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Em, 40
United States, Massachusetts, Springfield

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The past decade of my life has been full of stuff I never could have imagined growing up in a very conservative home in Texas, among the things I could have never imagined are doing something like this (owning my vulnerability, I'm not totally comfortable with all of this but here I am none the less). I have had my fair share of joy and pain along the way and it has all shaped who I am today. I am in the midst of big transition and open to some fresh faces in my life. I love my family and friends. I love being outside. I like to laugh and intentionally surround myself with people who are easy going yet lead very meaningful lives. I like Byron Katie, Pema Chodron, Elizabeth Lesser and Audre Lorde's writing and I love talking and thinking life stuff. I love TED Talks too. I'm thoughtful but I really like to have fun and be silly too. And my life gives me plenty of material for that, like my co-worker talking about his colonoscopy or tripping in front of 15k people once and on and on. Elizabeth Lesser teaches that if you face your embarrassment at your own humanity you'll find a deep well of compassion and passion....so far, I can't argue with that teaching and feel blessed by all that comes my way from the sometimes odd awkward hilariously painful stuff that is life.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    Yes, they live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Agnostic

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking Cooking Cycling Music Outdoor Hobbies
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    Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-35

    Howdy! First of all, I want to mention that I do NOT date black guys, sorry. I've been asked why I don't date black guys..simple, I'm not attracted to yall. If you would like to know more, message me. WARNING: I may not respond to all messages. 1) Don't get mad. 2) Don't send multiple messages!!! Let me tell you a little about myself. But after living there for 6 years, I decided that I needed to step back and look at life. So, made the decision to move back home and live with the parents so that I could pay off some debt and go back to school. Starting in January I'm heading back to school in the evening. The original program that I wanted to get into was Ultrasound, however, it's the hardest program to get into and won't even be able to even apply for until ***! I don't think I could living at home for that long. Program of choice is still up in the air!! I just haven't found my niche in life....--I don't do as much adventuring things that I would like. Hopefully, soon enough I will be able to do that and would like someone to join me :) Random thoughts: -I'm very much a family orientated person. -I'm a pretty quiet person until you get to know me and sometimes I'm not so quiet. :P-I like to workout and by no means do I have a 6 pack abs (one day!). I TRY to eat healthy but I'm a sucker for sweets :) -I'm random-White girl can't dance--only line dancing! Likes: -Working out-Sexy Trucks... mmm ;)-Kayaking--Skydiving-Hanging with family/friends-Rolling down the windows and blasting music and singing along :)-Bowling-Traveling***day I'll get to go out of the country-Playing in mud! :)-Going to Braves Games-yadda...yadda...yadda Dislikes: -LIARS--I rather now the truth than be told a lie. -Mosquitoes-Slow drivers in the fast laneOk...Ok...Enough about ME!

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    Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 23-33

    Why hello there! I'm currently trying to work my way back into school and trying to figure out my place in the world. I am a server/manager. I recently took sn improv class and loved it. I love to laugh and love to make people laugh. I am thinking about getting into comedy and acting. You must be able to make me laugh. I love my family and friends. I have the best friends in the world, cliche, I know but I seriously do, I don't know where I would be without them. I'm a down to earth girl, looking for a down to earth guy who can treat me right. I've had my share of douche bags so if you are one, no thanks lol. I don't play mind games, I'm an adult. But I do love a good board game here or there lol. I love to try new things and have a good time. I love movies, maybe more than the average person lol. I love music as well. I am a very nice, caring and sweet person. I have a great personality and I'm a great friend. A strength and a weakness is that I always worry about others before myself. I'm a nice, genuine person, treat me right I'll treat you right, plain and simple. i am not fake like some girls, I am just me. I have a voluptuous and curvy body type so if you don't like that then sorry for you. Sometimes I'm random but so is life and I love puns lol. some place low key where we can talk and get to know each other. or definitely something fun like mini golf or a comedy show ;)

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