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Arlena, 53

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About Me

Hello gentlemen, let me start by saying I am looking for one man to spend the rest of my life with. I do not enjoy serial dating or one night stands. Intimacy on the first date is unacceptable....no matter how much wine you buy me..... so please don't put me in the position to have to tell you no. Even though I am fun loving, flirtatious, adventurous and spontaneous, I am also a lady and expect to be treated as such. If you are not interested in pursuing a serious relationship please just pass on by. I am all the things I hope to find in someone else, loving, gentle, genuine, honest, caring, funny, sexy, attentive, open minded, forgiving, compassionate, sweet natured, kind, passionate, financially stable, smart, attractive, educated, strong, well preserved, respectful, and you will always know where you stand with me. I don't put on phony airs and graces and detest drama of any kind. I am very confident and don't play games. If we don't hit it off so be it, at least we got out there and tried, but please don't string me along, as I don't do well in the "runner up" position. If you know there is no connection I would rather find out sooner than later so I can continue on my search for the one. I am convinced that my man is out there, searching as hard for me as I am for him....so if you think you might be my one and only please contact me............ because I can't wait to be in your arms. :) I would love my first date to be somewhere quiet and comfortable for both of us. A place where we can talk and get to know each other. It really doesn't matter where, just a place that allows the conversation to flow.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jeanelle

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    All the info below is just stuff....info to see if you would be interested in me after looking at my pics. Bottom line is, why is it so much harder at this age? I think we would be less picky but I thnk we are even more so. We have lived, loved and even lost. Now we have a better idea of what we want, desire and need and this is why I wait......for you.If my profile interests you say hello. I would like to meet quality people to befriend, date, and see what develops! Ultimately I am hoping to have a long lasting love for the rest of our lives but I know that takes time and nourishment to develop! Right now I would enjoy exploring new places and things and enjoying another person!I am an empty nester now . Time to fill that void with some dinners, fun adventures, laughter, romance and good conversation!I enjoy travel, the beach, reading, road trips, baseball, board games, casinos, bowling, comedy clubs, music, theatre, NYC, home and everything associated with it, cooking shows, seafood, candles, the scent of cinnamon, spring, flip flops, margaritas in the summer, patios, good food, good friends, good company. I love Romance and the thrills that go with it and miss it terribly. I enjoy spending time with my adult children, they make me laugh, but I have raised them and done an amazing job, they are establishing their own lives and now it's time for me to make the most of mine. Finding a person you are attracted to makes life that much sweeter, laughter, banter, kisses... butterflies... all part of being attracted to someone! I love the beach and hope to one day be able to spend ALOT of time there whether living there or just visiting,.. so if you like margaritas and watching sunsets over water, you may be the guy for me. I have been on my own for a quite a while and while I would love to find someone to enhance my life I am not willing to sacrifice or settle just to have someone in my life. I want a healthy wonderful relationship that is good for both of us and can withstand the test of I believe in fate and serendipity.... do you? I have come to realize that just spending time with someone can be just as lonely as spending time alone and sometimes spending time alone is more enjoyable than spending time with someone you don't really want to be with! A first meeting with a hot/cold beverage and conversation as we size each other up and look for that ever elusive spark!

  • Steven

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    FRIENDS FIRST.Update. I swam with the dolphins. Now that I've had my taste of international travel, I want a lot more. I have two wonderful grown boys who I love dearly and I will always be there for them whenever they need me. I cherish the times when we are all together. Please have a recent picture as I have.I love to make the best of any situation. I'm not into drama or negative attitudes!I want someone who I can laugh with. Someone to go places with and explore new areas. A best friend who I can trust totally and share things with.You have to keep laughter in your life. It's the key to happiness. I am not into the Bar scene. I am originally from NYC and the Queens area. I am totally honest and a very outgoing person and have a good heart. I am not into liars, phonies or B.S. people. Mutual respect and honesty is a top priority of mine and should also be for you. I am a well spoken happy person with a huge heart. Patient, very romantic, passionate and affectionate with the right person, love to hold hands, kiss, touch and be close. I am a one man women, and am looking for the same. I love riding horses. I'm young at heart, very loving, honest, supportive, a great listener, caring, sharing and a giving women. Funny, intelligent, witty with a sense of humor and love to laugh and smile. I love the sun, ocean and outdoors I love trying anything new, any suggestions? My friends say I am very out going and love meeting new people of all ages. I'm a go getter. As for music, I enjoy almost everything from oldies to the top ten but I don't like rap. If I had to pick my favorite music, it would be from the 60's-80's and I love Motown and rock. I am into words. I am very diversified and like so many things. I can dress for any occasion, can you? You must love to have laughter in your life. Make me smile and make me laugh and be able to communicate and have an intelligent conversation. I am also a HUGE animal lover. I would love to someday to swim with the dolphins. A first date/meeting should be something we both agree on and feel comfortable doing. Please never wear a mask, be yourself and honest. As much back and forth conversation and laughing as possible. It's the only way to get to know someone and I am a great listener and talker. If the conversation flies by really fast then I can say it's a good first date/meeting. Good luck to all in your search for happiness. ?•*¨*•.¸ ¸ .//^ ^ \\. *** \)•??•*•.¸ Put this on your profile if *** ?•*•.¸ you love animals. *** (¸.•* (¸.•*¨*•***\\\***Put This***On Your***Account If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\***Or whom maybe suffering from it..........Put this on your...*.*...profile if you have...\o/...ever walked into a........patio door that was../ . \..CLOSED!!! I have. LOL.........

  • Eavan

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    It's playtime,lol Kids are grown. I like to sit on the porch and watch the rain. I like fishing, I like snagging for spoonbill from a boat on the river, camping sometimes. I like float trips, planting flowers and trees and bushes to watch them grow, spending time at home. Family BBQ, horseshoes,exploring a creek. Anything is sweet with the right person. I like time together and time apart. I'm looking for a best friend for life, not marriage. I like to laugh, crafts, flea markets, movies, books. I like to share,time, hugs, kisses, laughter. " TURN IT UP" lol open

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