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Delisa, 51

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About Me

Upon meeting a man for the first time, I can usually tell whether he is someone I want to see again or not. The way we act and speak gives off volumes of information. I am an old-fashioned, conservative person who believes in God. My marriage lasted 14 yrs. and I was faithful until my husband lost his life. I am not looking for someone to replace my husband, but am looking for someone to go out with occasionally, be a friend to, and maybe have a dating relationship if all goes well. Eventually I will want to marry again but not anytime soon, unless you knock my socks off. Honesty is key, even if it hurts. It is better to know the truth than to believe a lie. You need to be yourself, have a strong work ethic, be down to earth, and have compassion. I teach library classes in a local elementary school. Most folks have a vision of librarians wearing horn-rimmed glasses, hair in a bun, wearing ugly shoes and shushing people. I don't have much tolerance for country or rap.Sadly, outside of work, there isn't an opportunity to go out much. I am a working mom who is raising teenagers and feel like I am a taxi driver. I value staying home but need adult company. Drinking and partying does not appeal to me. I prefer to hang out with friends in small groups rather than in large groups. Please don't contact me if you are financially needy, in credit trouble, if you are a metrosexual, a long haired hippy, have bad teeth, or if you are way younger than me. Someplace public like a coffee house or cafe is a good first date. That way we don't feel awkward for too long if there isn't chemistry. I prefer to pay for myself the first time.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Peter

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I've been off meetville for awhile, preferring real human contact to speaking in one liners through brief messages. Felt encouraged to search again, this time with higher hopes & expectations. I love life. I love being a woman. I am creative, spiritually grounded, playful, love doing new things and going to new places. I prefer being outdoors, especially on or by the water. I'd love to have a partner who is also spiritually grounded, playful, fun, does not take life seriously, available & desires to travel, and is positive & optimistic. A partnership where two people support and enhance the best in self and the other is a remarkable partnership. I have friends like that. Now I desire a man for that and the other fun stuff ~I would say being positive is a very important quality I embody & desire in the other. We each have moments of frustrations, perhaps sadness, & it is what one does to climb out of those places that is important. And someone who will stand by me, nonjudgementally, softly holding me, when I might encounter a piece of myself healing & I will do the same for you.I live life sensually~ meaning I experience through all my senses so my experiences are deep, rich and pleasurable. I come from an Italian background, where feeling life is natural. We hug, touch, laugh, sing, whatever feels pleasurable in the moment. When was the last time you paused & focused on the foods you were eating, to notice the flavors, the textures, the smells? I definitely stop to smell the roses, drink in luxuriously the slow sunsets, and breathe in the beauty of Nature & music. I wake up each day with a smile & go to sleep each night with a warm smile. I love hugs, real embraces. I feel each person we meet is an opportunity, for something good. I would love to be with my "One" and I will not rush, settle or make up fantasies before we have gotten to know each other. I am not high maintenance, it is the simpler, more authentic things that bring a smile and a laugh...Kindly, if you choose to ***, send more than a sound bite or cliche. Be real, say something about yourself and why you are interested in getting to know me better. First, it is the person, not the place. Right person & anywhere we go, we'll laugh, talk, look deeply into one another's eyes & continue to learn & enjoy more about the other.That said, please someplace more than the coffee house (unless you want a quick dash). With the right guy, it would be something outdoors. When we meet, do us both a favor, please don't pretend, just breathe & be yourself. Yes, I know it takes courage to date & get to know someone~ please, no false impressions, don't put on an act. I am real and speak honestly, please do so as well. You don't have to tell me your life story the first time we meet, just don't put on an act, a show. Either we will like each other or not. If not there is someone better for each of us elsewhere, no big deal. Please no desperation~ actually like yourself & your life. I'm not here to fix you, heal you or complete you. I am here to complement you. As you are for me. Let it be easy. Let's PLAY!

  • Jeanetta

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am a woman of substance, character and a wonderful sense of humor. My warmness and love of laughter will make you feel comfortable in my company. Im all Italian and I enjoy cooking for my man and also enjoy dinner out sharing some red wine together. Im looking for someone that is family oriented, warm, kind and yet still has the boy inside that still knows how to have fun. Im ready at this point in my life to love and be loved. I beleive in having ***relationship to make it work.Im confident, caring and very warm. I miss the simple things most in life, holding hands, kissing (lots of that),hugs,long walks together after dinner. I would love to hear from you, if you are looking for a real woman,honest,loyal affectionate woman with a great smile. Im not giving up on love and feel he is out there searching for me ! On my first date- Hmm lets see. I enjoy meeting for in place thats casual for a drink or dinner. I prefer a place where you can talk quietly and get to know each other. The place isn't important only the company.

  • Shawnee

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Hey Guys! Single mom here that has been divorced for several years and doing very well. I am not on a "man hunt", would just like to have a special someone to do things with and see where it leads. I am not looking for an every day relationship - if it turns out that way, great, but not expected in the least. I like to spend time out doors, picnics, wineries,love tropical waters, mini vacations and just enjoying life. I have children that are grown and on their own. I would like to meet an outgoing man that is secure within himself and has a great sense of humor. Laughter is a MUST in any relationship. I don't care for someone that hits the bar after work or on a regular basis. If you need a drink, take me, I would be more than willing to go and have a glass of wine, or two :), I would enjoy it! I enjoy my jeans and sweat shirts and yet LOVE dressing to go out also. I have manicured nails but yet don't mind getting them dirty :) I want to enjoy life and I know there are others out there that want the same. Please have picture also...what is fair is fair :) I would like to meet in a public place, have a drink and just chat, whether it be for 10 minutes or a couple hours. I don't really consider it a date, however there could be after our first meeting.

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