SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Kat
Online
Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 21-27
I'm friendly, shy meeting new people but I easily get confortable, but I'm allergic to bullshiters! So I'm looking for a mature person who likes to take walks along the beach, swim. And enjoy lots of outdoor activities such as gardening, horse back riding, but most importantly being outside in nature meeting different kinds of animals (because I'm a big animal lover).
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Catalina
Offline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
First of all, get comfortable.... I guess this part is kind of like being interviewed. But if you are still reading and interested at the end, let me know.I have been in education for 19 years, so I am truly happy with my job. At the same time, it can sometimes make you really question your own intelligence as to why you are trying to teach and discipline kids. Just remember, don't believe half of what your child says about us and we won't believe half of what they say about you.I have 2 wonderful daughters, ages 14 and 10. They are my #1 priority and keep me on the go alot. My friends and coworkers consider me as a very sincere, honest, caring, and dependable person. My sense of humor can be all over the place- I love to laugh, have fun, be silly/goofy at times, but can be serious when needed. I don't sweat the small stuff.......don't have time for that or the drama. From my understanding, many women or "drama queens" are out there in the dating world. Nope! Not me.... I just like to smile, get along with everyone, and be happy. Sometimes to my disadvantage, I am a very independent person. I work full- time, am a sports mom who goes to practices and games, fixes things around the house by myself-for the most part, and don't like to ask for help. (I am learning how to ask, but it's hard.....guess that's being a single parent for you!) Since I have my girls most of the time, I have a lot of responsibility with them and my job as well, but wouldn't have any other way. My children come first period. However, unfortunately, a lot of guys don't really want an independent, career and family-minded woman. That's o.k. though......everyone is different. But this is me and how I am. (I would actually LOVE to not be so independent all of the time)As for things to do? I like to do just about anything. Really..... I am not indecisive, but I am truly up for just about anything. I guess I am just one of those people who can have fun doing all kinds of things. I love any kind of sports whether it be playing or watching and I also enjoy traveling and seeing all kinds of new and old places. However, I am just as happy to stay at home in front of a fireplace and watch movies. Not really into the "club and bar scenes," but I will go with a group of my friends on occasion to listen to live music. So.. who am I looking for?I am looking for someone who is honest, dependable, thoughtful, caring, respectful, ambitious, and just an all-around good guy. He would have to love children because my girls and I are a total package. This does require a lot of patience, especially when getting to know each other at first. I don't let my girls meet a guy who I just go out with one or two times. Therefore, my schedule can be a little less than flexible due to the schedule with my girls. Yes, I can and do go out. It just requires a little bit of notice, which requires a little bit of patience. I am really easy to please when it comes to going out on a date. I like to do just about anything at least once-except for jumping out of a perfectly good plane and anything having to do with snakes!
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Jaime
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
if you have no pix at all PLEASE for the love of anything you actually LOVE ... don't waste your time mailing me ... there isn't a hope in the coldest ice age I will respond pic -less profiles are like glory holes ... absolutely a NO GOEVERYONE says they are *laid back* funny not many are looking for something casual at first... fun... flirty... no drama... no pressure... things have a way of flowing along honestly so i'd like to meet someone who can just let things be what they will be... enjoy life in the moment... and take it as it comes... the fun things in life always happen naturally. I am in no way opposed to the possibility of meeting someone for more than dating BUT I believe these things should evolve organically... Meaning just because you have checked off the "relationship" box doesn't mean you have one after the first date! It should go like this... We meet (yes meet in REAL life) we have a fun time (no we haven't fallen into bed within 30 minutes I haven't agreed to any activities other than MEETING... So don't ask me for a thr33some) after our fun first date we make another ... (or not if there is no reason) we hang out again. And again. Until wow who would have thought we are getting along... It's been a few weeks/months... We still are having a blast. (yes by now we have fallen into bed I'm not a prude)It's a process people. Just cause you meet online doesn't mean you get to skip the part of dating that makes it FUN to get to know each other. The tension that is feeling pulled by nature into someone's company. The I can't wait to see X again feelings. Not well I checked off the "relationship" box why doesn't she want to meet my mom? Trade dirty pix? Talk about our future? Meeting online shouldn't have to be so surreal? !! i am NOT a vanilla ... so please if you live firmly inside the boundaries of a Noah's Ark archetype... don't message me we will not vibe of that i am 100% sure In the meantime... I'm more than fine with casual good times. BUT I have to like you , be attracted to you, YOU have to be sane, and I don't want to listen to you blather on all day about stuff that isn't sexy. This is not my job. **** funny taking some flack for this... men this is how you have treated us for centuries get yourselves a grip **** I have never been really "traditional" relationship motivated. I'd like to spend time with someone I respect but that doesn't have to be bunched into a Noah's ark two by two type thing. If it evolves ... Well I'd consider it. But it's not MY holy grail. Not looking to be someone's mistress. Cheating on your wife/ partner is your thing not mine. Looking for a man I can be seen in public with not one I have to sneak around with or never get to see. I'm sure there will be plenty of ladies willing. I'm just not one of them. I am fun. Funny. Sarcastic. Sharp as a tack and if I'm interested in you I will keep you on your toes... In a good way. ;)I would love to meet a man secure enough to allow for a "you a me AND an us" not someone who needs to be in the same room every moment. Giving both parties a chance to get out and live a life that keeps them BOTH interesting therefore INTERESTED. healthy. ;)Men on here are good at saying not much or too much about what they are looking for. I'm going to keep it simple. YOU should be sane as in not crazy as the above examples... I prefer fit men. FIT is stressed. I am fit ... I won't date squishy men. It's my preference. I like tattoos. I have tattoos. I don't need a guy to have tattoos but YOU should have some edge to you..... we have nothing in common ... I like a man who isn't afraid to get dirty OR clean up. Balance guys. All this being said its not a check list set in stone I have dated outside my usual preferences in the past quite successfully. But we ALL have preferences. i am not all that great at nor do i want a pen pal relationship... if you really want endless chat or to say *let's do something on such and such day* then not follow through please... let's not waste each others time... we are all way too busy for the wishy washy now-a-days... good luck everyone and remember REAL LIFE IS LIVED OFFLINE! coffee... something light... we can decide from there if we want to continue