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Em, 40
United States, Massachusetts, Springfield

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About Me

The past decade of my life has been full of stuff I never could have imagined growing up in a very conservative home in Texas, among the things I could have never imagined are doing something like this (owning my vulnerability, I'm not totally comfortable with all of this but here I am none the less). I have had my fair share of joy and pain along the way and it has all shaped who I am today. I am in the midst of big transition and open to some fresh faces in my life. I love my family and friends. I love being outside. I like to laugh and intentionally surround myself with people who are easy going yet lead very meaningful lives. I like Byron Katie, Pema Chodron, Elizabeth Lesser and Audre Lorde's writing and I love talking and thinking life stuff. I love TED Talks too. I'm thoughtful but I really like to have fun and be silly too. And my life gives me plenty of material for that, like my co-worker talking about his colonoscopy or tripping in front of 15k people once and on and on. Elizabeth Lesser teaches that if you face your embarrassment at your own humanity you'll find a deep well of compassion and passion....so far, I can't argue with that teaching and feel blessed by all that comes my way from the sometimes odd awkward hilariously painful stuff that is life.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    Yes, they live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Agnostic

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking Cooking Cycling Music Outdoor Hobbies
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    Hi! My name is Versace. I am never married other hispanic woman without kids from Springfield, Massachusetts, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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  • Ivette from Springfield | Woman | 60 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 60 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

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  • Dale from Springfield | Woman | 30 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    I am NOT an object so do not me as such!! I am a human being, treat me with respect!!! I AM NOT GOING TO BE ANYONE'S SEX TOY, SO IF THOSE ARE YOUR INTENTIONS DON'T EVEN BOTHER SAYING "HI" TO ME!! Thank you and have a nice day :-)Here are a some guidelines I go by.One: You have to my height or tallerTwo: I don't date outside my raceThree: I don't date men that are divorced or separated Four: you have to have nice eyes and smileFive: have to have more than one pic for me to respond Six:Have to want to have children.Seven: I don't date anyone who does drugs, yes I consider marijuana to be a drug! Eight: No smokers...that is just nasty! Sounds mean, nope I know what I am looking for and not going to settle for less than what I deserve. Life can change so much in the blink of an eye. Tell your loved ones how much they mean to you, saying "I love you" can never get old. Spend as much time, make time, for your friends and family. A simple text or phone call isn't too much to ask. Slow down and enjoy the little things in life. So take the time to smell the roses. Take away all the negativity in your life, removed the ones in your life that don't make you happy. Life is too short to be unhappy. Smile everyday, cry less often and don't let anyone ruin your happiness :-)"Trying to live and love, With a heart that can't be broken, Is like trying to see the light with eyes that can't be opened. Yeah, we both carry baggage, We picked up on our way, so if you love me do it gently, And I will do the same."Life is all about making mistakes, learning from them, loving with all your heart, letting it get broken to see who is strong enough to mend it back together, and letting the ones you love go no matter how much it hurts.Don't show off your muscles, it makes you look desperate. Please if you have a female in your pics, state who she is, it makes you look tacky. Just giving you a few pointers guys :-) If you are willing to get to know me send me a message. I look forward to talking to you!

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