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Alla, 53
United States, Alabama, Muscle Shoals

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About Me

). Independence is healthy, but that doesn't mean I don't have the capacity to be vulnerable enough to let you in and take care of me in the ways that are important. I have values that I live by, and that means that I'm not looking for casual FWB, but someone willing to invest time in a relationship that can start off as friends, and with the right combination of chemistry and compatibility, has the potential to turn in to a forever relationship. Ultimately, I'm looking for my best friend.;We need a witness to our lives. There's a billion people on the planet... I mean, what does any one life really mean? But in a marriage, you're promising to care about everything. The good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things... all of it, all of the time, every day. You're saying 'Your life will not go unnoticed because I will notice it. Your life will not go un-witnessed because I will be your witness'.". Isn't that what it's all about, and what most of us really want? A witness to our lives...that's powerful, don't you think? I have the glass as half-full mentality, always looking for the positive in pretty much any situation. I enjoy staying active, and love to spend time outdoors, when possible. My favorite form of exercise is walking, but am working to improve my swimming, so am spending a bit more time at the pool these days. One of my short-term goals is become a certified scuba diver, because as great as snorkeling is, I really want to go further into the great big world of water. I'm also shopping for a bike to add to my outdoor activities. Only problem is, I haven't ridden in years and could use a teacher - could that be you?As for music, I enjoy jazz, contemporary Christian, country (new over old), and soft rock. I LOVE my Sirius XM subscription!I attend a non-denominational, church, and try to get there on a regular basis. My faith is very important to me, but it doesn't mean I'm a religious fanatic...and there is a difference if you know what I mean! I think the truest example is the quietest one...others just "know" because of the way I live my life.Two of the biggest traits I look for is tolerance and forgiveness. Add communication to that and you have some important keys to healthy relationship.I prefer to dress casually, and spend as much time as possible in jeans. In fact, I work in a company with a comfortable environment, so jeans are pretty much my normal. I'm also all about being healthy, and if you're also that way, then we'll probably get along very well. However, it's my personal choice, so don't be afraid I'll push it on you...there are plenty of ways to make compromises when selecting menus at home, or eating out! The main thing here is that it's an important part of who I am.Part of dating is that awkward time of getting to know each other. I plan to "just be me" from the start, so there are no surprises later...how does that sound? Hopefully it will take some of the pressure off, right? First Meeting: I like the idea of meeting for coffee or a drink, and take it from there. The main thing is that I can hear what you're saying and we can talk without shouting over the patrons or the band.First Date: let's plan that together!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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