SIMILAR PEOPLE
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LovoOffline
Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: woman. In age: 24-36
Hi! My name is Lovo. I am never married catholic hispanic man without kids from Litchfield Park, Arizona, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.
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GuadalupeOffline
Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 49-59
Picture this. It's the first date for us. We meet at a restaurant of mutual choosing. At first glance, you're relieved to see that your date looks like his pictures. You see the same relief in my eyes. We hardly notice our hearts beating a little faster as we say hello. Our tension eases a bit from the quiet low light atmosphere in the dining area. The waiter takes our drink orders, ah,****ails to take the edge off. We both share in conversation, light and easy, laughter, followed by a quaint silence. Telling stories from the far to recent past. Noticing that we have enough in common to relate to each other, and enough differences to keep things interesting. The food and service are adequate, we hardly notice, taking more notice in each other as the evening progresses. It's getting late and we agree that we've had a great time, and will do it again. I walk you to your car and say good night and that moment is suddenly there! The first kiss, frozen in time. And the realization that it was really nice, and really real. Oh, that wonderful feeling!Is that really so hard? No hidden agendas, just two people seeing if this is it, the real One. I like demur over crass, vulnerability over gullibility, diplomacy over harsh, but honesty over diplomacy. I would love for us to take on new adventures together, things neither one of us has done before. And passion, real, true passion. Not "taking care" of one another for sake of the others pleasure, but a love that feeds and builds off of a blunt God given attraction for one another. I still believe in love at first sight, chivalry, opening doors, and holding hands everywhere. I believe that if a person is interested in another, especially in this media, that it makes no difference who makes the first move, and the receiver of the first move should respond with honesty. Don't be afraid to say hello, but I promise to let you know if I'm not interested, and I would appreciate the same. Uh, I think I described it up top. But variables are nice too.
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BoOffline
Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: woman. In age: 49-59
I am not one to play games, but in this case, all the cards need to be put on the table. Getting to know each other, we will see what 'cards' we have. If we put the right cards together, both of us will work together to create a winning hand that no one can beat - both of us charge forward with confidence. If we look at each others cards, there may be a decision by either of us that it will not work. I am looking for a long term relationship that will not just 'be' but survive and thrive. Relationships take work. The relationship grows better and stronger with effort. I like to think of any relationship as a garden. If you do not tend to it, the garden starts to grow weeds (by the way, I love working around a yard or garden to remind me of this very subject). I understand what makes a healthy, strong and long relationship and am emotionally available, ready and willing to do so. Ask me about my 'cup' theory. I like to think I am intelligent and have social graces (well, except for that shopping cart incident at the grocery store ~smiles~). I will converse appropriately with anyone I am around. I work hard and earn a decent living. I am a software analyst, and love the job I am in for many reasons. I am serious when things need to be taken care of. I balance that with a sense of humor when I know everything is taken care of. I enjoy the simple things in life and I am thankful for what I have been blessed with. I am slightly ADD, so you will suddenly hear me say 'Wow, come and look at this!' It is my way of showing that no matter what life throws at me, I still stop, appreciate and be thankful for the 'little things.' I am in touch with who I am in life, my goals, and my dreams. I will be the first to admit I am not without faults. I laugh at myself. I laugh with others. I do not laugh 'at' anyone since I don't know their circumstance or walk in their shoes.My friends would describe me as dedicated, sincere, honest, compassionate ... and a little bit of a goof-ball!My favorite quote in life that I live by every day is "There is no better exercise for your heart than bending down to help lift someone else up." I believe God put me here on this earth to help other people - Help them succeed, help them learn, help them through a problem, help them lead, help them be a better person. In doing so, I succeed, I learn, I solve problems, I lead and I, myself, become a better person. If you have gotten this far : I believe my greatest quality is listening - not only listening, but hearing, understanding, and tempering that with compassion, care and respect. You will hear me ask "How can I help?" It might be helping around the house. It might be helping overcome an obstacle - it might be just listening. A first date to me would be a 'meet and greet.' Coffee, a glass of wine, a dinner - Anywhere a meaningful conversation can take place. There may be chemistry, and there might not be. Feel free to ask me what is more important - Chemistry or Compatibility -Anyone who 'falls in love' after one date does not really know what 'love' is.