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Ugh!! This is the worst part, but here goes! I am compassionate, witty, and passionate......I still believe that chivalry is NOT dead! I am a real "girly-girl", but also love my sneakers and comfy flannel PJ's! You can dress me up and take me out to the classiest places, but don't be surprised when you realize I love to joke around and be goofy and playful, too (NOT in the classy restaurant, of course!! ) I am divorced with an 8 year old son and value family highly.....I am blessed to still have my parents around. Since I do have a young child, I would expect and will appreciate anyone I meet to be understanding when it comes to the challenges single moms sometimes have when dating. I teach special education through private agencies and love what I do.......I pride myself on my ability to be sensitive and establish good relationships with the parents I work with who have special needs children. I love infants and the elderly....they're both so precious in their own ways!! Of course, communication and trust are important, but even at this age, I think chemistry is also a must! A relationship without appreciation and passion just doesn't feel right. I am a good listener, a loyal friend, and love to make people laugh! I have a quick wit and usually laugh when I'm nervous! Making people laugh has always served as my "safety valve" since I am actually quite shy. Truthfully, I am looking for a solid relationship, as well as a man of exceptional values who will nurture my son as well as our relationship. Sure....I love the beach, and dining out, and working out, as well as candlelight and a nice glass of wine! I feel the best when I dance, although I don't really dance anywhere other than my living room anymore!! I am a classically trained musician, (my bachelor degree is in music education) but absolutely love latin, R&B, soul, and classic disco. Not looking for 'games' or causal dating. Please.....have a good sense of humor, and don't be wrapped too tight!! Thanks for reading, and good luck in your own search :)Never say never!! Timing is everything!! Perhaps a coffee (or a Dunkin' frozen hot chocolate!!) or someplace where we both feel comfortable meeting for a drink.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

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    Hello. I am new to Plenty of Fish and hoping to meet that someone special. I was divorced several years ago and i'm now interested in finding someone to share my life with, now that my two kids are grown and out on their own. I enjoy the outdoors and would love to meet someone who enjoys the same; walks, water sports, tennis, hiking. In my spare time I enjoy crafts, reading, time with friends. I like going to movies and concerts. I enjoy all kinds of music (except hard rock and rap), but I seem to listen mostly to country music and 70's. I work in the medical field and get great satisfaction from my job. I am honest, loyal, respectful, compassionate, I enjoy the simple things in life. I enjoy social time but also enjoy quiet time hanging out at home. *** new... added June '12 .. Looking forward to making new friends. I enjoy meeting somewhere for a drink, bite to eat. Love a place with outdoor seating, music in the background, quiet enough to be able to talk and get to know each other.

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Love the outdoors. I like to cook, take the long walks,or just to have that opportunity for a great conversation. I like to be taken serious and not taken for granted. Want a best friend that I can share good conversation with. I will be honest dont want the typical male that is out there to put a notch in their belt buckle this is not for me, I am much better than that game. I am up front and honest will not deal with the bullsh*t that some men put us through. I love to kick my feet up and relax and be loveable or there are the days where I want to go go go. I want to be the mate that makes you feel important. I always look for the best interest in a man I am old fashioned and still love that courting that a man can give. I will tell you like it is up front no means no. I like the classic rock and since I have teenage girls so I will listen to some current music. I like to dance may not be the star on the dance floor but I will dance. I will always be a great listener and right there for you. I think what it is that I might have been my problem was putting my man on a pedestal but I was brought up that way to please the man your with. I have always done that and will keep doing it, I just expect the same back. Please feel free to IM or *** here I seriously will not bite so dont be intimidated by what I have said.Respect your life but most of all make it your life the way you want it not dictated to what others want. I would like to meet up see how things go and take it from there if there is any type of chemistry there. Just dont lead me on and play games not into that shit.

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