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Arlena, 53

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About Me

Hello gentlemen, let me start by saying I am looking for one man to spend the rest of my life with. I do not enjoy serial dating or one night stands. Intimacy on the first date is unacceptable....no matter how much wine you buy me..... so please don't put me in the position to have to tell you no. Even though I am fun loving, flirtatious, adventurous and spontaneous, I am also a lady and expect to be treated as such. If you are not interested in pursuing a serious relationship please just pass on by. I am all the things I hope to find in someone else, loving, gentle, genuine, honest, caring, funny, sexy, attentive, open minded, forgiving, compassionate, sweet natured, kind, passionate, financially stable, smart, attractive, educated, strong, well preserved, respectful, and you will always know where you stand with me. I don't put on phony airs and graces and detest drama of any kind. I am very confident and don't play games. If we don't hit it off so be it, at least we got out there and tried, but please don't string me along, as I don't do well in the "runner up" position. If you know there is no connection I would rather find out sooner than later so I can continue on my search for the one. I am convinced that my man is out there, searching as hard for me as I am for him....so if you think you might be my one and only please contact me............ because I can't wait to be in your arms. :) I would love my first date to be somewhere quiet and comfortable for both of us. A place where we can talk and get to know each other. It really doesn't matter where, just a place that allows the conversation to flow.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    If you type a bunch of characters right here in a effort to circumvent the system it will ask you if you are trying to be funny. A website with a sense of humor!I like to do all sorts of things, mostly outside; most of them center around my kid at the moment -he's 12 so it should be that way but he won't be 12 forever. There is room in my heart for you though. I'm looking for someone to hang out with and hopefully it will turn into something more - pretty much everybody says that don't they? I guess I'm like everyone , at least the females: I'm human and female - not sure if that helps or hinders; but from what I've seen out there in the big bad world I'm really just kind of average. I'm TOLD that I am: sarcastic, funny, a freak, have a great sense of humor, interesting, beautiful, sexy, thin, fat, mean, kind, passionate, insensitive, overly sensitive, boring, heartless, have a superiority complex, lack confidence....maybe you can figure it - I sure can't. :) Recently I was told that I am too intense. Hmmmmm.I'm normal. I don't do drama - my brain doesn't work that way. I'm not devious or underhanded and I don't have ulterior motives. I don't fight - but I will stand up for what I believe is right. I think that normal people get irritated with each other but that's nothing to lose an eye over.No tats on this girl or unusual piercings, have three in one ear and one in the other - personal choice. I have nothing against them - just don't have any. I'm anatomically correct and assume that you are - I don't need pics of you to prove it. As the school nurse I teach growth and development to 5th graders - I know what those parts look like and have a power point diagram that I can make as large as I want. Not a prude - just feel that should be more of a private encounter.I'm getting into working out, running and zumba....still, I have to force myself. I like the results though Now that's just silly! Let's meet first: keep it short and simple and public. We can always change our minds. Have something in mind though - you asked me. If I ask you I'll come up with something.Dating on here is like playing the lottery - you can't win if you don't play.

  • Kanesha

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I like to paint, work around the house and spend time with friends. Walking my dogs and trying to spend more time at the gym even though I am very into my career. I enjoy trying new things.I'm looking for a partner, someone to experience life with. Everyone has baggage at this age, mine is the size of a carry on.....I try very hard to limit drama in my life, but as we all know sometimes it happens. I am very hopeful we can share the good, the bad and the mundane. It truly is the small things that bring the most pleasure in life. I have a lot ot offer the right person.Please have current photos and some thing worthwhile to say. I am not looking for pen pals, chat buddies or FWB. I want a real live person who wants to spend time together doing whatever we enjoy. Thanks and best of luck in your search. No one really wants to be alone. ?? Meet for a drink, great conversation and a lot of laughs. Realize its time for dinner, more laughing and great conversation. Deciding what to do on our second date.

  • Abbygail

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am independent, self sufficient, happy, healthy, enjoy life and love to be spontaneous, adventurous, try new things and see new places. I have little baggage and would like to meet someone who is in the same place with their lives. Nature and animals are important parts of my life and I do have 2 beagles. My employment history is as a sales rep for a large wholesale foodservice distributor and have done this for many years. Looking for a man with similar interests, some of which are above. Ideally he would love the water, boating, fishing, hiking, horses, dogs, and being active. A couch potato would probably not be a good match. In return I can offer a woman who is honest, moral, empathic, and fun. Oh, and I am a really good cook. PLEASE, if you are not over 50 years old I am not interested. For a first date I like to meet someone out for a coffee or drink to get to learn more about them and to see if we have any "chemistry." If that goes well then there are loads of great things to do. I think between both of us we could come up with something that would work.

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