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Malvina, 51
United States, Alabama, Northport

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About Me

This is not your typical read. It is 2:30 in the morning as I write this and I find myself compelled to get it "on paper" before I close my eyes to end this day. In the past, I have written the typical profile.....filled with "data". I have written the humorous profile (and I can be a very funny girl). This profile is from the heart, plain and simple. If you find yourself not comfortable with what you read here, that is ok! It just means we are not a match. But if you can feel my heart in the words I share, then perhaps we should talk.I am a woman with an open heart. Open through pain, hurt, joy and rejection. With each heart encounter, it only opens wider, waiting for the opportunity to open even larger to the love of a deep man. I long for that connection. It is my hearts desire.. A desire I had as a very young girl....even then I knew it was possible. Funny how that happens. The children we are born to be are so shaped into what society expects of us. Women are taught to be strong and self sufficient. But what about the natural *** have as men and women? What of them? I have rediscovered that desire within myself. To revel in the feminine being that I am. It continues to grow within me and burst forward, refusing to remain dormant. Such an awakening for me. Such a blessing. Such a relief. Such a joy!In the peace of this early morning hour, I am lonely. Learning to be alone is a gift in itself, but I know in my heart that I am not meant to be alone. I have so much to share....so much to give. What a wondrous thing it would be to find a man who is as interested as I in exploring all our possibilites...mentally, spiritually and physically. A man who realizes that it is the little things that matter the most. A man who is willing to face his fears and be drawn into my waiting heart. I want to bury my head into his chest and feel at home. I am a work in progress and know that I will always be. Growing and learning are as important as breathing. I am multi faceted and not always as serious as this! (remember it is 2:30 in the morning as I write this!) I find myself most content with a man that I can express myself to verbally - I am big on communication. I love the written word and writing poetry feeds me. I always have a song in my head and often on my voice. (maybe you will sing with me?) If you want to know more about me, or just sing with me (!), please drop me a note. I am going to sleep now. Feeling a little lighter having written this. Best wishes to you in your journey. Update: Just heard a quote from a movie that kind of sums up a lot of what I feel. "You want a man who will lead you down the beach with his hand over your eyes just so you can discover the feel of sand under your feet." That thought covers so much.....trust, care, adventure, discovery.....all important things to me in a relationship!. OK.....here is another one that gets to me that will show you just how sappy I am! "I would rather have had one breath of her hair, one kiss of her mouth, one touch of her hand than eternity without it. ONE." (City of Angels) My ideal date would be anywhere that I could have a meaningful conversation over a glass of wine. I have the wine....am full of conversation...all I am missing is you. Want to know more? Let's grab a bottle and sit over here....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Traveling Archery Boxing Golf
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