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Tonja, 51

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About Me

I am a 50 year old grandmother of almost 6 now. I adore my grandkids. I love to read and love to listen to almost any kind of music but rap.! I just want to be happy. I am tired of the singles scene, as I am not a big drinker, I don't want someone I would meet at a bar. I love being out in the country. I love to snuggle and treasure quiet time together at home, but I am not a clingy person. I like my alone time as well, and know that people need interests outside each other. Would love to meet a like minded woman, one who isn't afraid to show emotions. I am a hopeless romantic and there is nothing more romantic to me than a slow dance to music at home. I am tired of game players, and think that anyone who plays with someones feelings deserves a swift kick in the a-s! I am honest and expect the same from my SO. Sometimes the truth hurts, but there are ways to cushion it and still be honest. I am a good person and loyal to a fault at times, and tend to see mostly the best in those I love. I would love to meet a woman who is honest and loving. Who would hold hands sitting on the couch or hiking down a path. I love to hold and be held. I am not clingy, and don't want someone who is clingy, but I am a touchy-feely kind of girl and love to snuggle. I have never been a biker chick, but love to ride when I get the opportunity. I just want to be happy, and I don't think that is too much to ask. I do live with my oldest daughter and take care of her kids, but I think it is time for me to start doing things for myself! I have been single for a long time. I am a hopeless romantic, but you would have to choose the kind of date it is, I don't take charge of things really well. I would have more input after we got to know each other better. A quiet dinner in a place where it isn't too noisy to talk and get to know each other. Maybe star-gazing on a blanket out in the country.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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