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Mellie, 51

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About Me

I can hold my own in any social situation but prefer smaller gatherings. I love to stay home and snuggle with a movie as much as going out to dinner with friends. I'm a big kid at heart but take life seriously when its appropriate. I've got an intense core wrapped up in a warm, affectionate, playful nature. Rarely am I ever in a bad mood and maturity usually wins out over emotions. Please note the "usually" lol. I am a girl after all and a passionate person. I am spontaneous but a calculated risk taker. I'm a friendly, open person who is curious about people and places. I like to learn about human nature by reading, watching, talking, and travelling. I'm very appreciative for all the wonderful things and people I have in my life. I adore children, and my greatest blessing has been my daughter. I'm very active in her life, and believe that you need to be, especially through the teens. If you have children, that's only a positive thing for me. I'm not a party person so if your idea of a great night is to hang out and drink, or you like to hang out at clubs, I am not your girl. I like to have fun with friends, go out to dinner, movies, galleries etc. I LOVE photography. I almost always have a camera with me and enjoy shooting everything from random things I come across during the day, to serious portraits. If I could make a living at it, I'd be doing it right now. For now, it's my favorite hobby. I'm hoping to find a sweet, honest, self-aware man, who isn't out to serial date but find that one amazing person that fits perfectly in their arms. REALLY hope he's on here! All the best! Chatting over a drink/coffee

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lorrine

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am looking for someone who is genuine and respectful.I'd like to find a partner who is willing to give me his best and I in turn will give him my best ....I want to be with someone who inspires me to do wonderful things with him and for him. Someone who is playful....I'm looking for a man who is emotionally, intellectually, physically and spiritually fit to complement me. I am an independent woman but I love the company of a good man....A man who wants to romance me...be my friend and be adventurous with me. A man who can show affection and who loves to kiss.....I have a great sense of humor and I will make you laugh. I try to find the positive in all situations. I smile often.I am passionate, a loving mother and a great friend. I am content in my life and have reached my goals professionally. I would like to meet someone to share my life and explore new experiences as a friend first....my heart is open to something more........Drinks in a nice lounge...A dinner at a steakhouse....Surprise me!!!!!!

  • Jenee

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    WARNING! If you want to catch me beware that I will not chase you! If you messaged me and I responded, I probably have some interest. So keep throwing out the bait to tempt me to nibble or I will just swim away. I'm still waiting to catch a meetville keeper.My Butterfly Wish ... It's a Secret ... If I Tell You ... Can You Keep A Secret?AN INDIAN BUTTERFLY LEGENDIf anyone desires a wish to come true they must capture a butterfly and whisper that wish to it. Since they make no sound, they can't tell the wish to anyone but the Great Spirit. So by making the wish and releasing the butterfly it will be taken to the heavens and be granted.Author UnknownMY SONGS OF THE WEEK: "It's Not You' by *** Around You" by *** Good Drag" by *** you write me and I don't relpy, I'm sorry! But I just don't have the time to respond to everyone that sends me a message, unless there is interest on my part."Today may there be peace within. May you trust that you are exactly where you are meant to be. May you not forget the infinite possibilities that are born of faith in yourself and others. May you use the gifts that you have received and pass on the love that has been given to you. May you be content with yourself just the way you are. Let this knowledge settle into your bones, and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and love. It is there for each and every one of us.”NEW PICS - Jan.-Oct.- no gray yet either***a true ginger/carrot top. LOL I know not all guys are attracted to this (would rather have a brunette or a bleach blonde) but lots of women pay tons of money to get my hair color! LOL I have been off this site for over a year - was just fed up with the crap you have to deal with. However, I am ready for a great ***and want to give all options a chance. So, here goes nothin ... by the way my update below from quite a long time ago still stands true - friends first and see where it goes ...UPDATE: If you are only fishing for SEX, take your fishing pole to some other pond! It seems lots of creeps on meetville - that is all they are looking for! I grew up with a dad who took me fishing a lot but I am tired of this online fishing! There are so many creepy fish out there! Don't get me wrong, if I am in a one-on-one monogamous relationship, plenty of sex needs to be on the menu. I don't like having sex with mutlple people or sharing my partner! I do know the fish I seek needs to be unique ***of kind maybe? Should be creative, open minded, adventurous, excepting of many different types of human beings (Can you except my Emo-Scene daughter and her boyfriend who wear mostly black and gages in their ears and snake bite/angel bite piercings)? They are good kids - just trying to express themselves. Are you adventurous and fun and a little crazy at times with a serious side as well? As for music, I am pretty wide open with my likes - everything from rock to country to Christian to folk and jazz. Even classical on occassion. Music I listen to depends on my mood. The only kind I don't care for is rap and head banging heavy metal (oh yeah and Opera). I used to write poetry, draw and watercolor paint, but over the years as a single mom, I got too busy to do it. I still write poetry sometimes. As retirement years come around, I hope to get back to those hobbies. In the mean time, I enjoy my flower and vegie gardening in the summer months and cooking in the winter months. I also enjoy taking nature photos when I get a chance. I have to say up front that I am really not attracted to guys with a heavy beard and full facial hair (gotee or mustache is okay - not bushy beards***sorry. I would like to be in a relationship with someone but if it is not right, I would rather be alone. I have been divorced 16 years now. I have raised my daughter on my own and she is almost grown up now - just turned 19. Yeah! Time for me now. I am attracted to taller guys with a somewhat professional side or at least smart - don't need to be in a white collar job. I like a guy who can wear jeans/get dirty - Mr. Fixit type/Outdoors type. I have lots of projects around the house I can't do myself and it is always more fun to do things with someone rather than alone. :( I love nature and being outdoors. I have two cats and a small dog - just letting you know in case you are allergic to them. For those avid sports lovers - I like the social aspect of it all, but not much into just sitting and watching the games.. :( I rarely if ever watch or attend a football (except the Packers) or baseball game and I don't golf.I don't really spend too much time on this meetville site but last year I was sitting at the dining room table on my laptop and searching through profiles on meetville saying YES, NO or MAYBE MEET (I don't bother with this anymore), when suddenly there was a loud thud on the patio door. I looked over and there was a Mourning Dove dazed and confused sitting on the ground staring back at me. In less than a few seconds, a large Red Tail Hawk landed and swooped up the Mourning Dove and flew away. The only trace of this was a scattering of Mourning Dove feathers on top of the snow. I am thinking this is probably a sign from God about this site! LOL I am not really active on here much but I do peek now and then. By the way - guys with NO pic I will not respond to unless you can send pics. Also, I am not into the IM chat thing, so PLEASE send a message. I won't spend too much time writing anything now. I would rather meet in person and see if there is a connection and chemistry. Need to just meet first to see if there is a connection so any public place would be fine - dinner, drinks, coffee, lunch - walk - talk.

  • Kenya

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I'm a quiet natured single mom of two young adults that still live at home. I am sincere, loyal and romantic. I like going out for dinner. I like to read. I like spending time with family and friends. I'm looking to meet someone local for a casual dating relationship that with the right person will build into more. Any questions...just ask! Let's get to know each other over a glass of wine.

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