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Calida, 51

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About Me

Red headed homegrown country girl who loves to laugh, walking in the woods, campfires, horseback riding, 4--ing, rock hounding and star-gazing! Also perfectly at home dressing up for a romantic evening with YOU!I love music and enjoy going to concerts and taking in live music every chance I get. I like the blues, classic rock, 80's and some country. I love to be on the go and travel and see new sites! I love exploring old places; small towns, ghost towns, those cool out of the way places that suddenly come to life because of our connection, chemistry and conversation! I also love and appreciate my "home" too and it means a lot to me to have my own dirt to play in. I love to cook and bake! I consider myself a good listener, friend, caring, creative feminine soul ~ looking for man with good sense of humor, ability to communicate and ready to explore a fun friendship that paves a way to more possibilities.... First date ***probably casual ***meet for coffee or beer and pizza. Go from there. A place that we would both be comfortable and a place that we can talk. I admit, it takes me awhile to warm up and open up and get to know someone.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Zita

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hi there, since I've been on this site, I've re-evaluated what it is that I am looking for.I am taking a huge step backward and am just looking for friendships at this time.And I don't mean friends with benefits, that sounds so shallow, for me anyway.Sounds like something an Insurance company might offer you, "and now, you can have friends with benefits! Operators are standing by!"Doesn't mean I don't want a long term connection, I am just being cautious. And with friends, you never know, you might find the friend you want to be with. I'm a happy person, and if I never get into another relationship I know I'll be happy anyway, maybe lonely at times, but that's normal. But in reality, I'M probably the Knight-and Shining Armor-ette who will find a guy that trips me as I walk by him and I realize he's the one.Divorced in '08.Not bitter, just did not make the right choice in a partner and it became necessary to part ways. I'm very independent and would never ask a guy for money, and I cannot be bought. So relax the high maintenance worries!I'm NOT looking for a guy who's only looking for a lady with superficial qualities.I have a good sense of humor and don't like to take myself too seriously, although I'm human and have my serious moments. I think I'm too sensitive at times, I'm a softy, not harsh. But that's part of who I am, I will not ever have a tough exterior or calloused hide as some people have suggested I develop. That will never be me.However, I'm not a push over either, and I will stand my ground and protect myself if I'm being picked on, even if I go cry in private later. I may be sensitive, but I'm also a survivor.I love being out in nature, looking at all the details God has created on this earth.Looking up at the night sky and wondering what is beyond what NASA has discovered so far,beyond awesome!! I won't pretend to be an expert at space science, but I love to learn as much as I can, even if a lot of it is beyond(there's that word again, but can't come up with another word to take it's place) my comprehension.I have a wonderful elderly mom,wonderful younger sister with special needs, and a great brother too.Have great friends from childhood. I love them dearly. I'm prior US Navy RN,Nurse Corps x4 yrs, retired as a LT.Now I work as an advice R.N. and love what I do, how lucky I am to be able to speak with patients and give them advice and discuss prevention for good health!I have a clean history.No trouble with the law nor drugs and proud to be the nerd that I am!! I believe in God, although I haven't been to church in yrs.Baptised Catholic.Bad boys need NOT apply.. NO Criminal History please,Looking forward to whoever is out there meant for me to meet and enjoy! :) Coffee, ok tea or whatever else you want to drink ,as long as you are not impaired by it and can therefore drive SOBER !. Go for a walk and talk.Will never argue with having dessert. Even lunch. But in a public place. I want to feel out the situation and make sure I'm safe.

  • Aletha

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am a hopeless romantic. I am feminine, sexy, soft and warm, kind and caring. I am also a lot of fun to be with and seem to have a way of putting people at ease. I'm easy to talk to and a good listener. I would prefer the same attributes in a man.....I am honest, loyal, passionate, funloving, witty, kind & compasionate. I am looking for my soul mate and the absolute love of my life!!!!! I have much to offer to the right man. I have raised three of the best kids I know. My youngest is 18 and is at UCLA. He is the vice president of his dorm. I feel like these should be the best years of my life and I would like to share them with one special man.... Let's decide together...

  • Happy

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    HiI am a 50 year Lady and proud of it, I have weathered my time on this planet well!Things I enjoy Hmmmm, I enjoy hiking, RV camping, fishing, I catch, you clean, I cook, deal? I love to go horseback riding, have had years of experience! I like to go to concerts and comedy clubs, Love to Laugh!My taste in music leans toward Rock, classic and a lot of the new stuff, as long as I can understand the lyrics lol. I also like country music Toby Keith is a favorite.I do like to cook and am quite good at it, especially those giant Thanksgiving feasts my family always insist I cook.I am into being fit and healthy, I do cardio daily and strength train 3 days a week, my pics are about a year old and I am over 30lbs lighter then when they were taken. Have to reach my goal before I take new ones LOLI would like to meet someone who is confident in himself who doesn't require his ego to be stroked ***. Someone who likes to get out and enjoy life not just sit at home being a couch potato, if you are into watching sports great I am right there with you as long as we go to the game, not watch it on tv, a sports bar is ok now and then though:).So if any of this sounds interesting to you send me a message I will get right back to you! I think it would be nice for the first date to meet for lunch or coffee or a drink and talk, get to know each other, see if there is a connection and go from there.

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