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Merlin, 53

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About Me

I am a genuine, straight forward, positive,funny, dependable, and don't take myself too seriously, also very laid backThere is a lot I like I....I am always amazed about the world around us and love to explore and learn something new every daySo 1st time we meet if the attraction is there we take if from that point...if not there is no sense in continuingI enjoy all types of music love the 70's classicsI am very young at heart and live each day to its bestYI hope to find someone who is positive, independent, adventurous, active, open mindedHard to meet someone online in eastern CT it seems but if you live over 1 hour away it probably wont work. If you are fresh out of a relationship (week to a couple of months) or still in one I really don't want to be a part of that....everyone needs time to figure things out and I cant wrap myself into something like that. I have met many women who are a week separated or just divorced, still living with their ex.....I understand some people want to meet someone quickly but those initial rebound things usually don't last Pretty informal 1st date possibly dinner in a nice quiet place

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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