anyways) :To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.e e CummingsI am registered here in hopes of finding a relationship. I'm not looking for a clone...I'm looking to grow a relationship based on truth, trust, honesty, adventure, shared sexual desires, intellect,curiosity....and laughter...I realize that this is a tall order. Yes, all my photos are current...are yours?A girl with a mindA woman with an attitudeA lady with classA short list of particular likes, in no particular order:Ellipses* Old Architecture* Cooking* Thunderstorms* Knowledge* Steaks on the grill* Flowers* A cold beer* A warm man* Bubble baths** Kittens* Dragons* Being Female* The smell of onion grass* Astrology* Cuddling* Sandalwood incense* Flea markets* Motorcycles* Refinishing furniture* Earrings(I know,right?)* Candle light* Laughing* What catnip does to my cat....lolHow happy my fish are to see me.I may add a few dislikes...debating...ok...these are extreme;- married men- excessive tattoos- facial piercings- couch potatoes (unless we are sharing)- drug addicts- laziness- allergies(I have none)**- any man over 45 who is still "trying" to be a musician(dude,seriously,admit it's just a hobby)- Sports fanatics.....really,it's just a game!- Profiles without pictures.- Either grow your hair long or keep it cut. Mullets? Pass.- People who don't "get" it.- men that send me messages but can't start a conversation.* Talk TO me, not AT me....I'm always buying new books.... I often buy books by title. I'm rarely disappointed. Mostly fantasy and sci-fi.Of note; R.A. Salvatore(go Drizzt!). I am author faithful. I figure if they got my attention once....Movies...hmmm...) Fiddler on the Roof...there are many. I just recently discovered Zero 7..... and Sia Furler....damn good stuff!I don't watch television. Love NPR...Food...hmmm.... Absolutefavorites would be seafood, a great steak, chicken(very versatile), chocolate, garlic.A few things that I would rather not do without:My imagination.Books.Music.Peanut Butter.Pecans( IDK....just like 'em).My sense of humor.Candles.This HUGE old desk that I found at the SA store.Plants.......I'll have to get back to you on this...maybe seafood or this combo....the S's... I don't think never is a good word . I'm certain that I COULD do without these things, but why would I want to? Oh,IDK....Coffee and great conversation....A bottle of wine and some GREAT conversation! Thai food....a museum...basically...interaction.Truthful interaction! No lies, no BS!****PRIVACY NOTICE****(It's a damned shame we have to do this***and it's public domain....so,really, it means nothing, BUT...)Warning! To any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites for any purpose, I reserve all rights and permissions. You do NOT have my permission, implied or explicit, to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content therein. This includes but is not limited to any or all text and photographs. You are therefore notified that you are strictly prohibited from quoting, disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents therein. The foregoing prohibitions also extend and apply equally to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any other personnel directly or indirectly under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private, legally privileged, and confidential information. Violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law and will be deemed to be actionable.It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Punk Caribbean Chinese Indonesian South American History
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