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Candida, 55
United States, Alabama, Loxley

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*****UPdate.....I NO LONGER OWN MY STUDIO..FORMER EMPLOYEES TOOK OVER MY LEASE WHEN IT WAS UP FOR RENEWAL!!!! WOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOO FIRST time in my life I have nights and weekends off and some time for me! In Med sales full time and Do design work for my line all the rest. LOVE IT LOVE IT LOVE IT.!!**** Also..........please have a CURRENT PICTURE..most of mine are from ***....Main pic-- with a friend and I'm in the pInk dress is the oldest....july ***. CURRENT to me isn't 5 years old.Ok ..........I'm extremely FUN loving,bright,quick witted,sharp,kind hearted, outgoing,Funny!!!! and a business owner......dance studio. Crazy and creative! Woooooo hoo. I'm a goofball at times and I LIKE ME!!! I'm mushy.........NO NOT MY BOOTY!!!! Light hearted and ready for a brilliant sharp dressing smart ass! I Dig intelligence and a GENTLEMAN! I LOVE SMILES AND *** SURE YOU READ THIS NEXT LINE CAREFULLY! My guy will be IN SHAPE! i WANT A FIT MAN WHO VALUES HIS BODY AND LIFE. (not ROUND) No couch potatoes! I lOVE LIFE and I am always nice to EVERYONE---ok not EVERYONE..........if you are mean spirited...I don't play!BUT i MIGHT kick your butt if you hurt someones feelings around me! smirk!I WANT TO ENJOY EVERYDAY AND FIND GOODNESS IN EVERY EXPERIENCE! I want a stable, successful/articulate man who has a light side and open heart who is ACTIVE---and MORAL! I am NOT CASUAL ABOUT MY HEART OR BODY! Period!!!! If you are into serial dating or cheating......move along. Not my style. I seem to attract men much younger but I am looking for something more substancial than just a young hottie for the moment. Age doesn't matter to me unless it means our paths are too far apart in what we want for the future. I wouldn't want to waste anyone's time as well as my own. Looking for the guy that I get a huge crush on ! that's the best feeling EVER!!!! R U out there?????? Please let me know if there is a guy in his 40's-50's that is FUN AND BRILLIANT!!!! If you lie about your age, please don't waste my time. I think it shows a lack of integrity and self respect. i'm not attracted to men that don't have a healthy dose of Both!!!!!!and what's up with the pessimistic cranky dudes? Hell NO to THAT! If you have a youthful outlook on this world and choose to be happy.............and are super cute.......to ME...... LET'S GO PLAY AND SEE WHERE IT GOES!!!What you get with me is what you see..........I'm brutally honest, wired more like a guy........no drama, no games, upfront and moral. Hardworking and NEVER HAD A FINANCIAL PARTNER or husband/child support. I have been the "man/breadwinner" of my family since my boys were 1-3. and now that my boys are raised I want an equal partner. I will say it is hard to connect with men that have been the sole support of their families, their wives took half while not contributing financially, and now they want a chick with a career but someone that will be lame! The latter part is NOT ME! I don't expect a man to pay my bills and I don't expect to support him either. PARTNERS. SIMPLE.NOTE: for those men that have made comments about the pictures of me with "other men"..........THOSE MEN ARE MY SONS!they are in their late twenties and we have a wonderful relationship!we hang out all the time now that they have their own lives. I feel incredibly blessed that they "like" me along with loving me. woooooohoooooooo!Disclaimer........if you are pissed at women.........please move along. Also......if you are over 30 and don't realize it's important to make folks around you feel better about themselves in your presence, I doubt I'd hang for long. I'm so shocked that some people(men and women both) feel it it ok to be thoughless and insensitive to others around them. I am ALWAYS CAREFUL WITH others' feeling and hearts. I take care of those that I get close to.......hell even those that I'm not........because I don't ever want to be responsible for hurting others........this world is tough enough without having to protect our hearts around those we trust with them.......Just a heads up for some of you men this might apply to. I've never stayed around someone that doesn't treat my heart or feelings with respect and kindness. We all deserve that and berating someone doesn't make anyone look like a great person. I'M INTO KIND HEARTED MEN***those that UNDERSTAND you have to be careful with someones feelings if you want them to come back for more! ANYTHING ............. music, fun, laid back, relaxed............I dig hanging out with folks and just people watch, get to know them, laugh about all the drama in life and come up with a few funny comments for strangers! I'm easy going and can be at home in most any situation!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Cooking Action Martial Arts Sport Western Ice Hockey
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