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Valene, 54

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About Me

Hi, first let me say that I am not photogenic, wish I were but I'm not. Secondly, if you are married or female....thanks, but no thanks..seriously. I am lots of fun.. I'm sweet and witty. I'm confident but not at all self absorbed. .I'm all about how sweet, funny and intelligent someone is, not what they have. I love to dress up in dresses and skirts but I'm comfortable in jeans too. I like being busy, whether it be at work, at home, playing and watching sports and games indoors or outdoors. I played basketball, softball and volleyball in high school and was MVP; I fenced in college.I'm a big advocate for the underdog. This year I volunteered for a project at Gretchen Everheart School for the disabled...making a beautiful butterfly garden for the kids.I'm looking for a friend first, foremost and always...a partner and a lover. Someone who is compassionate to others. Someone who likes to have fun and be adventurous. Let's have fun....really anything comfortable, cozy-then if we are having a good time, have a nice, casual dinner.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Irmgard

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am easy-going, laid-back, but goal driven. I work hard to play hard. Traveling is a major part of my life as it is part of my job. I love to explore new places and try new things. I'm an avid skiier, yet I love to drink an ice cold beer on the beach. I love to have new challenges, both physical and mental.I am a lover of classic rock music but since moving to NC I have expandend my listening choices to country music; I even tried to learn to like beach music (still not sure I get that).I enjoy being physically active and go to the gym as much as I can. It is important to me to be as healthy and fit as I can.Goals: Find someone to have fun with who makes me happy and keeps me challenged. I want a first date that says this guy has his sh*t together! He needs to be sure of himself yet lets me know he appreciates my sense of humor and company.

  • Shondra

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    An *** "hello", "hi", or "how are you", is not enough for a response. Seriously, there have to be some basic communication skills present.. A couple of words are not an introduction for a conversation. No profile picture, No response. If you don't have a profile photo, I will not respond.-conformist, untraditional, and most of all, authentic. I prefer open, direct conversation without censorship. My friends would tell you that I am wickedly playful.I gravitate toward people who live their lives with passion, enthusiasm and intent. My spirituality is rooted in science with a naturalistic perspective in the governing laws of nature (Metaphysics). Following a path of self-discovery is essential for me. Each day is an exploration and the journey is unpredictable. I embrace and savor life in all its beauty, mystique and infinite possibilities. I believe the succulence of life is to be found by challenging ourselves with the unknown.I am a vegetarian and healthy eating and physical fitness are important to me. If you are "full sized" or do not exercise on a regular basis, we will not gel. For me, life is truly about the little things. Casual get-togethers with friends, sitting in cozy coffee shops or hole-in-the-wall pubs, all are great for laughter and stimulating conversation. I am very playful and have a wonderful imagination. A genuine smile and laughter are always with me.I'm very inquisitive and enjoy exploring the journey of the human spirit as well as the sexual dynamics created between the sexes. Observing and learning about human sexuality is a long-time passion of mine. All aspects of discovery raise awareness to our true nature as sexual beings. I am particularly drawn to anything characteristically unique, obscure, and beyond the obvious. I’ve recently been introduced to the fundamentals of quantum/metaphysics and I now have a completely different perspective of who/what I am, as well as the universe. In my opinion, it explains everything….really.. ~I like the look of well-worn jeans and T-shirt on a man. I like confident/progressive-thinking men. If you have no idea what you're looking for, we won't click. I seek a man who is passionate, romantic, adventurous, and can challenge me intellectually, embrace me emotionally, and rock my world sexually. And of course there is the KISS... a kiss that pulls me in and consumes me. Soft, warm, long, slow, passionate kisses that leave me breathless. That magical kiss is an absoutle MUST. You know, the one that gives you pause and creates that breathless sigh. The first date.... Well, I would go for something simple, informal, and low-key with a quiet atmosphere so we could talk and get to know one another. An outside cafe or small restaurant for coffee/soda would be fine. If there's chemistry, I will feel it immediately and the conversation and process of getting acquainted will flow naturally.

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

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