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Hillary, 53

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About Me

Totally am convinced that there is not one normal, real, serious male on this site.No shirt, no photo, no children - I won't respond. There is a lot to be said about the 'firsts' ... and for some reason guys just don't take this form of trying to meet a person seriously....I am drama free and want to find someone to compliment my life and not complicate it.Please be a non-smoker and minimal/social drinker and have a CURRENT photo posted! I have two cats - sorry to those of you allergic or not a liker of them. While I honestly like dogs (no reptiles please), I prefer cats.My two children are grown, both are married and they have great careers and families of their own.Love positive energy and positive thinking! I work/exercise and am gluten free and eat healthy because I am Celiac/allergic to gluten. It just means I eat real food -Totally want you to be financially secure and free from 'ex' whatevers.My career is awesome and I own my condo so I'm not looking for someone to pay my bills or let me move in to their home (gosh, the stories I've heard are crazy!...I'm really looking to find that person I can be friends with always and have a true companion to share life with. : )Keep smiling!! Not a bar please! : )I'm not a huge sports girl although I love to watch the Packers. Walks, Festivals, Music....something easy would be delightful!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Shenna

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Wow, you'd think this would be such a easy thing to do, write about the person you know the best, yourself, but its hard. Anyway, here goes.I am growing more and more evolved as a person, confidante, friend, lover, sister, mother. I have been blessed with two amazing children (most of the time) lol.My desires are simple. I am a woman that would hope to easily earn your respect, and honor, have a have degree of integrity, and wants true commitment. I would like to find someone that has an awesome sense of humor, can keep me laughing during challenging times( as all couples occasionally have) loves the outdoors and nature, and respects and values thoughts and opinions of others even if You and or I may not resonate with that opinion. I have a real desire to connect with people of other cultures, and enjoy great conversations and experiences. I do not "date around", so if you are a serial dater, or are just interested in an occasional fun night out without looking any further into the future, please do not respond to me. I am a one man woman.... like my mom used to say, " you never know when you kiss that frog you may just fall in love". Those pheromones can be pretty strong!But believe me, I've been divorced over 10 years and it hasn't happened yet, but I am the eternal optimist.... and I do believe I'll find " my" perfect one.Additionally I have known people that feel that they needed to drink every day to "feel good, relax, and enjoy themselves". I have dated people that do this, and realize fully that this is not a habit I feel is healthy and beneficial. Do I drink socially, yes, but only socially. I love outdoor sports, especially water skiing, snow skiing, swimming, fishing, mountain biking, soccer, basketball, and rock climbing (before rotator cuff tear repair). I love to try new things, and typically don't shy away from challenges, unless the result could be dangerous ( I love my kids too much)! As for travel and nature, there is nothing better than spending time in the sun, and taking in all that nature has to offer. I love the mountains, (camping also) especially in the fall, but also have a real affinity for the ocean. I also am a real fisherwoman, therefore I try to spend as much time around any body of water. It brings great calm and serenity over me, and makes me feel one with the earth.My profession is slightly atypical, as I am in the naturopathic healing field. I am VERY happy with my life, feel blessed that I too spend my life in a field that I am helping other people to improve their lives, and am at a great place. I have many clients, and want to continue a more natural, healthy lifestyle. Unfortunately I have had a couple of sports injuries in the past couple of years, but am getting ready to get that taken care of as well. LIFE!! It's all good!Animals are a huge part of my life, always have been, and I have shih tzh puppies and young persian cats. I believe they are truly a valuable addition to one's psyche. Some I simply can't pull from my hat right now.Travel and culture is also a passion of mine. I have had the opportunity to visit Europe several times, have taken my 2 children for extensive periods of time, and believe this is one of the best forms of education you can provide to children.I hope this gives you some insight into me, and my desires for my a continued healthy, happy life. Want to become acquainted if for no other reason a new friendship with a native Charlottean? Please, please know though if you only feel that sending a note with a "hi" it says to me you don't think taking the time to right a more personal note is worth your time. Additionally, I don't date anyone that are separated or recently divorced. I do feel it takes time to get through several ( at least 2 years) to work through necessary angst, pain, and ex issues to become ready for a real, happy and non comparison relationship. I've seen it too often hurt too many people, as well as myself and don't choose to walk that path again. I'm a realist, and want to bring and experience pure joy with the person I have a relationship with, without being compared.I wish you all happiness, peace, and blessings of finding the next forever "love" that will rock your world!Natural Carpe Diem Something casual that allows for great conversation and activity.

  • Neda

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I like to keep active. The outdoors in the warmer months are my favorite time to walk, fish, go to the beach or go boating. Keeping in shape is important to me. I try and go to the gym ***times a week and I also like to work in my yard which is good exercise too! I love horseback riding but don't get to do that too much anymore. A night of dancing is fun and my favorite music is country.I like to be social and get together with friends often. Relationships are important to me. A good work ethic is also important. I don't tolerate lazy or sloppy people and not being on time is a pet peeve! I also like a man who is well groomed and cares about his appearance. My family is very special and I spend time each week with my grown children. They are an active part in my life. I attend church just about every Sunday. Meet for coffee or tea in the afternoon.

  • Gabriele

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    i'm usually positive, mostly outgoing and 89% smart. that should be true about you too.i love this city. i love that there are so many fun and great things to do here.i'm good with staying home and relaxing in front of the tv and/or computer too.be a one-woman man. realistic and dreamy. i believe that when two people are open and honest the relationship works. ps. i am talkative, just can't seem to spell anything out for this site. different fact about me than most new yorkers - i know that city really well. i go down there several times in the winter because their weather is great for running when nyc is way to cold for me. and i like to do their annual cap10k and the 3m half running events. my mom lives right on townlake. please know; i will not respond if you don't have a photo or two. don't worry if you aren't into the same sports as me. (note: i'm only into these outdoor sports in the nice weather. i will only be too happy to sit by a fireplace and enjoy the indoors when it is cold.)you will really earn points with me if you can change all the music on my ipod.don't click on the "meet me" thing - write me if you actually think we are a good match and should meet.If you see me visiting your profile, it means that I'm thinking about maybe ????? but wasn't sure or rushed off / work or ......if you wanted to hear from me, Send me a message. sometimes i can't make the first move...........and yes we can do it all while walking, talking and drinking coffee, tea, or drinks......or just take me out for ice cream, because it's my favorite first date.

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