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About Me

Hello, and thanks for taking the time to stop in for a look.I'm very easy-going, non-judgmental, quick to smile, slow to anger, quick to forgive, very patient, but can sometimes be annoying....but then can't we all??? LOL.I live with 3 cats who are quite considerate about letting me share their home.Like any cats, they are sure that the house belongs to them, and that I am here only because they allow me to be.As such, they are not shy about voicing their disapproval when any changes are made.I like to joke, tease, poke fun, but never in a malicious way. As such, I have no problem having a joke cracked at my expense, being teased, etc. It's gotta be a two-way street in this as in all things. Too many people spend their lives deep in debt, which leads to stress and discontent.I'd rather have fewer toys and the time to enjoy them, than be killing myself trying to pay for things that I have no time to enjoy.I loathe being in debt. If I cannot afford to pay cash, I will do without.I do smoke, but have been gradually cutting back with an eye towards quitting. Am down to about 10 smokes/day. Baby steps.I consider myself a "considerate" smoker (a line I've adopted from someone else's profile). I will always go outside for a smoke if I am around non-smokers, even in my own house. I will almost never smoke in my own car if there is a non-smoker riding with me.Observation: A lot of people say they're looking for someone with "no baggage".The measure of a person is in how they carry that baggage.I've made my living as a musician, sound-tech, light-tech. I've done road-construction.I've done heavy labor, I've shoveled cow-shit, I've cleaned floors and windows.I have done delivery jobs, and have been a driver in vehicles up to 5-ton trucks.I just recently retired from a tech-In my opinion, honor lay not in the job you do, but in the pride you take in your work.I've always tried to do a good job, both at work, and in life.I am not one to rush into a relationship.Ultimately I am looking for a long-term partner....someone to grow old with, to share home and hearth, to laugh together in good times, and support each other through bad, but I recognize that in any serious relationship, you must be friends first, so that's where I am looking to start.Happy fishing to all.....may you all find what you seek. Let's you and I talk about that...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Eli

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    Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 49-59

    Where am I at? Better yet, where am I going?Like the title says, Time for a change, I'm getting restless.I'd like... a lot of things actually, lol, ok whats realistic? I'm at a place right now where just about anything is possible. I have some loose ends to tie up, then hopefully, on to my next adventure. I've been sitting on this bus long enough, time to ring the bell and get off to see whats at the next stop.Thoughts: a move is possible, I can work anywhere. Travel, can never do enough of that. Play hockey, golf, etc., I miss yoga (so do my muscles and my mind). Socializing, my friends are all over the place now.Dating/relationships, there's an interesting subject. I'm not desperate but it sure would be nice to have someone in my life again. It could certainly alter or shape my puzzle differently. That stuff takes time thought (as it should), I suppose it would depend on the person how long that would take to figure out.My hope is you can say the same. I'm not perfect and I don't expect perfection. I'm not 20 anymore and it shows (although i have to keep reminding myself of this), but I am fit, athletic and make some effort to take care of myself. I don't generally feel or act what the calendar won't let me otherwise deny. I try not to be too judgmental. Heck as long as your always wearing a smile, what more could I ask for.p.s. I am smoking again, but working on giving it up. We all have our flaws, momentary or otherwise. I'll cut you some slack too.OK, lots more to figure out. I'm looking forward to seeing how it comes out though. Anything from sharing a drink somewhere, or a walk, to some other leisure or athletic activity.

  • Tracey

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    Man. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 48-58

    Hi there!I am looking for someone that is affectionate,has a youthful and playful spirit, tempered with maturity. Someone that likes physical outdoor activies, that is in reasonably good shape and is attractive. I like to travel, enjoy learning about new people, places and history of other cultures. Day trips, weekend get aways are great also. I am looking for someone that has learned and grown from the past, good and bad, rather that having just moved on. Someone that can go from camping to a formal night out. I own a tux. Utimately I am looking for a partner with shared common values and can pursue future goals with. I think through our lifetime of experiences we are more cognizant of our likes, dislikes and are more assertive in expressing our wants and needs. Initial chemistry and attraction is a good start, fuelling us with the desire to know more about each other. A long-term relationship will naturally develop between two people over time, as they have the opportunity get to know the other person and measure mutual compatibility. If this happens, you will have a devoted loving and loyal partner. A picture gives some indication of physical attraction. A few *** talking on the phone can offer more insight to each other, while meeting in person is really required. I put average as "body type", but would say I am fit. Sorry but I can't be with anyone that smokes and a reciprocal picture is appreciated as this is just part of the process. If this approach resonates with you, send me an *** me on your meet me or favorite lists. If I put you on my favorite list and you are interested, just put me on your's.There is a "shite" load of people looking out there......somebody has to yell BINGO! I don't like "just coffee" and there is not a "catch all" "first date" relating to meeting via this forum but something where you get to relate and communicate with each other would be best. The setting should be one that both find comfortable and should ultimately be enjoyable regardless of the outcome,leaving both feeling more enriched for the encounter than they did before meeting. If there is an attraction, then with a little imagination, the possibilities are endless for the subsequent dates.

  • Keneth

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    Man. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 48-58

    Love animals. Take great pleasure in walking my dog. Like to go to the movies.Love to cook. I work full time and am self reliant. Have most weekends off and would like someone to share new experiences.looking to find someone that enjoys life has to offer) Meet for a coffee or social drink. Get to know each other and see if there is a connection. Dont be shy drop a line..Leaving site soon any women out there?

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