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Phebe, 52

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About Me

Hi! I am updating this for the last time I think. I guess I am not a "twinky" (you know the twenty somethings, or a skinny minny) so I don't attract people like I used to... your lose I guess! I am a kind, considerate person, who always tries to smile no matter what kind of day I have had. If I am destined to be alone, so be it! I am just disappointed in the quality of people out there who are only wanting to chat, play games, or lie, lie and lie some more! My profile might not "fit" into the "mold" of what men want, and that is fine! I would rather not be a cookie cutter fit like everyone else and not meet anyone, than be just like everyone! I am an original and proud to be one! This is my brief synopsis of myself, whether you like me or not: I have a quirky sense of humor and am an avid reader. Strangers tend to talk to me and tell me their troubles while standing in line or sitting on the bus, I missed my calling I think, lol! I am generally an even-tempered, kind person who has one or 2 pet peeves; which are that I detest liars and players. I would want to start out as FRIENDS and grow from there. I am really tired of people who only want to "chat" on-line. If we live in the same city, whatever happened to communicating in person? You know, meet for coffee or tea? I am tired of the games people play, I am too old for the "crap"! If I sound too blunt for you, then sorry, but this is me! I am honest and don't believe in playing games, lying ...... If I don't answer you, it is because I don't think we would make a good match, Sorry! OH.. I don't drive which seems to be a problem for some (due to vertigo) which just means I have a dizziness problem, not that I am a "dizzy dame"... I have been looking for a job for over a year now, please do not ask if I am looking for someone to support me, I AM NOT! Also, do not try to "help" to find me a job, or ask me what I am looking for. At this point, I am willing to fit the job and not the other way around! I am also only looking for a Part-Time job, not full-time due to the Vertigo issue. So.... please, don't try to help, I will find a job in my own time and in my own way. Thanks anyway as many of you are very condescending the way you ask and "try" to help! I am kind of tired of it! So please, just leave it be if you contact me. I will see how many of you actually read my profile in its' entirety, so if you do offer to help, don't be surprised if I tell you please refer to my profile! No, I am not being a "B", just being honest and forthright! One more thing, I can be somewhat shy until I am comfortable with someone even if I don't come across that way here. I just believe in saying what I think by being honest.Thank you and good luck in your search! Meet for coffee/tea.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ma

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Salut...While I can very much enjoy myself in solitude and I do have many friends to do things with…I believe that life is a journey for two people.…my dream trip… Without that, life is simply a series of very pretty postcards, and a big bottle of 'me and I' to drink from while reviewing themAll I really want to find is my favorite person in the world, the one I am excited about…long for… and proud to introduce to my friends. He is one to know more about the world than just the street he lives on …a man of integrity who has a purpose in life....he is driven and knows the true meaning of respect and practices that with people from all walks of life. He has an opinion but knows when to appreciate the opinion of others and be open to learn…and adapt… and become better....that is a bonus :-)He is a man of great passion.I believe that good relationships are built on respect, good communication and the ability to be ourselves and still feel safe ....I am worthy of all three and am capable of offering the same.I love to play ball in many forms, I like to swim and I enjoy a challenge. I absolutely love to dance, a good dance beat always draws me to the dance floor. A good game of tennis, a concert...a good movie, a rustic quaint restaurant/cafe.....are all some of what excites me.Oh....one final note: Men who date more than one woman at a time are a big turn off for me. If at this stage in life you still don't know what you want then please steer clear of this profile.If the above resonates then I look forward to hear from you. A glass of Amarone is a good start.We meet...if we connect...everything else is detail.

  • Annamaria

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I m easy going , a bit shy , family oriented , honesty and trust is a must ,, please no liers and cheaters or users been there not going back to that ,, i love traveling and camping,,honest , caring , trusting , easygoing ,, love spending quality time with my family and friends ,, lol a bit of a workaholic ...guys no pictures no response :)i work in a remote camp and i love my job,,, i love being outdoors , fishing , boating ,, being at my camper in the summer , i love all kinds of music except rap and heavy metal , i am a take me as i am kind of gal :) Will decide together

  • Annika

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    My warmth and friendliness are the first qualities people notice about me. I am a gentle and encouraging listener, and I love to explore ideas and envision possibilities. I tend to nurture others, and I strive to treat others as I would like to be treated. For myself, I prefer getting to know someone on a deeper level rather than day to day chit chat. And sharing comfortable silence with someone is a true balm to my soul. (Can you spell introvert?) The next thing people notice about me is my quick wit and love of laughter. My humour can be corny, edgy, dirty, and intelligent – all delivered with a twinkle in my eye. I cannot appreciate hurtful humour. My online radio station is tuned to blues, or classical music like Mozart, but there is nothing like 70’s rock. **** It is such a thrill to hear those songs, not those pop songs so much, but more the “B sides” that meant so much to me at the time. My dream is to have a man think and feel about me as the 70’s rock balladeers felt about their women – corny right?! “Do ya Do ya want my love…?” I am definitely a homebody. Don’t get me wrong, I love to go out – see a movie, visit friends, go to the St.’s market, visit towns with antique stores, museums and Tim coffees. BUT – I love to return home and let out that contented sigh that means I’m home – that place of welcome, calm, comfort and peace. I love the alchemy of cooking – bringing various ingredients together under different conditions resulting in magic! I‘m in my element when I’m slicing, dicing and blending. Is there any better smell than onions, garlic and peppers softening in the pan? I like making the old fashioned simple foods – savoury, hearty and satisfying. I’ve had marriage proposals for my soups. I have insatiable curiosity about the world. I am a library and second hand book store junky. (BTW wouldn’t that be a great first date? – going to a used book sale together. You would learn just about everything you need to know about a person and reveal yourself as well.) Right now I am enjoying the sweetness of moving into this new stage in my life. I have work that I enjoy, that I excel in. I enjoy and value the opportunity to parent. I derive great pleasure from the simple things in life. I enjoy being a positive and grateful person, and I enjoy others who are like that as well. I have spent my life working hard and striving to become whole. I am comfortable with who I am. And who I am is a “lover”. I am the most me I can be when I am loving. I have many different kinds of love in my life which I enjoy. The love that I ache for is a romantic love. This love is a necessity for me. I want to meet someone who is content with himself, yet looking for that depth of relationship where he can express his inner desires and dreams, and give love to his maximum potential. I am up for that! I am looking for a man who respects and cherishes the people in his life, and a man who can recognize the strengths and vulnerabilities within himself as well as in me. My head wants to build slowly on a solid foundation of friendship and compatibility. My heart wants to be “all in” with a single kiss. My body wants….well let’s keep this from getting R rated. I will go out of my way to reflect back to you that you are powerful, valuable, and cherished. I am a million different flowers tied together in one bouquet. (I stole that from another profile because I LOVE it!!) Care to pull my ribbon? (That last part is all me!) First Date: I’m probably going to be a bit nervous to start, so something like a leisurely walk will help to avoid that “being interrogated” feeling. If the interest to go forward is there, I would love to do something that allows us to talk and laugh. What’s your idea?

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