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Ona, 51
United States, Alabama, Muscle Shoals

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Well, I've been doing this dating thing for a while now and I must say... its sure not like it used to be. Very interesting and a little confusing. A lot of people out there looking for *** or not really looking for anything at all..... hummmmm.... I spend a lot of time at the American River.... in/on or near the water. However, I am a country girl and I do prefer the peace, quiet and wide open spaces far more than the city.. but I am learning to adjust. lolI am very compassionate, loving, thoughtful person that always tries to make sure the people around me are happy. I've raised 3 daughters that are on their own now and have 2 beautiful grand babies that I love spending time with. Personality.. let's see.. fun loving, caring, honest to a fault, dedicated to all things important to me. Values- honesty, family, self sufficiency, happiness, certainty, uncertainty, growth, connection, contribution.Relationship priorities- pretty much all of the above. A relationship is a process, too many people try to jump in without really learning about each other. I think that two people need to be friends first and grow and learn together. I don't believe that any person can "complete" another person. We all have to be happy and "complete" with ourselves otherwise we are not ready to share ourselves with someone else. Love is not automatic, love at 1st sight sounds so romantic, but I don't think its a reality.. how can you possibly love someone that you don't know. Most people "put on" masks when dating, they try to be what they think the other person wants or needs. It takes time for people to become comfortable with each other and show their true self. I have learned that in life... and EVEN MORE so by being on these dating sites... My interest vary greatly.. I'm from a small town and love the country life... horses, cattle, goats, dogs, cats, sheep etc... (always hated fowl though :0).. but I've also learned to be comfortable in the city. I love camping, fishing, hunting, boating, playing pool, drives to the coast, travel.. and the list goes on and on.. I do have things that scare me and will probably never do.. ie. skydiving, scuba diving, bungee jumping.. but its okay if you don't mind doing those things by yourself.. I'll watch.This question seems to come up a lot. The one thing I do believe in is total honesty. If you cant be honest... whats the point. right ? The option choices under marital status do not have "divorce filed, working out the details" .. If it did, I would pick that. The fact is I am still legally married, so I couldn't chose divorced as my status. My divorce is taking longer than normal due to owning a business together, I will change my status to divorced as soon as it is final. There is absolutely no drama going on and no possibility of reconciliation... anything that will give us a chance to chat and get to know each other. If we click, great.... if not.. well, nobody can have too many friends.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Fishing Drama Fantasy Horror Tennis
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