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Aiko, 53

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About Me

I AM ACTUALLY 56. (POF WON'T LET YOU CHANGE AGE)I am not looking for someone that is perfect but someone that is perfect for me.Not into the bar scene but I do love music and love to dance.Looking for my best friend, lover, and partner. I want someone that I can't wait to see and feels the same about me. I would like someone who can contribute to the conversation. I am a very open and direct, independent women. But I want a man to share the good and bad times with. We were not meant to be alone(all the time) I enjoy going to the beach, and mountains. I like looking in antique shops, and flea markets. I enjoy eating out or cooking a dinner for that special guy and dancing under the stars on my terrace.I like bowling,the symphony, live music,dancing, and drinving with the top down and the music blasting. Snuggling on the couch watching a movie is the best feeling. I am a giver and I want someone who gives as much as he takes. I know how to make the other person feel like they matter. I love to laugh, and I want a man that can make me laugh, knows how to be romantic, cares about my feelings, and how to treat a lady. I like a guy to be from the old school of dating. He opens the door for me, and makes me feel like I am the only person in the room when we are together. That is how I will make him feel. I am very affectionate. Once it gets to that level. I enjoy hugging, and kissing is WONDERFUL. I enjoy just about anything, especially if I am with that special someone. You only have one life so don't waste one minute. On my first date I would like to go someplace quiet where we can talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

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