Total users: 61,527,548 Online users: 221,307
Mahalah, 51
United States, Alabama, Lincoln

Offline, last seen Mon, 23 Feb 2026 18:27:27

About Me

I'm definitely a "what you see is what you get" type person. I enjoy interacting & get along well with all types of people. I don't pretend to be somebody I'm not though. I'm a Christian woman, and try to live my life as He has taught. I'm honest & appreciate honesty in others. I'm caring, sensitive of others, quite dependable & conscientious; have a good head on my shoulders. I can handle a lot & don't give up easily. I appreciate all that I've been given, and look for the good in most everything. I love to laugh. I live each day to the fullest. I like being active & having fun. I love boating, the sun, beach & water. I like warm weather & hate the cold. I enjoy traveling & visiting new places. I love music, especially 80's rock, country & jazz. I don't care for rap & heavy metal. I like going to concerts a lot. I enjoy watching sports on TV & in person, mostly football & baseball.I'm comfortable at formal affairs, but can also let loose & be a little crazy. I do know where & when certain behavior is appropriate. I like holding hands & cuddling. I love kissing. I like to pay attention to my partner & for them to pay attention to me. I like romance - candlelight, music & special times. Call me old-fashioned, but I still enjoy having a door opened for me, my chair pulled out, help with my coat or carrying things, getting cards & flowers, etc. I enjoy very much making my partner feel special too.I'm a good Mom & am very family-oriented. I have two beautiful children, a 22 year-old boy & an 19 year-old girl. Both are attending college, are very social & fortunately overall good kids. I'm also a proud first-time Grandma of a little girl, my sweet angel, born May ***.I am drama-free. I have good relationships with my kids, family, friends, ex, his family, etc. No real enemies that I know of anyway. I like my job & pay all my bills. I am happy with what I have & what I've been able to do. I'm in good health, as far as I know at least - no addictions & emotionally strong. All-in-all, I'm unbelievably blessed. I am happy with my life. I believe it can be even more wonderful though when it's shared with somebody special. I'm looking for a man who's:- honest, caring & willing to help others- sensitive & affectionate- respectful, mature & dependable; can make a commitment & will follow through with his promisesI'd like a man who:- has some backbone & will stand up for what he believes in- doesn't settle for mediocrity, but has goals & ambition- works hard but also enjoys life & likes to have fun (wants to go out & do things)- is generally happy & optimistic- can carry on a fairly intelligent conversation, is easy to talk with, can open up & be his true self- makes a decent living- is good with kids & is family oriented; he must be dedicated to his own children & fair with mine- can be a partner in a relationship & still have a life of his own- generally knows what he wants in life & in terms of a relationship with a woman- takes care of himself & what he owns; somebody nice looking is a plus!I'd prefer someone who likes the water, who drinks socially, enjoys the holidays & has some other interests similar to mine.I do not want someone who:- has a lot of drama in his life that will affect a new relationship- is so engrossed in his job that he forgets other things in life are important too.I'm not looking for the perfect man, just the one who's perfect for me.“Don’t go for looks; they can deceive…Don’t go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one who makes your heart smile!” For a first date, maybe dinner and a few drinks. Casual happy-hour? Want to talk and get to know you. Other dates...dinner, movie, drinks, comedy club, concert, bowling, sporting event, etc. Like to have fun.(Not looking for a pen pal)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Techno Horror Romance Sport Thriller
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Aleisha from Lincoln | Woman | 54 years old | Cancer
    Aleisha

    Offline

    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I would like to meet a guy who is down to earth, and actually wants to meet a woman to be with that is decent and loving!! I am not playing a game here! If you are meeting women just for the challenge, then stop right here and do not include me!! I want the guy who shows up, that wants to be with me because they appreciate me!!! Someone who will not put me in harms way, cares about me, and can ultimately be the man! I've spent alot of time trying to please everyone else, now it's my turn! I am trying to live this "chapter" of my life to the fullest. I would love to share that with someone special!Turn ons: Kind-hearted, genuine, decent, loving peopleTurn offs: Deceptive, fake, fraudulent, arrogant peopleIdeal: Someone who accepts me for me, who makes me feel comfortable and safe, and who appreciates what can be a real relationship with a real person.Interests:Meeting wonderful people to spend my time with.Favorite Music:Classic rock, country, jazz, anything great to dance to! Favorite Books:"The Notebook" or anything by Nicholas Sparks (NC author); "As the Crow Flies"; "Marley and Me", a tear-jerker, "Fair and Tender Ladies"Favorite Quotes:It is the possibility that keeps me going … and though you may call me a dreamer or a fool or any other thing, I believe that anything is possible. ~from "The Notebook" by Nicholas Sparks"You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." Dr. Seuss"Just what you want to be, you will be in the end." NIWS, J.;You can't learn from mistakes that somebody else made." J.;Remember- No man is a failure who has friends.""So shines a good deed in a weary world." Willy Wonka via Shakespeare"So much time and so little to do. Wait a minute. Strike that. Reverse it." Willy Wonka"I'm gonna touch the sky, and spread these wings and fly,I ain't here to play, I'm gonna live my life everyday." Bon Jovi Let's skip to the second date which will be way more cool. Something, like REAL conversation, bring it! We could meet for lunch, or choose a vineyard nearby, or give me a suggestion. I like to be intrigued.

    Chat
  • Virgina from Lincoln | Woman | 55 years old | Pisces
    Virgina

    Offline

    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Fun loving,energetic compassionate woman looking for a man who knows how to treat a Lady.He must be considerate,loving,intelligent and not the center of his universe.A man who enjoys the finer things in life and not afraid to take on a challenge is a plus.A person who is admired among his peers and respects others is a treasure to find.Also holding a job or career to be proud of speaks for itself.I enjoy deep conversation and being in the company of someone who has a positive outlook on life. I have alot of love to give and don't want to travel this journey alone.I am blessed with two children who make me smile everyday! DONOT need someone to bring me down, but rather bring me up and make me HAPPY. Two is so much better than one. Somewhere public like a nice restaurant to meet and talk and get to know each other.

    Chat
  • Erna from Lincoln | Woman | 51 years old | Pisces
    Erna

    Offline

    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    briefly looking for long term relationship..i went through a breakup a year ago...time to move on. no games..no friends with benefits..looking for absolute honesty, compassion, and lots of love....ok after split up I got a dwi...I recently had to do 4 mo. in jail...may take a month or so, I am disabled and receive ssi and ssdi, so im on some waiting list for some places..i don't need anything from you, just company..so plz don't offer me a place to live or feel sorry for me..i am a strong woman and will get through this, again just looking for a good friend, companionship, eventually love, and of course your time, update, just got my apartment and loving it. in a great space, loving life. prolly just coffee, or light lunch.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: