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Lai, 51

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About Me

I am an easy-going gal looking to meet some new friends & I love to laugh & be around others who can find humor in most situations. Laughter & humor are the quickest way to my heart! I tend to be a bit shy & reserved when first meeting someone but it wears off quickly! :) I love trying new things, taking road trips w/no specific destination, heading out of town at a moment's notice, or meeting friends out w/no other plan but to play it by ear.My ideal match would be a good communicator and listener, honest, affectionate, dependable, patient, respectful, and would of course have a great sense of humor. Of course he could expect to receive all these qualities in me. I would also appreciate the man in my life to have a strong relationship w/his family, enjoying spending time w/them, and interested in getting to know mine, as family is very important to me. A perfect date to me would be staying in, cooking dinner together, listening to music, watching a silly movie, or just talking for hours about random subjects. I love low key t- :) I tend to prefer hole-in-the-wall pub/sports bars & small neighborhood restaurants over stuffy club atmospheres, though I can have fun doing about anything if the company is good :) A great first date would be doing anything that allowed us to get to know each other while doing something fun together. Nothing that seems like a job interview or too intense. Chemistry is critical and having fun doing things together is, I think, a great way to see if we have it!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Beckah

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Wouldn't it be nice if we were to meet, and just know that there was going to be happy ever after?! Right! LOL! Well it would be easier than being on line! . ;-) I am however interested in finding a committed relationship with a man who is classy, adventurous, honest, passionate ...one who embraces life, and knows who he is and what he wants. Someone who likes to laugh, will turn left *** right, just to see what we might find by taking a different road... a man who appreciates a woman and feels proud of her own successes and accomplishments.I think you just have to meet me to get to know me...and then even though I am very open and easy going, there are a lot of different layers (no not like an onion! LOL!***I have been told that I am fun, interesting and surprising--as well as, intelligent, silly, romantic, and even a little edgy. I think it's because I am interested in so many different things. I am passionate about everything I do, despite the challenges I continue to be positive, and I truly do enjoy life to its fullest! My favorite things are travel, out door activities, being creative, learning and trying new things, and I look forward to experiencing that closeness that comes from caring and communicating, as well as having a relationship that includes both mental and physical closeness. I'd like to find that one special man.If you would like to know more-- just ask. :-) I'm not looking for a pen pal. Let's talk and find out if we would like to meet. Let's get a glass of wine some place that is quiet enough for us to find out about each other and if there is any of that magic and allusive chemistry between us.PPS I don't know how it happened...but for some reason the age on here doesn't match exactly to the age on my DL--close though!

  • Charlyn

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    You know, I have had my profile up for some time now. I have noticed that sometimes someone will reach out to me, but never to be heard from again. I am truly perplexed as to what I say or do that takes me from someone's favorite list to zero contact. I think I will be leaving this site as I am not sure that the people on here are truly interested in finding someone or I am so far out of my league that I do not belong. If it is me, I would really appreciate any feedback that would be helpful in my moving forward. I am truly not afraid of the truth!!

  • Caryl

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Funny sarcastic and upfront girl looking for a straightforward, sweet guy who works hard and likes to have fun and relax. Family is important to me and my priorities are providing for my family and spending time with them. But I'm also ready to share my free time with a good guy who is a gentleman and comes from a good family. Haven't yet met a fun local companion to do weekend adult stuff with but I'm confident that you are out there. Love to listen to live music (Classic Rock, Italian rock, oldies, jazz, blues), go to ball games, explore the gold country, take weekend trips. Not too much into mall shopping, but love flea markets, antiquing and finding treasures for a bargain. I'm a big Giants and 49ers fan for a long time, not a bandwagon, and love to make the trip to my city, SF, to see games anytime. Love discovering new restaurants and wine tasting. Haven't done that for a long time, but I really enjoy it. I don't bring my work home, and I am an honest, trustworthy and loyal friend and I expect the same from my friends.I'm hoping to find someone who shares my interests and who has energy to do fun and interesting things in the evenings and on weekends. Looking for someone who likes to share and talk, to meet somewhere and enjoy live music and/or a bite to eat or drink. I LOVE new adventures.

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