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Vivian, 51

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About Me

I love my family, love being social, grew up in a sports-oriented family and value a sense of humor. I need someone with high ethics, high intelligence and not too much baggage (we all have SOME). Self confidence is very sexy and must love dogs.....I'd like to think at this stage in my life a relationship should be drama-free. With me, what you see is what you get. I work hard, play hard, love to travel and would love to find someone to do it with. The thought of dating is scary--from the awkward first date, to revealing idiosyncrasies,finding out what makes someone else tick and hopefully building a future. I grew up in a family where my parents adored each other and my brother and I knew it. I would love to have a relationship like that--I'm not talking about over-the-top PDA's, but just the underlying understanding that the other person will always have your back.Love old school R & B and pretty much anything else--never took a liking to country music--must be the Yankee in me. Love action/comedy, chick flicks and thought provoking movies. I am not religious, but I believe in God, and talk to him every day.I spend most of my time in a hockey rink or watching cross country. I would love to have a change of scenery, glass of wine, quiet conversation and to learn more about you.If anything I've said makes sense to you, let me know. Showing interest is nice, but a message is better.....and if you have taken the gratuitous picture of yourself in the bathroom mirror, please move on....**October ***Update---The art of communication is lost.....if you contact me, and I reply, we have now started a conversation. If you reply with responses and no further questions, the conversation is over. If you want to continue to converse, ask questions.....it takes two. And I am a firm believer that first impressions are important. If you haven't put much effort in to your profile and/or pictures, chances are we would not be a match. Why even bother to be on this site if you can't take the time to double check for spelling errors, or put less than flattering pictures out there? And I don't need your life history up front, but more than a sentence or two would be nice. I have met some nice guys on this site, but no sparks--I haven't given up hope. Life it too short not to have someone significant in your life. Guess the only way to find out is to ask......

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Billy

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am an easy going person and very comfortable with whom I am. I am a very positive person,optimistic, romantic, affectionate, kind, playful, sensual, charming, inquisitive, philosophical, and happy. The ocean, dancing, traveling, exploring new things, concerts, outdoor activities, movies, dining out, and cooking are some of the things I enjoy. I think it would be fun to cook side by side in the kitchen together. I feel that communication is important in a relationship, as is encouraging and supporting one another, with a sense of humor thrown in there. I am a Christian and would like to meet someone with the same beliefs. Also someone who is loyal, honest, faithful, passionate, compassionate, affectionate and fun. I'm looking for my soul mate, best friend, and my one last love. I am NOT looking for casual sex, one night stand, hook up or whatever it is called now. Seriously, that is not meant as a challenge...I am being completely honest.I am hoping to find an honest, loving, faithful relationship where we share interests and desires and look forward to each other’s company no matter what we are doing.Don't just want to make Love, want to make Love last...... If you do not have a picture…I will not respond. Somewhere in a casual environment good for conversation to get to know one another.

  • Annabella

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Hate to be stuck in the house. Love to be outside gardening, yard work, or going to garage sales. Would really like to go fishing. (real fish) A favorite pastime of mine. To bad I sold the boat. I enjoy shopping looking for deals, or going out to eat. Would love to travel. Been to a few far away places, but still have a lot on my bucket list of where to go. Am very involved with my kids, and grandkids. Love to spoil them. I do like to spoil the guy in my life (If I find one again) Hoping to find someone with a good sense of humor, which is a huge part of my personality. Looking for someone that I can't wait too see again.

  • Neile

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    First I would like to say is that the last 8 years consisted of me getting my 2 son's through a divorce, the pain and the confusion, so I missed out on a lot of going out and having fun ( kids activities), my kids are older and we're good, they want me to go out and have fun. So about me I love sports and would like to have some one to watch a game with, I like cooking together or something special for my special someone. Outdoor activities are great, festivals,music, fishing, walks, yard sales I like all types of music except RAP, I'm looking for someone to take care of me physically and emotionally, he must be strong and sensitive, not afraid to show his feelings in public..I Somewhere for coffee, or drinks some conversation and time together. And if we meet and enjoy each others company, but you just don't feel a connection, be a man and say so, don't make plans and be a no show ( VERY BIG PET PEEVE) I hope I didn't scare any one off :-)

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