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About Me

Well, I've been doing this dating thing for a while now and I must say... its sure not like it used to be. Very interesting and a little confusing. A lot of people out there looking for *** or not really looking for anything at all..... hummmmm.... I spend a lot of time at the American River.... in/on or near the water. However, I am a country girl and I do prefer the peace, quiet and wide open spaces far more than the city.. but I am learning to adjust. lolI am very compassionate, loving, thoughtful person that always tries to make sure the people around me are happy. I've raised 3 daughters that are on their own now and have 2 beautiful grand babies that I love spending time with. Personality.. let's see.. fun loving, caring, honest to a fault, dedicated to all things important to me. Values- honesty, family, self sufficiency, happiness, certainty, uncertainty, growth, connection, contribution.Relationship priorities- pretty much all of the above. A relationship is a process, too many people try to jump in without really learning about each other. I think that two people need to be friends first and grow and learn together. I don't believe that any person can "complete" another person. We all have to be happy and "complete" with ourselves otherwise we are not ready to share ourselves with someone else. Love is not automatic, love at 1st sight sounds so romantic, but I don't think its a reality.. how can you possibly love someone that you don't know. Most people "put on" masks when dating, they try to be what they think the other person wants or needs. It takes time for people to become comfortable with each other and show their true self. I have learned that in life... and EVEN MORE so by being on these dating sites... My interest vary greatly.. I'm from a small town and love the country life... horses, cattle, goats, dogs, cats, sheep etc... (always hated fowl though :0).. but I've also learned to be comfortable in the city. I love camping, fishing, hunting, boating, playing pool, drives to the coast, travel.. and the list goes on and on.. I do have things that scare me and will probably never do.. ie. skydiving, scuba diving, bungee jumping.. but its okay if you don't mind doing those things by yourself.. I'll watch.This question seems to come up a lot. The one thing I do believe in is total honesty. If you cant be honest... whats the point. right ? The option choices under marital status do not have "divorce filed, working out the details" .. If it did, I would pick that. The fact is I am still legally married, so I couldn't chose divorced as my status. My divorce is taking longer than normal due to owning a business together, I will change my status to divorced as soon as it is final. There is absolutely no drama going on and no possibility of reconciliation... anything that will give us a chance to chat and get to know each other. If we click, great.... if not.. well, nobody can have too many friends.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Minta

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    WELL thank you for taking the time to read my profile.. Now sit back and relax, while u discover who I am. I am very open minded .I have good work ethics.I enjoy working. watching it high in the sky,It can be an awesome sight.I love thunderstorms.i love th smell in the air after a rainfall. the sound of wind chimes on a windy day.I enjoy Amusement parks.. Rollercoasters !! thrilling when your with someone to share the moment. I have started a bucket list. (things i want to do before i die) get my motorcycle licence and buy a bike, skydive,pilot licence,that's just a few. I love to be around the water, looking out into the ocean while watching the boats go by.I enjoy going on cruises.Do You? It would be great if You did.. How about a houseboat, and live on the water?.And love to laugh and have fun. Someone once said i was "BUBBLEY" which made me smile at the thought. I have also been told i am easy to talk to. So come on.. talk to me! NOW.. who do I want to meet! HMMM.smiling: well my BEST FRIEND.The MAN I don't want to live without.His smile, his laughter lingers long after he is gone . .A partner.I want to find someone who doesnt mind sharing THEIR world. HE will be honest,a believer in Christ, fun, have a great sense of humor and have the same interest as I do, A man who is Dominant by nature. Someone to share my next 30 years. I am NOT looking for a casual hook up. I am looking for Someone who is serious about finding their last mate.someone who would enjoy being together of course, long walks on the beach So I wrote the same old stuff.LOL.OK NOW to describe myself would be to say I am an outgoing and friendly. I lo NO head games Please. Drama? I agree There has to be some. you would not have come this far without some kind of drama. Life is drama! And I have had my share. Been there done that lol. . I am looking for my next best friend, .life is too short. lets start this new journey together. first date huh! lets call it the first meeting, in a public place like a local restarant for maybe some coffee .this way it can be short and sweet,.or coffee can turn into dinner feeling the chemstry between 2 people, while believing this was the best thing, we did, was to find this site. and each other . (hows that for wishful thinking)? lol I WANT TO KNOW WHAT LOVE IS ..BY ."FOREIGNER"

  • Val

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Would you like to go out for dinner? Walk a cold, desolate beach? Explore Western MA? Eat spaghetti in the North End? Go on a sunset cruise? Go out one New Year's? Send each other birthday cards? Celebrate the small stuff?? Me too! A date. Not a quickie meeting for coffee, not a drink (I rarely do), or a walk on the beach.

  • Alla

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    ). Independence is healthy, but that doesn't mean I don't have the capacity to be vulnerable enough to let you in and take care of me in the ways that are important. I have values that I live by, and that means that I'm not looking for casual FWB, but someone willing to invest time in a relationship that can start off as friends, and with the right combination of chemistry and compatibility, has the potential to turn in to a forever relationship. Ultimately, I'm looking for my best friend.;We need a witness to our lives. There's a billion people on the planet... I mean, what does any one life really mean? But in a marriage, you're promising to care about everything. The good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things... all of it, all of the time, every day. You're saying 'Your life will not go unnoticed because I will notice it. Your life will not go un-witnessed because I will be your witness'.". Isn't that what it's all about, and what most of us really want? A witness to our lives...that's powerful, don't you think? I have the glass as half-full mentality, always looking for the positive in pretty much any situation. I enjoy staying active, and love to spend time outdoors, when possible. My favorite form of exercise is walking, but am working to improve my swimming, so am spending a bit more time at the pool these days. One of my short-term goals is become a certified scuba diver, because as great as snorkeling is, I really want to go further into the great big world of water. I'm also shopping for a bike to add to my outdoor activities. Only problem is, I haven't ridden in years and could use a teacher - could that be you?As for music, I enjoy jazz, contemporary Christian, country (new over old), and soft rock. I LOVE my Sirius XM subscription!I attend a non-denominational, church, and try to get there on a regular basis. My faith is very important to me, but it doesn't mean I'm a religious fanatic...and there is a difference if you know what I mean! I think the truest example is the quietest one...others just "know" because of the way I live my life.Two of the biggest traits I look for is tolerance and forgiveness. Add communication to that and you have some important keys to healthy relationship.I prefer to dress casually, and spend as much time as possible in jeans. In fact, I work in a company with a comfortable environment, so jeans are pretty much my normal. I'm also all about being healthy, and if you're also that way, then we'll probably get along very well. However, it's my personal choice, so don't be afraid I'll push it on you...there are plenty of ways to make compromises when selecting menus at home, or eating out! The main thing here is that it's an important part of who I am.Part of dating is that awkward time of getting to know each other. I plan to "just be me" from the start, so there are no surprises later...how does that sound? Hopefully it will take some of the pressure off, right? First Meeting: I like the idea of meeting for coffee or a drink, and take it from there. The main thing is that I can hear what you're saying and we can talk without shouting over the patrons or the band.First Date: let's plan that together!

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