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I am not one to play games, but in this case, all the cards need to be put on the table. Getting to know each other, we will see what 'cards' we have. If we put the right cards together, both of us will work together to create a winning hand that no one can beat - both of us charge forward with confidence. If we look at each others cards, there may be a decision by either of us that it will not work. I am looking for a long term relationship that will not just 'be' but survive and thrive. Relationships take work. The relationship grows better and stronger with effort. I like to think of any relationship as a garden. If you do not tend to it, the garden starts to grow weeds (by the way, I love working around a yard or garden to remind me of this very subject). I understand what makes a healthy, strong and long relationship and am emotionally available, ready and willing to do so. Ask me about my 'cup' theory. I like to think I am intelligent and have social graces (well, except for that shopping cart incident at the grocery store ~smiles~). I will converse appropriately with anyone I am around. I work hard and earn a decent living. I am a software analyst, and love the job I am in for many reasons. I am serious when things need to be taken care of. I balance that with a sense of humor when I know everything is taken care of. I enjoy the simple things in life and I am thankful for what I have been blessed with. I am slightly ADD, so you will suddenly hear me say 'Wow, come and look at this!' It is my way of showing that no matter what life throws at me, I still stop, appreciate and be thankful for the 'little things.' I am in touch with who I am in life, my goals, and my dreams. I will be the first to admit I am not without faults. I laugh at myself. I laugh with others. I do not laugh 'at' anyone since I don't know their circumstance or walk in their shoes.My friends would describe me as dedicated, sincere, honest, compassionate ... and a little bit of a goof-ball!My favorite quote in life that I live by every day is "There is no better exercise for your heart than bending down to help lift someone else up." I believe God put me here on this earth to help other people - Help them succeed, help them learn, help them through a problem, help them lead, help them be a better person. In doing so, I succeed, I learn, I solve problems, I lead and I, myself, become a better person. If you have gotten this far : I believe my greatest quality is listening - not only listening, but hearing, understanding, and tempering that with compassion, care and respect. You will hear me ask "How can I help?" It might be helping around the house. It might be helping overcome an obstacle - it might be just listening. A first date to me would be a 'meet and greet.' Coffee, a glass of wine, a dinner - Anywhere a meaningful conversation can take place. There may be chemistry, and there might not be. Feel free to ask me what is more important - Chemistry or Compatibility -Anyone who 'falls in love' after one date does not really know what 'love' is.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Man. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 19-39

    I am a conceited arrogant prick. I can also be the most sincere, thoughtful, gentleman you meet. I believe life is all about taking chances and meeting new people, experiencing new things, and having your perceptions altered. I know you want that guy that holds he door for you every time and perfect around your parents. We'll see the thing is I'd more likely give you a flat tire while you walk on the side walk and laugh as you stumble. I hope you're the chick that laughs as you do the same and I end up hitting the sidewalk. I know you want some fancy dinner where talk about the amazing life we both see ourselves going after in life, but i'd rather sit on a tailgate, eat Jack n the Box tacos and watch a movie at the outdoor theatre... If you're the type who just looks at pictures to decide who you will talk to, that's great; I can be just as one-dimensional as you. If you actually read profiles that's cool, too; I love conversation. Having a type that you like isn't a bad thing, but the ability to see someone for all that they are is worth gold. Please don't waste my time if you're still "figuring out what you want" or any of that BS. You need to know you want me and be up front if you don't. I don't respond to games. I'm mature enough to walk away and I hope you are, too. I love music of all sorts. I'll get down with whatever's good. I've got my tastes but I'm not a snob. I like The Beatles as much as I do Killswitch Engage, however I hate the Black Eyed Peas. You should to. If you don't need a drunken night of karaoke to loosen up and you can laugh at sharing embarrassing stories over a cold pint, then we might get along. My ideal is someone who can be happy wrapping up in a blanket and watching a redbox, or even just hitting up Westgate to watch drunk people stagger out front. If you've made it to the bottom and maybe you're thinking "hah, that was different than most I've read on here", remember I'm on here to meet people. Take a chance and message me. Oh and if not, then kick rocks... Lol

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