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Esperanza, 45

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About Me

I am 44yrs old and I love the simple things in life., I think being able to laugh at yourself is a great quality in a person. I have read profiles on here where people talk about not wanting drama or being drama free and honestly i dont think the drama is the issue i think its all in how u choose to deal with drama is what can make or break a relationship. And I also believe communication is key to any kind of relationship. Lets see things i love doing taking off early on a warm saturday morning and hitting as many garage sales as one can find i love them also like resale shops,antique shops even goodwill always in search of that treasure Im also not above finding things on the free section of craigslist. I enjoy the outdoors love to ride fourwheelers and taking off to have a picnic somewhere. Im always open to trying new things we dont have to have everything in common. Those to boys are the best thing i have ever done... They are ages 10 and 11 kinda started having my kids later in life but wouldnt change it for anything. Got all my runnin done early and was ready to have my family. I have really no regrets I am who I am today because of my past and Im ok with that. Well if u would like to get to know one another send me a message and we will go from there.. :-) Im just doing a update of my profile it is now September ***nothing really has changed did some camping with my boys this summer and loved every minute of it. My boys are now back with there father for the school year and I find myself pretty lonely I just wish I could find someone decent that really is interested in having a relationship. It is now April ***and Im still on this silly site are there any good guys out there that live within a 50 mile radius of me Im begining to wonder. First date really doesnt have to amount to a whole lot other then meeting and seeing if there is a spark..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Bertha

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    About me:I'm a Mother 1st with 2 teen sonsA soldier 2nd, joined at ***still in)I'm hard workingIndependent and very honestI Love to laugh and make ppl smileI'm analytical and creativeI'm adventurous and love trying new thingsI'm versatile in most all areas of life ask about the rest~~~~~~~~~~~~Up date~~~~~~~~~~~~The Infamous question of How and Why I joined the Army at 40!!! How; We were in "war time" and the age to enter was 42.As to Why: Determination, and Sheer Will to give my sons a good example of dedication, perseverance, and to Never give up on their dreams.. I feel it is more important to lead by example then to tell them what they need to do!!

  • Esmeralda

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I finally quit smoking!!! (Just had to say that!) I want a good, honest man, and I know ya'll want good,honest, women. (Well most of ya'll) But in my case I haven't had much luck with that department. Honesty is few and far between on here, but what do you do? Move on, live and learn, continuously looking for the honest ones! And I have met some honest ones too, but it still usually never pans out. :)And I think you guys are right when you say it is crazy to talk about myself In this section. In person is always much better, so not looking for anymore "text buddies" LMAO. Divorced mother of 2 teenagers, boy 14 and girl 16. I love them but they will move on eventually, which means I will have an empty nest.I am easy going, I like to have fun and all the normal stuff, maybe some not so normal, lol.! They always say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Well, if that is true, I should have turned into the She-Hulk by now!! PS. If I add you to my "favorites" and don't contact you immediately it's because I move slow sometimes!! I am up for anything fun! Just ask!

  • Josefina

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Well how does one describe themselves...? Do I tell you all about my wants and dislikes? Do I tell you about my hobbies and what I'm into...? Where did I grow up? How did I get to the place in my life where I am right now? Where would I rather be...? Where is the most interesting place I've ever been...? If I reveal all of these interesting tidbits about myself, what will we have to talk about when we get together in person? In short, I like a lot of the same things other people like- to read, go out with friends, travel, relax, movies, History, Rock-n-Roll as well as Classical, go to local art shows and cultural events.... You want details ask me...******Update - So there's no misunderstanding - I WILL NOT be giving you my phone number until we have met at least 1 time in person. I do not want some one I consider s stranger to have my phone number. If this is a deal breaker do not bother reading any further and wasting your time or mine by contacting me. If we decide to meet- we can confirm date, time, location(which will be in a public place) and what we will each be wearing on here the evening before or the morning of...I'm looking for someone who is not into head games first of all... I like a man and friends who are confident and mellow but can also cut up on occasion... Some one who is kind and compassionate and can laugh at himself just as easily as he can with someone else... He should be in a stable job he's happy in and have his "stuff" together... He doesn't have to be rich but being happy in his life and with those around him is more attractive to me... Most of all I'm looking to meet someone to go out and have a fun time with, maybe start as friends and see where that takes us.... I really do not like "getting to know" someone via *** texts, the subtlety and nuance of face to face are just not there and there is to much room for some sort of misunderstanding... I prefer, if someone is interested in me to say they'd like to get to know me and we can meet up. For a first date or get together- I think something easy like going for coffee or drinks is good. It gives you a chance to get to meet and learn a little about the person. It is low key and can always be carried over into something longer if both of us are having a good time, we can exchange phone numbers and make plans for another time in the near future or we can go our separate ways. By the way, I have stopped asking men out first.... It doesn't seem to get anything accomplished when I suggest we meet in person in fact for some reason it seems to drive them away...???? This doesnt mean I have a defeatist attitude it just means that if youre interested enough to *** couple of times you should be interested enough to at least spend the time to meet up for coffee or drinks and get to know me in person. If you're interested in meeting face to face please says so and we'll discuss date, time and place....

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