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Nakia, 55

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Pull down menus with limited choices place people in a box. I live in a spiral universe of ebb & flow. I love the adventure of being alive and have created a life that reflects my passions. I enjoy exploring and am a seeker at Heart.I am quite comfortable in my less than perfect, aging body. Full expression of the 5 senses is such a delightful journey! The sound and feel of good music especially well-played and live. Smells meant to stimulate, sooth or bring back wonderful memories. The yummy taste of healthy food, prepared with attention and fully enjoyed. Beautiful sights (aren't we fortunate to live in the NW) especially the smiles of friends heading my way. And all the wonderful ways to experience luscious touch and physical movement. Particular favorites are joy--Open-Wide loving. I have many accomplishments. But if I were to say what the greatest is... That would be simple: I have a deep capacity to love & connect with others. The people in my life are my greatest treasures.Why am I here? I am seeking first a new friend to explore and play with. My life & friends provide me with all I ever want except that almost beyond words place where I can go with a man I connect deeply with. The shared intimacy of being completely present with one another. And when that person is also a good friend and companion. Magic occurs. Attraction must be present & mutual. The 'why' of attraction remains a mystery and I delight in exploring the mystery!Do I hope to someday again have a Beloved Life Partner? Absolutely. And I know I have the capacity to do so well. But for today: Life is short... Let's explore, play, laugh and delight in sharing a bit of the journey together! The first date is not about 'doing'... It is about 'knowing'. I want to look in your eyes and wonder: Who-Are-You?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rahab

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I believe that life is truly precious, and I have learned to appreciate every moment. I treasure the moments I spend with my family and friends. Nothing makes me happier than to have my home filled with the people I love. The greatest joy in my life is being a mom to my daughter, who is a kind, caring, smart, and creative child with a great sense of humor, who can melt me when she walks by and spontaneously gives me a hug and a kiss.The one thing that is missing in my life is a realationship with one special man. I long to feel that spark for someone who is kind and genuine, comfortable in his own skin, considerate and thoughtful, who can make me laugh, and will pull the chair out for me in the restaurant (just remember to push it back in!)In return you will find that I am warm and passionate, caring, affectionate, compassionate,emotionally stable (I really do have a good understanding of what's a big deal in life and what's not), with a healthy sense of independence (I can put together my own bookshelves, but would be thrilled if you did it for me! Or maybe we can just open a bottle of wine and cuddle up on the couch together and watch a good movie... or talk about our day while we exchange foot massages... or just share a long, sensual kiss ( or two ;) Quite often the most simple moments together can be the most beautiful and meaningful.I believe that at the foundation of a healthy relationship are mutual respect, communication, trust, and mutual support. One should also not underestimate compatibility, passion, romance, thoughtfulness, and simply having fun together.- physical, emotional, intellectual, sexual, and spiritual. Holding someone else's heart in your hands is an awesome responsibility, not to be taken lightly.If you've connected with something you've read here, I'd love to hear from you. If not, I wish you luck in your own search. We all deserve to find our heart's desire. Thanks for reading to the end :)

  • Danielle

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    No players number 1. I love camping, horseback riding, taking walks and candle light. I was brought up the old school and I want someone who appreciates a good woman. I love long hair but it's not necessary. I draw, paint and write poetry. Was born and raised a country girl but love rock music. No liars had enough of fake people and posers. Love to dance and socialize. Love daisies and sitting outside listening to the sounds of the night. Not afraid of anything except spiders. I'm known to be a die hard animal lover, and advocate against animal abuse. Please when you say you are interested in me give me time to get to know what kind of person you are and give yourself time to get to know me. I have had ones on here that as soon as we talk a couple of times expect me to drop everything and meet but sometimes I can't, I have commitments and I can't always be there on your timeline. If I am interested then we can mutually agree to meet when it's convient for both. I'm worth every bit of the wait I asure you. I have 2 cats and a bird so if you don't like animals don't bother. I ride a Harley Sportster ***and love to ride so you should have a bike cause I'm not giving mine up. Don't like to swim but love the mountains. I don't care how far away you are if it's meant to be we can make it happen. I'm looking for my best friend, soul mate, lover if your not serious please don't chat me up. I am looking for that special Guy who makes me get chills when we kiss. Candle lit dinner and dancing. I'm passionate and have a huge heart. Karoke is always fun. Love romance and a man opening my car door.

  • Sherryl

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    The Dali Lama, when asked what surprised him most about humanity, answered, "Man. Because he sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die, and then dies never having lived."Do you ever wonder if folks who drive Volkswagens ever count how many times they see kids "punch' buggy their parents?my life is dedicated to opening up the essence of who i am. my concerns for what everyone feels i should be are no longer a part of my life. i am who i am. An extreme right brained, visualize, stopped taking the world outside of myself so seriously. i live in gratitude. Have you ever taken the time to just close your eyes and feel your feet take each step- every step never being the destination, yet every step you feel the ground, the muscles working, the feeling of air which surround the foot as it rises for another motion. i am a professional artist, successful with this gift, my art touches my soul Words? Spiritual, minimalist, outdoors, listening to the world, energy, onesness, zen, presence, namasteSmells? Speaking to another on this site fills me with the idea that perhaps another light that can be shared is possible ->Did YOU seriously put on a picture of you and a dead fish, deer, or have a picture of large amounts of alcohol consumption? Hmm, (rolls my eyes)->i would love to emphasize....this is not a sex site. i can not imagine having a meaning relationship with anyone whose 1st priority is getting laid. ~tis a guarantee though, those you have a meaningful relationship are more apt to have aspect of the bond...deep and intense! MUCH MUCH more to life when two souls combine with oneness ghost hunting comes to mind!

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