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Allan, 53

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About Me

I like to take long walks, I have lost ***lbs and have discovered excersize and slimming down is fun.---small projects, helping others,volunteering for my community , working overtime at my job.Being Debt free. I like working on my old house at my leisure. I also like NOT working on it at times when I get lazy,lol. I am looking for a girl, that appreciates a guy that opens doors for her,a girl that is interested in marriage but want's to date for a while,I beleave the most important thing in a relationship is love but followed close by respect and trust,Someone to take trips with and vacations, my best friend and more, she likes to hold hand's.She has to have a sense of humor the wearder the better.that just makes her more fun and funny.A girl that can make my soul smile. Meet for coffee, but at a restaurant, not a coffee shop, we may want to stay and have diner!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

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    Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 49-59

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