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About Me

Ok, I've been off this site for most of the summer, thinking I would give myself a break thought I'd start fresh now.......Well here goes.....I'm not good at this so bare with me. Why is it that while I'm sitting here writing not much comes to mind? LOL I know I'll think of things once I'm done submitting this.As you'll see in my interest I like a varity of things, will try most anything once (then I'll know if I like it).Hobbies, I used to have a lot, now I work long hours. Don't have anyone to do things with. I love people, like to be goofy but have my soft/quiet side.I have 4 sons, 35,31,28,17 and 3 Beautiful grand daughters 15,6,4 that I do not get to see often, they are in Il where I'm from. Lost both parents within the past ***so my boys are all I have. I'm an only child.I look in the mirror and see a person with a halo/tiara and 1 horn......LOLI'll be 52 in Oct. been "D" for over 12 yrs and I'm looking for my Last 1st kiss. I know what I want, won't settle. I know what I have to give to that "1" Special man. I want a man, don't need one, there is a difference. If this sounds harsh it really isn't just that I don't want to play games. I'm older and like myself the way I am, as do others.I have lots of good friends that I know I can count on if I need them, I think that if I wasn't a good person that is something I couldn't say.I'm upfront and honest, expect nothing but the same. I want communication, faithfulness, sense of humor, friend, partner, lover, romance, respect, shall I go on?? I expect respect as I will also give it.I like cowboy boots as I enjoy wearing them myself. I like the country boy but also city man. I dress up well but can use a chainsaw and get my hands dirty helping with the cars/bikes.If you have questions just ask me, I have nothing to hide. No fake here, I'm all real. I like it that way. Want the same!All I ask is NO GAME PLAYING PLEASE! Brunzwick or Dave and Busters, something that we can be ourself and have fun. Be different than other 1st dates.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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