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Cortez, 54
United States, Pennsylvania, Willow Grove

Offline, last seen Tue, 13 Jan 2026 18:02:49

About Me

Hello, and thanks for taking the time to stop in for a look.I'm very easy-going, non-judgmental, quick to smile, slow to anger, quick to forgive, very patient, but can sometimes be annoying....but then can't we all??? LOL.I live with 3 cats who are quite considerate about letting me share their home.Like any cats, they are sure that the house belongs to them, and that I am here only because they allow me to be.As such, they are not shy about voicing their disapproval when any changes are made.I like to joke, tease, poke fun, but never in a malicious way. As such, I have no problem having a joke cracked at my expense, being teased, etc. It's gotta be a two-way street in this as in all things. Too many people spend their lives deep in debt, which leads to stress and discontent.I'd rather have fewer toys and the time to enjoy them, than be killing myself trying to pay for things that I have no time to enjoy.I loathe being in debt. If I cannot afford to pay cash, I will do without.I do smoke, but have been gradually cutting back with an eye towards quitting. Am down to about 10 smokes/day. Baby steps.I consider myself a "considerate" smoker (a line I've adopted from someone else's profile). I will always go outside for a smoke if I am around non-smokers, even in my own house. I will almost never smoke in my own car if there is a non-smoker riding with me.Observation: A lot of people say they're looking for someone with "no baggage".The measure of a person is in how they carry that baggage.I've made my living as a musician, sound-tech, light-tech. I've done road-construction.I've done heavy labor, I've shoveled cow-shit, I've cleaned floors and windows.I have done delivery jobs, and have been a driver in vehicles up to 5-ton trucks.I just recently retired from a tech-In my opinion, honor lay not in the job you do, but in the pride you take in your work.I've always tried to do a good job, both at work, and in life.I am not one to rush into a relationship.Ultimately I am looking for a long-term partner....someone to grow old with, to share home and hearth, to laugh together in good times, and support each other through bad, but I recognize that in any serious relationship, you must be friends first, so that's where I am looking to start.Happy fishing to all.....may you all find what you seek. Let's you and I talk about that...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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