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Harlan, 54

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About Me

This city desert makes you feel so coldIt's got so many people but it's got no soulAnd it's taking you so longTo find out you were wrongWhen you thought it had everythingI moved to North Bay ***years ago from the G.T.A. and I am looking for a partner.I am employed and just recently bought a condo, so no I do not live in my parents basement and collect welfare.Was on this site when I first moved up here, trying to meet someone, but to be honest I found the women kinda strange. It seems that they were just looking for an ego boost, not interested in anything serious. I guess that is why there are a lot of the same faces.I love living up here, really enjoy the outdoors, even at ***degrees.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cortez

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    Man. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 51-61

    Hello, and thanks for taking the time to stop in for a look.I'm very easy-going, non-judgmental, quick to smile, slow to anger, quick to forgive, very patient, but can sometimes be annoying....but then can't we all??? LOL.I live with 3 cats who are quite considerate about letting me share their home.Like any cats, they are sure that the house belongs to them, and that I am here only because they allow me to be.As such, they are not shy about voicing their disapproval when any changes are made.I like to joke, tease, poke fun, but never in a malicious way. As such, I have no problem having a joke cracked at my expense, being teased, etc. It's gotta be a two-way street in this as in all things. Too many people spend their lives deep in debt, which leads to stress and discontent.I'd rather have fewer toys and the time to enjoy them, than be killing myself trying to pay for things that I have no time to enjoy.I loathe being in debt. If I cannot afford to pay cash, I will do without.I do smoke, but have been gradually cutting back with an eye towards quitting. Am down to about 10 smokes/day. Baby steps.I consider myself a "considerate" smoker (a line I've adopted from someone else's profile). I will always go outside for a smoke if I am around non-smokers, even in my own house. I will almost never smoke in my own car if there is a non-smoker riding with me.Observation: A lot of people say they're looking for someone with "no baggage".The measure of a person is in how they carry that baggage.I've made my living as a musician, sound-tech, light-tech. I've done road-construction.I've done heavy labor, I've shoveled cow-shit, I've cleaned floors and windows.I have done delivery jobs, and have been a driver in vehicles up to 5-ton trucks.I just recently retired from a tech-In my opinion, honor lay not in the job you do, but in the pride you take in your work.I've always tried to do a good job, both at work, and in life.I am not one to rush into a relationship.Ultimately I am looking for a long-term partner....someone to grow old with, to share home and hearth, to laugh together in good times, and support each other through bad, but I recognize that in any serious relationship, you must be friends first, so that's where I am looking to start.Happy fishing to all.....may you all find what you seek. Let's you and I talk about that...

  • Winfred

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    Man. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 48-58

    I like walks on the beach, I work-out, I like craft shows, shopping, going bike riding ,go to the movies,out to eat.anything fun and safe. I Know how to treat a woman and show her the attention that she deserves. I'm looking for a woman that is ready to be spoiled with affection, compassion, compliments and loyaty. I'm enjoyable to talk to & great listner. I adore my woman and anticipate seeing her, even simple things are more exciting with her by my side. Look forward to meeting my speacial woman or soul mate. first should be a meet and greet,,for coffee to talk and get to know each other..

  • Jae

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    Man. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 48-58

    This is where being a poet would come in handy lol but all that good stuff could come later.Im a no nonsense type of guy who has a zest for life loves to joke and laugh and explore where the wind may blow But I am getting tired not sharing these things with a special someone.Ive been divorced for awhile kids are gone and theres a big world out there to explore. I do like the sun and water most things outdoors like fairs outdoor cafes camping boating but also staying home to a good home cooked meal and movie also works for me.I am easy to get along with pretty laid back and ya still believe in love and romance.Lifes challenges hasnt worn me down but has created a outlook of gratitude mixed in with a child like wonder of the world. I dont drink nor hang out in bars but do like a good meal and live music in a local bar.Im not looking for a penpal or someone living in perpetual fears but for a warm caring woman who wants a real partner in thier life and would like to explore life and all its wonders together. Interested...would love to chat and see what shakes out A nice cozy restaurant with great ambiance and a quiet walk after

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