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Carmela, 44
United States, Vermont, Burlington

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About Me

**Update** You can take the girl out of the country but you can't take the country out of the girl! I was raised I'm the country and am just a country girl at heart and love anything outdoors. I am a confident, independent, christian mom of 4 wonderful grown kiddos and 7of the most beautiful grand kids ever. I'm pretty laid back and easy going, I believe life is to short to sweat the small stuff. I'm not a diva but I'm not a tom boy either. I'm just me, somewhere in between. I like to fix myself up and look nice, not for anyone other than for myself, when a woman feels good about herself, it shows.-shirt and boots. I'm just a no nonsense kinda gal, what you see is what you get! Like me or not, I'm still gonna keep on being me and not change for anyone! The only reason I'm back on here is that I believe there is someone out there for everyone, whether I find him on here or not remains to be seen, so I've decided to not just set back and expect him to knock on my door. I figure if you don't put yourself out there, you're not gonna be noticed....lol What I'm looking for is someone true to themselves, sweet, funny, caring, real, honest, faithful, fun, maybe a little dangerous....lol, stable and romantic, someone with whom I can feel completely at easy with as well as him with me. What I'm not looking for is someone who is fake, who will tell me what he thinks I want to hear cause he thinks it will impress me, someone who thinks he can change me into someone I'm not, I'm not looking to be another notch on your bed post or be your "friend with benefits", As I stated in the beginning, I am a Christian, I do go to church and love my relationship with God. I'm not trying to be mean or be a snob, I just know what I want and don't want! If you are in anyway shape or form someone I'm not looking for, please go on the next profile and don't waste either of our time, she may be more your type. I would like to get to know you a little on here, so don't be asking for my number with the first message either cause you wont get it....lol Something we both will enjoy and can get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Fitness / Gym Internet Browsing Japanese Mexican Portuguese Biography Documentary Drama Fantasy Dance Golf
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm just looking for a normal, kind, honest, & handsome guy to get to know & see where it goes from there. I am a very positive, fun person & I dont like to be around negative people. So if you are always complaining about your job, life, family, neighbor, etc... please do not write me :-). My time is very valuable to me & when I am not working I enjoy being with my family, friends, & the people i care about. I would like to meet someone who I enjoy being with because they are my best friend as well as my partner. Because I want to make that time for them, not because I feel like I have to. I am very comfortable being alone rather than with the wrong person. I've tried online dating before & did meet some nice people. So I will try it again & see what happens this time. At the end of the day, anyone can try and be someone they are not. Until you meet, you just do not know.Oh & P.S.~Just because I don't have a full body shot does not mean Im fat! I will keep my bikinis for the beach :-). "Average" body type, to me, means that I do not run triathalons, but I do workout & take good care of myself. P.S.S.~My phone signs me on here automatically, or just never signs me off?!? I'm not sure. So I am not always on this site. Im sorry if I dont respond in a timely manner.Thanks for taking the time to read about me :-).Ok~I have to update this...FYI~ A lie is a lie. Please do not lie about your age, height, marital status, children, body type, having a job, etc. Lying is not a good first impression on anyone. Also...I love looking at dogs, cats, fish, the ocean, cars, motorcycles, grass, flowers, food, boats, sunsets, beaches, houses, buildings, rainbows, etc...but where are YOU & what do YOU look like :-)?!? Good luck in your search!

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I encourage the same. Positive and optimistic people. I don't have time to play games and I am a fun outdoor, yet hopeless romantic, seeking the same with time and friendship. Do not want a man who isn't self-confident, nor unsure of his actions. I am looking for a gentle man , who is a hard working and has his own job, car and confident. A athletic tone body and a structured ,yet simple life of laughter and fun is a plus. I am a lady in 40s although people and friends tell me I do not look any where near my age. A Gentleman,who is capable, responsible and confident,,, WITH HIS OWN CAR AND JOB.

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am honest, caring and trustworthy. I like the simple things in life... the park, taking a walk, going to the zoo or just staying in and watching a movie.I like to help others, and I like to meet new people. I like to laugh and have fun, but I also know when to be serious and responsible. My friends and family are important to me, and I like to spend time with them. Life is so much better when you can share it with someone. So, if you want to get to know me, send me a message. Take a leap of faith. :)PS. My hair is NOT red. I've been told it looks red in my pics. It must be the lighting. It's blonde. Also, if you're expecting sex after dating me for a week (like most guys on here), move on! I have morals/standards. My idea of a first date would be to meet somewhere public. There would be no pressure, and we could talk and get to know one another.

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