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Neil, 53

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Hello,I’m originally from the east coast but always felt more at home in CA, so in 89 I persisted in finding a job out here (old school -- no internet!) I then packed up and moved without knowing a soul out here. Best decision I've ever made, I guess you could say I’m adventurous.Here’s how I see myself and qualities I strive to have (and value in others):Witty, warm, confident, centered, outspoken, empathetic, loyal, sincere, affectionate and I make a great cup of coffee. Humor is a big part of my personality; I’m the funniest person I know :-). I’ll be the first one to laugh at myself -- can’t take life too seriously.For fun I’m game for almost anything, exploring, long drives, live music (partial to blues), hiking, movies ( I look for sleepers). Lately I’ve gotten into disc golf, it’s a lot of fun -- and I’ve never played regular golf. I like that it’’re not competing so everyone has a good time.It’s clear to me that communication is the most important thing in any relationship; I’ll talk to you about anything you like. Of course most communication is non-verbal so we’ll have a better idea when we meet.I tend to look forward and have a positive attitude, I know that the future is wide open and It’s totally up to me to have my life turn out the way I want, that includes finding a mate with whom we can both thrive (is that you?). I’m generally happy and satisfied with my life and how things are going. People tend to like me and feel comfortable around me.I’m out of a 15 year relationship that ended 2 years ago with integrity (still friends). I look forward to dating with all that I've learned about myself and relationships over the years.I’m looking for someone that I feel comfortable with, has similar values and wants a partner to explore with whether it be a hole in the wall eatery, going for a drive, listening to live music, preparing an awesome meal together. It's the journey and who you're with rather than the destination. Easy on the eyes is good too, but really it’s who you are and that we can be ourselves around each other that is most important to me. I don't like olives or zombies. Here’s the youtube video: http://youtu.be/U3sMjm9ElooGood luck, enjoy your journey. I hope you find what you’re looking for and are having fun along the way! Preferably something outside, maybe go for a walk or to a dog park if you have a dog. Coffee or drinks are fine too, as long as we can talk and look into each other's eyes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

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  • Ross

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    Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 50-60

    Hi, This is hard talking about yourself but here goes!.I’)I’ve been divorced for 10 years a couple of long term relationships which didn’t work out for various reasons some me, some them, but some great lessons in life have been learned, not going dwell on that its history and I’m only interested in going forward a better person.I have two great kids girl 24 and a boy 21 nether live with me, my son still at home with he’s mum (god bless her lol).I enjoy socialising with friends and family which I’m close too.I love to travel which is a pain when single or travel in a group of guy’s which is fun at the time but not what I’m in to if you get my meaning.I’m ever the optimist my glass is always half full and try to treat every day as if it was my last, good thing will come to those who can wait? Or those who go out passionately and grab it!.I’m easy going but no push over with a good sense of humour, I’m passionate, tactile and very loyal, I don’t tell lies and I detest anyone who does.My ideal partner would be a sporty rock chick or someone in to their music I’m in to live music enjoy gigs from the 02 to the local pub, or on the softer side don’t mind a bit of classical if it’s live.I enjoy playing golf at the weekends if that’s a problem there’s always a compromise. Don’t what to bore you anymore but if you are interest get in touch!!.P.S We all have baggage but it’s how we deal with it upfront and honest!, it’s no longer baggage!!!.P.P.S You must be a great kisser x Somewhere quite to chat.

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