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Sanford, 55
United States, Arizona, Litchfield Park

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About Me

Sounds like an oxymoron doesn't it?I'm told I'm smart, clean and not jerky by my friends teenage daughter! I guess that means I'm OK, but I encourage you to form your own opinion.I'm open minded in all facets of my life and see no need to judge another. I may not need what you have in my life, but I won't judge you for being where you are. I enjoy riding Harley's, being in nature where ever it can be found, finding balance in a meditation or spending an afternoon at home exploring one another. Festivals and funky eateries are high on my list too! You want to go to the symphony? Sure, why not? Although I'm a blue jeans and flip flop type, I do realize there is more to life than just travel and beaches. UPDATEI guess it could be said that I am open to the infinite.8 “Who am I? One thing is for sure. If you have any EXPECTATIONS of me, how I should express myself or how I should behave as an inspirational author, teacher or guide you will be greatly disappointed. Seeing me practice martial arts you may think, dangerous, tough, frightening. Meeting me on the street you may think peaceful, gentle, shy. Watching me talk to a group of people about spirituality you may think powerful, passionate, exciting. Hearing me speak ‘baby talk’ to my dog (lol) you may think, goofy, silly, childish. If you saw me with my closest friends you may think, funny, outrageous, even raunchy. ;***If I assist you on *** experience a very deep understanding of yourself and a greater connection to Source. If you are my woman you know me to be completely devoted, loving, honest, trustworthy and ALL of the above LOL ;-)). My thoughts may make you laugh. My thoughts may make you cry. My thoughts may change your life. My thoughts may piss you off. So who am I? I’m ME. I’m Real. I am a Free Spirit. I am NOT like anyone else. Nor do I wish to be. I am not here to Please anyone. I am here Only to express myself Honestly. My thoughts are Channeled through my heart and my mind from Higher Consciousness or Source. I love to share My ‘point of view’ with those who are curious and I love helping others in any way I can. In other words what you CAN expect from me is the Unexpected. So if you’re loving and kind, have an open mind, are fearless, free, able to laugh at your own flaws and absurdity, if you don’t think **** is a dirty word ;-)), and you don’t try to change anyone but Yourself, we will get along marvelously.” 8 *It can't be said enough. In order to be Enlightened, we MUST learn to Lighten Up. Laugh more. Love more. Judge LESS*. LOVE, Laughter, Light-ness, and Deepest Respect to All experience, where ever that leads.Of further note... I thought about changing my age, since that seems to be a hang up for some. But then good sense overcame me and I decided leaving my real age there would speak to how much I love who I am. I am full of life's experiences and lessons. I have worked with Zulu babies in South Africa, studied with Shamen in the Amazon and done a walkabout with the Aboriginies of Australia. I'm not your average sit on the couch with a six pack kind of guy. I am accessable, engaging, down to earth and cuddly all at the same time. I'll beat you at Monopoly or lose to you at Balderdash, but I'll always leave you asking when we can see one another again.I'm really tiring of this incessant *** see it as a time waster. I'm not ashamed to show you where I live or the toys in the garage, but that is only a small part of the man. If you're afraid to meet me and have some facetime then you probably aren't for me anyway. However if you want to meet over coffee and converse, we might just have a chance. Send me a note and we'll see if we can match! A nice easy meal at a waterfront restaurant with a libation and a companion who is a brilliant conversationalist. We can decide the rest as we go.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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