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Peter, 52

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About Me

I've been off meetville for awhile, preferring real human contact to speaking in one liners through brief messages. Felt encouraged to search again, this time with higher hopes & expectations. I love life. I love being a woman. I am creative, spiritually grounded, playful, love doing new things and going to new places. I prefer being outdoors, especially on or by the water. I'd love to have a partner who is also spiritually grounded, playful, fun, does not take life seriously, available & desires to travel, and is positive & optimistic. A partnership where two people support and enhance the best in self and the other is a remarkable partnership. I have friends like that. Now I desire a man for that and the other fun stuff ~I would say being positive is a very important quality I embody & desire in the other. We each have moments of frustrations, perhaps sadness, & it is what one does to climb out of those places that is important. And someone who will stand by me, nonjudgementally, softly holding me, when I might encounter a piece of myself healing & I will do the same for you.I live life sensually~ meaning I experience through all my senses so my experiences are deep, rich and pleasurable. I come from an Italian background, where feeling life is natural. We hug, touch, laugh, sing, whatever feels pleasurable in the moment. When was the last time you paused & focused on the foods you were eating, to notice the flavors, the textures, the smells? I definitely stop to smell the roses, drink in luxuriously the slow sunsets, and breathe in the beauty of Nature & music. I wake up each day with a smile & go to sleep each night with a warm smile. I love hugs, real embraces. I feel each person we meet is an opportunity, for something good. I would love to be with my "One" and I will not rush, settle or make up fantasies before we have gotten to know each other. I am not high maintenance, it is the simpler, more authentic things that bring a smile and a laugh...Kindly, if you choose to ***, send more than a sound bite or cliche. Be real, say something about yourself and why you are interested in getting to know me better. First, it is the person, not the place. Right person & anywhere we go, we'll laugh, talk, look deeply into one another's eyes & continue to learn & enjoy more about the other.That said, please someplace more than the coffee house (unless you want a quick dash). With the right guy, it would be something outdoors. When we meet, do us both a favor, please don't pretend, just breathe & be yourself. Yes, I know it takes courage to date & get to know someone~ please, no false impressions, don't put on an act. I am real and speak honestly, please do so as well. You don't have to tell me your life story the first time we meet, just don't put on an act, a show. Either we will like each other or not. If not there is someone better for each of us elsewhere, no big deal. Please no desperation~ actually like yourself & your life. I'm not here to fix you, heal you or complete you. I am here to complement you. As you are for me. Let it be easy. Let's PLAY!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Delisa

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Upon meeting a man for the first time, I can usually tell whether he is someone I want to see again or not. The way we act and speak gives off volumes of information. I am an old-fashioned, conservative person who believes in God. My marriage lasted 14 yrs. and I was faithful until my husband lost his life. I am not looking for someone to replace my husband, but am looking for someone to go out with occasionally, be a friend to, and maybe have a dating relationship if all goes well. Eventually I will want to marry again but not anytime soon, unless you knock my socks off. Honesty is key, even if it hurts. It is better to know the truth than to believe a lie. You need to be yourself, have a strong work ethic, be down to earth, and have compassion. I teach library classes in a local elementary school. Most folks have a vision of librarians wearing horn-rimmed glasses, hair in a bun, wearing ugly shoes and shushing people. I don't have much tolerance for country or rap.Sadly, outside of work, there isn't an opportunity to go out much. I am a working mom who is raising teenagers and feel like I am a taxi driver. I value staying home but need adult company. Drinking and partying does not appeal to me. I prefer to hang out with friends in small groups rather than in large groups. Please don't contact me if you are financially needy, in credit trouble, if you are a metrosexual, a long haired hippy, have bad teeth, or if you are way younger than me. Someplace public like a coffee house or cafe is a good first date. That way we don't feel awkward for too long if there isn't chemistry. I prefer to pay for myself the first time.

  • Manda

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Disclaimer: ***I have never been married and I don't have any children; if this is an issue for you, please move on. ***If your picture looks like a mug shot/webcam photo/self-portrait in the bathroom mirror, I will not reply.Wow! Where are all of the nice, normal guys? I am a nice, normal, healthy girl who has a good job, enjoys traveling, likes to get out and do things *** vegging on the couch and am looking for a guy who is the same.I have a good sense of humor, am outgoing and very easy to talk to. I've been independent and self-supporting since I was 17 and paid for my own education while I worked full time (nothing like hard work to build character).[the good: independent, plain spoken, generous, creative, warm, enthusiastic, affectionate, romantic. The questionable: intolerant of whining, complaining and pretentiousness (I already work for attorneys, thanks), can be impatient, can be aggressive, prideful]. So there it is - I'm not perfect [gasp]! Physcially, I'm no Angelina [Jolie], but I'm definitely no Rosanne [Barr] either! In short, I'm more the girl-next-door than the supermodel - but I can easily turn heads when I want to, and I do!!! I try to take decent care of myself and dress in an attractive way (I frequently meet with professional people and clients in my line of work). So, if you like sharp, active, funny, sexy, curvy women (height and weight proportionate - not cadaverous), you're in the right place. Worth noting: I prefer men who can spell. If you've really got something to offer to a woman, then show her you're not lazy and make a good impression - use spellcheck, a dictionary or the library - after all, you're a smart guy, right? Two more things, although I really enjoy pets, if your pets tie you down, we are probably not a good match. And, may I apologize up front, but I really prefer men who are at least 5' 10; not judging, just my personal preference.- a sunny patio, around a piano or fireplace, a picnic by the lake, a park bench, a free outdoor concert, an art fair, a cozy pub . . . there are LOTS of possibilities . . .

  • Alaya

    Online

    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    My profession is social work director at a nursing home. I have grown up in the church of Christ and would like to meet someone who understands my faith. It's more important to me that we become friends. I am really looking for a friend to do things with. Dinner, movies, coffee, conversation and outings would be fun. I love to laugh. I enjoy family, friends and home life. I like lots of different music but I especially like the blues (Joe Bonamassa) and bluegrass. Just found a new station on the radio I like that plays positive music. I enjoy reading a good book. I had a garden a couple of years ago and really enjoyed it. I grew tomatoes... 4 different kinds, basil, rosemary, jalapenos and mint. I like to cook.I have great family relationships. What else would you like to know? Just ask :) Do something that affords us the opportunity to actually get to know each other.

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