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Vivian, 51
United States, Alabama, Moody

Offline, last seen Mon, 06 Apr 2026 05:52:33

About Me

I love my family, love being social, grew up in a sports-oriented family and value a sense of humor. I need someone with high ethics, high intelligence and not too much baggage (we all have SOME). Self confidence is very sexy and must love dogs.....I'd like to think at this stage in my life a relationship should be drama-free. With me, what you see is what you get. I work hard, play hard, love to travel and would love to find someone to do it with. The thought of dating is scary--from the awkward first date, to revealing idiosyncrasies,finding out what makes someone else tick and hopefully building a future. I grew up in a family where my parents adored each other and my brother and I knew it. I would love to have a relationship like that--I'm not talking about over-the-top PDA's, but just the underlying understanding that the other person will always have your back.Love old school R & B and pretty much anything else--never took a liking to country music--must be the Yankee in me. Love action/comedy, chick flicks and thought provoking movies. I am not religious, but I believe in God, and talk to him every day.I spend most of my time in a hockey rink or watching cross country. I would love to have a change of scenery, glass of wine, quiet conversation and to learn more about you.If anything I've said makes sense to you, let me know. Showing interest is nice, but a message is better.....and if you have taken the gratuitous picture of yourself in the bathroom mirror, please move on....**October ***Update---The art of communication is lost.....if you contact me, and I reply, we have now started a conversation. If you reply with responses and no further questions, the conversation is over. If you want to continue to converse, ask questions.....it takes two. And I am a firm believer that first impressions are important. If you haven't put much effort in to your profile and/or pictures, chances are we would not be a match. Why even bother to be on this site if you can't take the time to double check for spelling errors, or put less than flattering pictures out there? And I don't need your life history up front, but more than a sentence or two would be nice. I have met some nice guys on this site, but no sparks--I haven't given up hope. Life it too short not to have someone significant in your life. Guess the only way to find out is to ask......

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian House Punk Cycling Dance
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am a girl who enjoys the simple things. Meaningful conversation, thoughtful gestures, rivers with mini waterfalls in them, stormy weather, bonfires, good wine, fishing next to cows, road trips with loud music and windows down, gardening, cooking with a friend, snuggling in for a movie, trails in the woods, surprise kisses, poetry, photography, children's school plays, professional theatre, rummage sailing, my daughters art, my other daughter's wisdom and my grandson's latest accomplishments. If this sounds similar to your personality, please keep reading....I like meeting new people, making new friends. It would be great if while doing that...I meet the one. Not just any "one". The ONE!There are not many things I do not like, but I guess negativity and prejudism would be untolerable. Oh, and if you smoke cigars occasionally...I do like that, but if you smoke cigerettes or chew, I most likely won't respond.I don't mind doing the little things that are important to my mate, and I am genuinely concerned about how my partner feels and how their day was, so sharing is important to me. Communication...yep, that is what I like. Let's keep it simple, until we know for sure.....

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

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