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Bonnie, 42

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About Me

Looking for an exceptional man! I am looking for my counter point or soulmate in the universe. I know it sounds corny but I truly believe the right man for me is out there. Someone who is like minded and fun. I believe he is looking for me as well. Are you him?; I have four children, two boys (both grown and gone) and two girls (11&6) who still live with me. I love my family and believe that family ties are very important. I believe that I am a pretty strong woman and have been through some trying times in my own life to get to this decision. I am a very open minded person on many things. I believe in the unvarnished truth, so if you truly don't want my opinion don't ask. I am loyal to a fault and will always stand up for what is right. I am unfortunately of the all or nothing mind set. When I make up my mind to do something then I go at it with full force, but when I see no need in effort I put none forth. I enjoy being around people socially; however, I do not need a lot of random people in my life to feel that it is complete. I am as comfortable dressed to the nines in a nice dress and heels (love them) as I am in cut offs, tank top and flip flops. I enjoy culture, but also enjoy just hanging out at a bon-fire. I love the sun and water. I also love cinema, books, horseback riding, quads, jet skis, hiking, camping, museums, traveling to places that I have never been to before and revisiting many places that I have been to. I like great conversation, am an avid believer in public display of affection (as long as it is appropriate and not lude). I am very much a girl but am not scared to get dirty either. I do not like bugs! LOL I am looking for someone who knows his own mind and is able to think out of the box. Someone who is capable of having an intelligent conversation for more than two minutes. Someone with goals and aspirations in his life. Someone who genuinely is looking for someone to have a relationship with. I am not into speed dating or flings. I want someone who will encourage me to be the best person I can be, as I will him. Someone with an optimistic outlook on life. I want to find someone who truly is looking to find happiness in his future. I want to find someone who is ok with me being me and him being himself as I have learned you can't change people and if you try you make yourself and them very miserable. I do not do drugs, nor am I looking for someone who does... and yes if you are a pill popper and they aren't required then you are. I don't drink excessively but I do drink socially. I am not a person who has to have alcohol in their lives daily. I am ok with a man who drinks socially but not excessively and knows when to say when. I am not looking for a man to raise (I have my own children). OK... it seems this could go on and I am sure that I have left lots out, so ... if you have a question and have taken the time to read this far... just ask and I will be happy to answer. Thanks for taking time to read. :D Something out of the box! How great is your imagination?I don't really think dinner in a noisy restraint is a good idea, and the movies (although I love movies) aren't really a great place to be able to talk and get to know someone. Perhaps coffee or dinner in a quite place... if everything goes well maybe a walk near a lake or on the beach where we can talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I encourage the same. Positive and optimistic people. I don't have time to play games and I am a fun outdoor, yet hopeless romantic, seeking the same with time and friendship. Do not want a man who isn't self-confident, nor unsure of his actions. I am looking for a gentle man , who is a hard working and has his own job, car and confident. A athletic tone body and a structured ,yet simple life of laughter and fun is a plus. I am a lady in 40s although people and friends tell me I do not look any where near my age. A Gentleman,who is capable, responsible and confident,,, WITH HIS OWN CAR AND JOB.

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Well how does one describe themselves...? Do I tell you all about my wants and dislikes? Do I tell you about my hobbies and what I'm into...? Where did I grow up? How did I get to the place in my life where I am right now? Where would I rather be...? Where is the most interesting place I've ever been...? If I reveal all of these interesting tidbits about myself, what will we have to talk about when we get together in person? In short, I like a lot of the same things other people like- to read, go out with friends, travel, relax, movies, History, Rock-n-Roll as well as Classical, go to local art shows and cultural events.... You want details ask me...******Update - So there's no misunderstanding - I WILL NOT be giving you my phone number until we have met at least 1 time in person. I do not want some one I consider s stranger to have my phone number. If this is a deal breaker do not bother reading any further and wasting your time or mine by contacting me. If we decide to meet- we can confirm date, time, location(which will be in a public place) and what we will each be wearing on here the evening before or the morning of...I'm looking for someone who is not into head games first of all... I like a man and friends who are confident and mellow but can also cut up on occasion... Some one who is kind and compassionate and can laugh at himself just as easily as he can with someone else... He should be in a stable job he's happy in and have his "stuff" together... He doesn't have to be rich but being happy in his life and with those around him is more attractive to me... Most of all I'm looking to meet someone to go out and have a fun time with, maybe start as friends and see where that takes us.... I really do not like "getting to know" someone via *** texts, the subtlety and nuance of face to face are just not there and there is to much room for some sort of misunderstanding... I prefer, if someone is interested in me to say they'd like to get to know me and we can meet up. For a first date or get together- I think something easy like going for coffee or drinks is good. It gives you a chance to get to meet and learn a little about the person. It is low key and can always be carried over into something longer if both of us are having a good time, we can exchange phone numbers and make plans for another time in the near future or we can go our separate ways. By the way, I have stopped asking men out first.... It doesn't seem to get anything accomplished when I suggest we meet in person in fact for some reason it seems to drive them away...???? This doesnt mean I have a defeatist attitude it just means that if youre interested enough to *** couple of times you should be interested enough to at least spend the time to meet up for coffee or drinks and get to know me in person. If you're interested in meeting face to face please says so and we'll discuss date, time and place....

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    The first things people usually notice about me: I\'m a very down-to-earth person and am easy to get along with. love books, movies, shows, music. Would like to meet a nice person, non-hysterical.

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