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Phebe, 52
United States, Alabama, Millbrook

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About Me

Hi! I am updating this for the last time I think. I guess I am not a "twinky" (you know the twenty somethings, or a skinny minny) so I don't attract people like I used to... your lose I guess! I am a kind, considerate person, who always tries to smile no matter what kind of day I have had. If I am destined to be alone, so be it! I am just disappointed in the quality of people out there who are only wanting to chat, play games, or lie, lie and lie some more! My profile might not "fit" into the "mold" of what men want, and that is fine! I would rather not be a cookie cutter fit like everyone else and not meet anyone, than be just like everyone! I am an original and proud to be one! This is my brief synopsis of myself, whether you like me or not: I have a quirky sense of humor and am an avid reader. Strangers tend to talk to me and tell me their troubles while standing in line or sitting on the bus, I missed my calling I think, lol! I am generally an even-tempered, kind person who has one or 2 pet peeves; which are that I detest liars and players. I would want to start out as FRIENDS and grow from there. I am really tired of people who only want to "chat" on-line. If we live in the same city, whatever happened to communicating in person? You know, meet for coffee or tea? I am tired of the games people play, I am too old for the "crap"! If I sound too blunt for you, then sorry, but this is me! I am honest and don't believe in playing games, lying ...... If I don't answer you, it is because I don't think we would make a good match, Sorry! OH.. I don't drive which seems to be a problem for some (due to vertigo) which just means I have a dizziness problem, not that I am a "dizzy dame"... I have been looking for a job for over a year now, please do not ask if I am looking for someone to support me, I AM NOT! Also, do not try to "help" to find me a job, or ask me what I am looking for. At this point, I am willing to fit the job and not the other way around! I am also only looking for a Part-Time job, not full-time due to the Vertigo issue. So.... please, don't try to help, I will find a job in my own time and in my own way. Thanks anyway as many of you are very condescending the way you ask and "try" to help! I am kind of tired of it! So please, just leave it be if you contact me. I will see how many of you actually read my profile in its' entirety, so if you do offer to help, don't be surprised if I tell you please refer to my profile! No, I am not being a "B", just being honest and forthright! One more thing, I can be somewhat shy until I am comfortable with someone even if I don't come across that way here. I just believe in saying what I think by being honest.Thank you and good luck in your search! Meet for coffee/tea.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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