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Phebe, 52

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About Me

Hi! I am updating this for the last time I think. I guess I am not a "twinky" (you know the twenty somethings, or a skinny minny) so I don't attract people like I used to... your lose I guess! I am a kind, considerate person, who always tries to smile no matter what kind of day I have had. If I am destined to be alone, so be it! I am just disappointed in the quality of people out there who are only wanting to chat, play games, or lie, lie and lie some more! My profile might not "fit" into the "mold" of what men want, and that is fine! I would rather not be a cookie cutter fit like everyone else and not meet anyone, than be just like everyone! I am an original and proud to be one! This is my brief synopsis of myself, whether you like me or not: I have a quirky sense of humor and am an avid reader. Strangers tend to talk to me and tell me their troubles while standing in line or sitting on the bus, I missed my calling I think, lol! I am generally an even-tempered, kind person who has one or 2 pet peeves; which are that I detest liars and players. I would want to start out as FRIENDS and grow from there. I am really tired of people who only want to "chat" on-line. If we live in the same city, whatever happened to communicating in person? You know, meet for coffee or tea? I am tired of the games people play, I am too old for the "crap"! If I sound too blunt for you, then sorry, but this is me! I am honest and don't believe in playing games, lying ...... If I don't answer you, it is because I don't think we would make a good match, Sorry! OH.. I don't drive which seems to be a problem for some (due to vertigo) which just means I have a dizziness problem, not that I am a "dizzy dame"... I have been looking for a job for over a year now, please do not ask if I am looking for someone to support me, I AM NOT! Also, do not try to "help" to find me a job, or ask me what I am looking for. At this point, I am willing to fit the job and not the other way around! I am also only looking for a Part-Time job, not full-time due to the Vertigo issue. So.... please, don't try to help, I will find a job in my own time and in my own way. Thanks anyway as many of you are very condescending the way you ask and "try" to help! I am kind of tired of it! So please, just leave it be if you contact me. I will see how many of you actually read my profile in its' entirety, so if you do offer to help, don't be surprised if I tell you please refer to my profile! No, I am not being a "B", just being honest and forthright! One more thing, I can be somewhat shy until I am comfortable with someone even if I don't come across that way here. I just believe in saying what I think by being honest.Thank you and good luck in your search! Meet for coffee/tea.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Erykah

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I decided to do something a little different. If you are open to the idea finish the following passage with your own rendition of what comes next.....She sat there, still and silent, quietly waiting for the sun to come up. The mist was gently retreating across the dark glittering water while she listened to the far off sounds of the loons just across the lake. She seemed indiscernible except for the brightly coloured quilted shawl draped over her shoulders helping to take the chill of the early morning air. To anyone who cared to notice she would appear to be enjoying a long slumberous awakening but in reality she was wide awake and waiting. Eventually she hears the sounds she has been waiting for. The slight little clicks and rattles of the screen door followed by the muted sound of distant footfalls and the soft hiss of an exhaled breath. Someone was approaching. Someone cautiously walked onto the wharf, and she sensed that they stood silently staring at her before bending down to join her. She couldn’t help but nestle her warm weight into his lap while wrapping her quilted shawl snuggly around the two of them. She rested her head just under his chin while he enfolded his strong comforting arms around her. They sat that way for the longest moment just enjoying the other’s presence until he lifted his hand to brush a wayward tress that was tickling his nose. He couldn’t resist stroking his finger down the side of her cheek encouraging her to turn towards the lips that she had been dying to kiss…..Hmmmm....I wonder what does come next? Looking forward to finding out!!!But just in case you are unsure...…someone who is loyal and can appreciate me for just being me…quirks and all…someone I can touch, caress, kiss any time I want just because I can…someone I can turn to for advice if I cannot find a solution on my own…someone to explore with, play with, and enjoy all those quiet moments with…someone beyond the bar scene but who appreciates a great pub, a live concert or two, fine dining on a starry night, or cooking a meal together amongst twinkling smiles and suggestive looks…someone who realizes we would be nowhere without family and friends…who enjoys laughter, friendly banter, time spent outdoors and romance…there are so many things but mainly someone who is not only comfortable around me but enjoys being with me…someone who is himself warts and all…after all it’s the quirks that we eventually fall in love with…and brag to our friends about!Sorry for the mini-novella...but sincerely hope we all find what we are looking for! Ohh and I am now back in the north...northern Quebec that is...as the school year starts early here! For a meet and greet I would suggest a walk, a chat, some vendor hotdogs, lots of laughter, maybe a roadside cafe, a shared smile or a mischievous grin. There are so many options that I am sure we could decide that together. If all goes well I'm sure we could figure out the rest!

  • Joelle

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    ***WARNING NOVEL IN THE MAKING***About me: First, I am Southern so yes, I do have a Southern Drawl and say; 'Yes Ma'am and No Sir' - I think that I have wonderful morals and character as I was raised by a US Marine who led by example. I am educated, and am the President/CEO of an upstarting Air Ambulance Company on the island of St. I have a background in Emergency Medicine and the Mental Health Industry; much of my focus today is on volunteering and I choose to work with our Wounded Warriors, Alcohol & Substance Abuse as well as Abused Women and Children. I am patriotic and love and support our men/women in the military throughout the world. I have traveled the world and have made so many wonderful friends. I have also been divorced for six years from an outstanding US Marine. He and I today remain the greatest of friends. I have 4-children, they are what make up the four quadrants of my heart. They are incredible men and women. I was a single parent for all but 8 years of their lives so I believe that the individuals that they are today is in fact a reflection of me. With this being said...Moving on with one's life is never easy. My friend's describe me as a woman who is giving, loving, passionate, trustworthy, and funny, who trusts but never easily and who has command presence. I am passionate about passionate subjects, refined and emotionally analytical. I love my life, children, people and animals. I respect myself and am proud of the woman that I have become. I am very tactile (I love walking together hand in hand or arm in arm even from the cars parking place to the grocers) but no groping in public, unless you feel that you must. I'm patient, never lose my cool and have the humility to admit when I'm wrong. I live life to the fullest, and strive for excellence both personally and professionally. I detest snobs, love innocence, drenched in the arts and culture. I read mainly non-fiction though will read almost anything. I do not need nor want a man that is willing to settle for second best. I am a very unique woman who is very secure in who I am. I am not a possession nor am I someone to be owned. Loved...Yes, and in return I will accept love completely, caringly and honestly with a man that has humor, kindness and passion. I am a woman who understands the power of words and the harm of secrecy. Therefore, I am a woman who does not speak around corners; it is straight between the eyes. I like to say about myself; "My horns hold up my halo and strength to get through the fight." Who I hope to find: I long for a man who knows who he is, secure in what he is, proud of what he has become. I am looking for someone to travel and build a life with, emotionally and physically, creating a home and a better future. Sharing the simple things and the grand adventures, a companion who pushes me to be a better person and who is there for me to lean on, occasionally. The one special person that will one day when we are 90, sit back on the porch swing and reminisce with me about all the grand adventures, the trials and tribulations and all of the fun we had together. Some of my favorite things: Sushi, friends, reading, sunsets and sunrises, swimming, sand between my toes, crisp mountain air, and a soft comfy bed on a cold rainy night.***men & women***are like apples***on trees. The good ones***are at the top of the tree.***Some People don't wanna reach***for the good ones because they***are afraid of falling and getting hurt***Instead, they just get the rotten apples***from the ground that aren't as good,***but easy, So the apples at the top think***something is wrong with them, when in***reality, they're amazing. They just***have to wait for the right person ***to come along, that is ***brave enough to***climb all***the way***to the top***of the tree.***¸..•¤**¤•., .•¤**¤•.*.; ¸..•¤**¤•., .•¤**¤•.*.;•¤**¤•.*. The first date for me would be someplace that I can listen to what you have to say. I want to hear what you are saying and hope that you will be interested in hearing what I want to say. I love simple things, sitting by the fire having hot chocolate with extra marshmallows, picnics, walks on the beach, sitting under the stars, candlelight, museums, fishing and much, much more. To impress me, just be yourself and IF by chance you have a romantic side to you; well that is like winning the LOTTERY!

  • Mammie

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am an outgoing and fun loving professional looking to find a partner to enjoy cycling,hiking and traveling with. I am a huge music fan with very diverse taste but mostly top 40 and oldies. I am a family oriented gal and my sons and immediate family are my heart.Look me up if interesting convo and leisurely activities are of interest to you. I would enjoy meeting for coffee or a glass of wine to see if any sparks fly.If so then make plans for a "real"first date.Dinner or a bike ride on the towpath.

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