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OnaOffline
Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 48-58
Well, I've been doing this dating thing for a while now and I must say... its sure not like it used to be. Very interesting and a little confusing. A lot of people out there looking for *** or not really looking for anything at all..... hummmmm.... I spend a lot of time at the American River.... in/on or near the water. However, I am a country girl and I do prefer the peace, quiet and wide open spaces far more than the city.. but I am learning to adjust. lolI am very compassionate, loving, thoughtful person that always tries to make sure the people around me are happy. I've raised 3 daughters that are on their own now and have 2 beautiful grand babies that I love spending time with. Personality.. let's see.. fun loving, caring, honest to a fault, dedicated to all things important to me. Values- honesty, family, self sufficiency, happiness, certainty, uncertainty, growth, connection, contribution.Relationship priorities- pretty much all of the above. A relationship is a process, too many people try to jump in without really learning about each other. I think that two people need to be friends first and grow and learn together. I don't believe that any person can "complete" another person. We all have to be happy and "complete" with ourselves otherwise we are not ready to share ourselves with someone else. Love is not automatic, love at 1st sight sounds so romantic, but I don't think its a reality.. how can you possibly love someone that you don't know. Most people "put on" masks when dating, they try to be what they think the other person wants or needs. It takes time for people to become comfortable with each other and show their true self. I have learned that in life... and EVEN MORE so by being on these dating sites... My interest vary greatly.. I'm from a small town and love the country life... horses, cattle, goats, dogs, cats, sheep etc... (always hated fowl though :0).. but I've also learned to be comfortable in the city. I love camping, fishing, hunting, boating, playing pool, drives to the coast, travel.. and the list goes on and on.. I do have things that scare me and will probably never do.. ie. skydiving, scuba diving, bungee jumping.. but its okay if you don't mind doing those things by yourself.. I'll watch.This question seems to come up a lot. The one thing I do believe in is total honesty. If you cant be honest... whats the point. right ? The option choices under marital status do not have "divorce filed, working out the details" .. If it did, I would pick that. The fact is I am still legally married, so I couldn't chose divorced as my status. My divorce is taking longer than normal due to owning a business together, I will change my status to divorced as soon as it is final. There is absolutely no drama going on and no possibility of reconciliation... anything that will give us a chance to chat and get to know each other. If we click, great.... if not.. well, nobody can have too many friends.
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AriannaOffline
Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 48-58
I see the cup half full, not half empty... I have a positive outlook on life, even in the hard times, or at least I try to. I'm very spontaneous and love to have fun, who doesn't? I'm very easy to talk to, I'm soft hearted, I think of others and family means a lot to me. I like a wide range of music and a wide range of activities. I hope to meet someone that I can enjoy life with, someone that wants to really get to know who I am.... Not a PLAYER, I don't need to waste my time on that. I'm not high maintenance and I'm not a gold digger, I have my own home and my own toys through hard work which I'm very proud of. I've been told men want someone they can take care of to feel needed. I've also been told that I intimidate some men because of my independance. Don't let that scare you, I just don't feel that all the stress should fall on one person when you are in a relationship, shouldn't you work together? I've met three types that stand out on this site.... The Player, who has been burnt by someone in the past and will never go through the relationship emotional pain and the loss of material things again. So, he never fully opens himself up for a true relationship.The Controller, well he wants someone that isn't too indepedant and doesn't have a mind of her own. That way she can depend on him.The third is the guy who wants a NEEDY girl.... it boost his ego because this girl needs him to survive.... financially and emotionally.I don't fall into any of those scenarios, I want a relationship because it feels right and is right. I know who I am and what I'm looking for and I think the right one is out there. Good luck in whatever it is you're looking for. Meet for a drink and talk. There might be a spark or we just met a new friend in life.
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AlisiaOffline
Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 49-59
Ok, so I have been alone a while now and have a 19 year old that does their own thing so I am looking for someone to spend time with and have fun. Am I looking for a serious relationsip? Not sure, anything is possible. I have a lot to offer so I guess I am looking for someone that has the same and then see where it will take us.I am not into games and am looking for a guy that feels the same. I love SyFy , action films and horror. Sorry not a girl flick girl so no worries there. So hit me up if you are looking for a woman that is comfortable in her own skin more often than not. Oh one more important thing. I love the beach it soothes my soul. Coffee, I think so we can talk and see if there is a spark and then go from there.