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Xavier, 52

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About Me

I’m a freelance writer who honestly believes we're just artifacts of the random motion of sub-atomic particles. Unfortunately, i've found that this belief is of only limited utility when having one’s prostate examined or answering the question “Do I look fat in this?”I’m passionate about ideas; interested in almost everything. I can talk intelligently about things I know absolutely nothing about. Except hockey.’s knees were still good. I’m open to new ideas, activities and experiences. When not checking ten times to make sure the oven’s off and the door’s locked, I have mastered a zen-like calm.Much to my surprise, I have discovered that I actually do suffer fools well. This means that I will be able to get along with those friends of yours that you’ve had so long that you can’t really remember why they’re your friends. As well as family members who get shunted off to the “I don’t know where to put them” table at weddings.I’m reserved, rather than gregarious. Loyal, supportive and undemanding, without a hint of jealousy. I do, however, insist on honestly answering questions asked of me, on the generally false assumption that an honest answer is desired. I will repeat this, even immediately after suffering the consequences of the first answer. It’s a feature, not a bug.I’m pretty down to earth (which i think just means that I never have, and likely never will want to own a watch that costs more than my last car), easy going and undemanding. I can’t imagine life without bacon. I like kittens and hard liquor. I refuse to pay $12 for a drink in a martini shaped glass, even if it is an actual martini. The first book report I ever wrote, in Grade 4, was on a book by Mickey Spillane. I have been known to give a copy of “The Myth of Sisyphus” to babies as birthday presents. I also have a fondness for actuaries.There is one particular Red-winged Blackbird in High Park who insists on attacking me every time I walk past his tree. Finally, sitting by a lake with a bottle of Jack on a clear moonless night, the milky way tucked in around me, is the kind of artifact I can truly celebrate.So, what am I looking for? Either someone who, based on my picture, thinks I’m hot, or someone who finds the above appealing. Someplace well-lit and with metal detectors, given that, in my experience, quasi-intellectual women are usually packing heat. Or we could just go for a coffee or a drink on a patio.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jose

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    Man. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 51-61

    I like traveling ,watching sports both live or tv, but nowhere near hooked on it, love to go out and just as happy staying home to just chill... I like to work out , go for walks, l even go to yoga :) can't believe that lol... I love all types of music... love going cruising in the car or riding...both bicycle and motorcycles. Like volunteering and like to help others. I like going to church but not a fanatic. Most importantly I am a family man and they mean a lot to me. I come from a large ltalian family ***siblings). I plan to retire next year and would love to find someone to enjoy, love and grow old with. I am not a big fan of of selfish or self centred people . If my family is not as important as yours than I am definitely not the person for you. I am your friend for life and I want my partner to be crazy for me as I would for her. Would love to hear from those with kind hearts. Less than 1 year and I will retire ...will consider moving for that special woman... First date can be just about anything... however I would love to get to know someone from the inside. Talks on the phone, a simple walk, the traditional go for a coffee thing, Im okay with a movie on a first date but most importantly wherever you would like to do would be fine by me :) so do not be shy I am open to almost anything.

  • Geoffrey

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    Man. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 48-58

    Looking to keep it simple. Hoping to find an attractive fun, mature woman that enloys life. Can travel. Someone that does know how to laugh. Not affraid to be herself in every way. Being fit is always a good thing, but if your into only eating salads then we have a problem lol. Im italian and i cook , food , well good food and i come from a big family that does have alot of get togethers it is a part of our culture as is close ties with family and friends.One more thing, i still spell with an accent but do make up for it in the kitchen.Life isnt ment to be taken to serious, sometime cracking a smile to a perfect stranger can make thier day,,,,Not going to list my wants or expectation, just looking to talk , meet see where it goes. Keep it simple for now.If you know who you and what you want in life with no loose ties or issues, then talking is a good start. Who is wealthy?........One that is happy with what they have...yea and a large back account does help. lolToronto Spice.....the underground food sceen,,,,do you dare !P.S> Tight pants were not made for men. If a man wears pants where you can see the change in his pockets, he should use that to call his tailor............ A walk on the beach while its rainning :)))

  • Demetrius

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    Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 50-60

    My mom told me i can't date pretty women or one's with tattoo's,,they will only break your heart,LOL...I'm not going to sugar coat my profile,,i am who i am,,take me or leave me,,you decide,,otherwise read on and see what you think...Gonna be honest,,in case you missed it,,I AM A SMOKER,,..Ok,,where to start,,i'm not into the bar seen anymore,,grew outta that like most people that hit 40,,first off i have a sence of ha ha,,easy going,laided back,,confident,,i love good communication,,i'm flexible,,i believe in options,,not one sided relationships.Open minded will talk about anything,,the stars the moon,,list goes on.I also like dancing when i do get a chance,,fast or slow,,sober or not..Like watching sports but not important..Stock Car Racing is my passion and a person should understand this,,i enjoy my stock car racing and being part of a race team. Oh and by the way,,no photo,,no reply.I do not travel.I DON"T DATE LOOKS,,( i date a personality. ) Do we really know what a good first date is,,you meet up and hope on attraction which leads towards another,,i like eye contact,,oh ya and last date i went on,,her cell phone rang,,talked for half hour,,guess what,,date was ruined.Have some respect.

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